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Will it be hard to have a relationship if i dont like oral sex? watch

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    (Original post by TorpidPhil)
    No...
    so you also think that oral sex sucks!
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    (Original post by fatima1998)
    so you also think that oral sex sucks!
    I didn't say that. I was just conceding it is rather dirty.

    I love dirty sex.
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    Personally, this would be a deal-breaker for me because I enjoy both giving and receiving. It would mean we were sexually incompatible, and unfortunately I would not be willing to limit myself in that way.

    For other people, it's not so much an issue. Everyone has their likes and dislikes, and it's about finding a partner who is the right fit for you (which makes things all the more difficult, because you have mix sexual compatible with moral values, goals etc).
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    (Original post by TorpidPhil)
    I didn't say that. I was just conceding it is rather dirty.

    I love dirty sex.
    ok :sigh:
    see ya
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    (Original post by TorpidPhil)
    Well to be fair it really is. I mean the mouth is quite a... exclusive place. Touching mud with our hands, or even our genitals seems far less disgusting than licking it... And rightly so because licking it means it is going inside us.
    A lady giving oral to a man can be a bit disgusting.

    But I think that a man giving oral to a woman is lovely, as long as shes clean.

    A man loves a lady so much that he wants to taste her, including her vagina. Thats quite romantic and sweet. Most ladies get aroused alot by being given oral which is a positive thing.
    Theres nothing bad about it. A man can rinse his mouth afterwards, and he has a happy, aroused lady at the end of the day.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    A lady giving oral to a man can be a bit disgusting.

    But I think that a man giving oral to a woman is lovely, as long as shes clean.

    A man loves a lady so much that he wants to taste her, including her vagina. Thats quite romantic and sweet. Most ladies get aroused alot by being given oral which is a positive thing.
    Theres nothing bad about it. A man can rinse his mouth afterwards, and he has a happy, aroused lady at the end of the day.
    Where do you get that from? Firstly, dicks are easier to clean than vaginas (note - not vulvas).

    Secondly pissing out of a penis is way cleaner and easier than pissing out of a vulva.

    If we're talking about clits vs penises, maybe, but otherwise... No?

    Granted my sample is hardly large but personally I find semen to be far palatable than vaginal juices... And of course doing oral on a girl, depending specifically on how you do it, you're more prone to experiencing those juices than you are pre-*** or actual *** when doing it on a guy (and pre-*** doesn't have much of a taste anyway).

    Either way though I don't disagree. Giving oral to a girl is awesome. It's such a turn-on it is ridiculous.
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    I think if you're male, it's a big disadvantage. Most women really enjoy it, also since the main event doesn't tend to get them there. If you're female I think it's easier, although personally I would miss this intimacy and giving pleasure.

    Gross in concept, great in practice. And as others have said, not so different from kissing. Mind you does come with some STI issues which people like to forget.
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    I expect that for some men it would be a deal breaker, given the influence of porn on many young men today.
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    It completely depends on the person. There are other forms of stimulation and you should never feel pressured into doing something you don't like. There are other forms of pleasure! If you're in a relationship with someone and you're comfortable with doing so, buy a book and look through it together to find positions, etc. that you both might find enjoyable without making either of you uncomfortable.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Foreplay can include more things than oral though right.

    If you can get diseases from oral without a condom hows it irrational.
    Have you already tried?
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    (Original post by barnetlad)
    I expect that for some men it would be a deal breaker, given the influence of porn on many young men today.
    Perhaps just because it feels good?
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    lol no dnt be retardred
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    If you ride well enough you can make up for it
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    Every one is different. Some may see it as vital, others may not. It's best to be with someone with a similar attitude, but then again you might find some one who is happy to compromise and/or doesn't mind that you're not in to stuff like that.
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    Oral (going down) is my favourite kind of sex. If my GF didn't like it, I'd still love her and want to be with her, but I'd have a much less enjoyable sex life.

    BJs do nothing for me. They make me think of porno, women being exploited by men or doing it just because they think they should rather than enjoying it.
 
 
 
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