Hey there! Sign in to join this conversationNew here? Join for free

First time, I just couldn't get it up Watch

    • #1
    • Thread Starter
    #1

    (Original post by banterboy)
    stop idealising her as perfect. This might be giving you anxiety. You are good enough for her, that's why you have her. Not being terrified of screwing things up might help the **** do its thing, and make sure you don't fall into the trap of being needy, on a more general note/.
    Thanks for the advice

    Easier said than done though. Life affects you, it affects your confidence. Mine is pretty low. And the fact that I've never had any luck with girls, it doesn't help. I don't look really good. She's the opposite of all that.
    • #1
    • Thread Starter
    #1

    (Original post by Virgili)
    Ok here's what you do, foreplay kiss her neck and put your finger in and then get her to put the condom on you while she's blowing you, grab her hair while she's doing it and then bite her lip, then throw her back onto the bed and put it in.
    That's exactly what I did!

    I asked her to put the condom on she said "no I'd rather have you do it". Okay... Then I asked her if I could have a BJ to try to get it up again (that was the last thing to try) and she said not the first time with a guy. Hmmmm...
    Offline

    2
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    That's exactly what I did!

    I asked her to put the condom on she said "no I'd rather have you do it". Okay... Then I asked her if I could have a BJ to try to get it up again (that was the last thing to try) and she said not the first time with a guy. Hmmmm...
    Sounds like she's neither as experienced or confident as she makes out.
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    That's exactly what I did!

    I asked her to put the condom on she said "no I'd rather have you do it". Okay... Then I asked her if I could have a BJ to try to get it up again (that was the last thing to try) and she said not the first time with a guy. Hmmmm...
    she sounds like a crap lay and basic *****, I'd dump her and find a better girl
    Offline

    2
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Oh Baby)
    she sounds like a crap lay and basic *****, I'd dump her and find a better girl
    Guys a virgin can't be too picky. I say make all the mistakes you want with this one and the next girl that comes along then you won't have this problem. Just don't fall for her.
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Virgili)
    Guys a virgin can't be too picky. I say make all the mistakes you want with this one and the next girl that comes along then you won't have this problem. Just don't fall for her.
    yeah I guess, but she doesn't sound like long term relationship material
    • #1
    • Thread Starter
    #1

    Too late I think. Yeah it's not like I can have another one lol even if I wanted to. I've been single all my life. Once in my life a girl loves me and wants to have sex with me, plus she looks great, That's a great opportunity
    Offline

    16
    ReputationRep:
    So this post is about a lost condom..... omg

    Could have just turned the light on and found it? Don't think it could have slithered out of the room loool
    Offline

    19
    ReputationRep:
    Anxiety leads to floppy little sausage. Calm down relax start breathing
    Offline

    1
    ReputationRep:
    Viagra.... Has no one mentioned this yet ?
    Offline

    13
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by samina_ay)
    So this post is about a lost condom..... omg

    Could have just turned the light on and found it? Don't think it could have slithered out of the room loool
    I can imagine it did
    • #1
    • Thread Starter
    #1

    (Original post by samina_ay)
    So this post is about a lost condom..... omg

    Could have just turned the light on and found it? Don't think it could have slithered out of the room loool
    Nah, when I said I had lost it I didn't mean the condom but the erection. I knew where the condom was and I had others if needed.
    Offline

    16
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Nah, when I said I had lost it I didn't mean the condom but the erection. I knew where the condom was and I had others if needed.
    Tell her to play with it till it erects
 
 
 
Reply
Submit reply
TSR Support Team

We have a brilliant team of more than 60 Support Team members looking after discussions on The Student Room, helping to make it a fun, safe and useful place to hang out.

Updated: April 5, 2016
  • See more of what you like on The Student Room

    You can personalise what you see on TSR. Tell us a little about yourself to get started.

  • Poll
    Would you like to hibernate through the winter months?
  • See more of what you like on The Student Room

    You can personalise what you see on TSR. Tell us a little about yourself to get started.

  • The Student Room, Get Revising and Marked by Teachers are trading names of The Student Room Group Ltd.

    Register Number: 04666380 (England and Wales), VAT No. 806 8067 22 Registered Office: International House, Queens Road, Brighton, BN1 3XE

    Quick reply
    Reputation gems: You get these gems as you gain rep from other members for making good contributions and giving helpful advice.