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    (Original post by LittleMissMay)
    Oh my guy has kids one is my age, the rest older except his son who I got mad at my guy and told him keep it up and I'll date your son ...lol our relationship has been different ever since but I was angry
    I mentioned that as i didn't want op to think i was having an affair with a married man who has a family and im trying to break it up. However he has many neices and nephews who he helps look after alot he treats them like they are his own lol.
    This guy is 41 im 24 .
    Lol what did he say to that?
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    And the men aren't? You don't think the man is damaged for having a girlfriend that could be his daughters age?

    Damn, the double standard mate.
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    (Original post by chikane)
    I mentioned that as i didn't want op to think i was having an affair with a married man who has a family and im trying to break it up. However he has many neices and nephews who he helps look after alot he treats them like they are his own lol.
    This guy is 41 im 24 .
    Lol what did he say to that?
    He looks damn good though, I thought he was in his 40s. I'll show you a photo!!!! brb
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    (Original post by LittleMissMay)
    I'm 23 and my guy is 52

    And he obviously got pissed lol now he's kind of scared of me
    (:mwuaha:)
    and we took a break but he can't leave me alone.
    (Original post by LittleMissMay)
    He looks damn good though, I thought he was in his 40s. I'll show you a photo!!!! brb
    Lol he is going to worry everytime he sees you and his son together . Why would he stay away he probably feels younger and alive being around you.
    I can't show you a pic of mine sorry
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    (Original post by Twinpeaks)
    And the men aren't? You don't think the man is damaged for having a girlfriend that could be his daughters age?

    Damn, the double standard mate.
    The guys are too
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    (Original post by chikane)
    Lol he is going to worry everytime he sees you and his son together . Why would he stay away he probably feels younger and alive being around you.
    I can't show you a pic of mine sorry

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    not really it just means I know I want and I am willing to face the consequences
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    (Original post by LittleMissMay)

    He has a hot body
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    (Original post by chikane)
    He has a hot body
    I knoowww would you think his fine ass is in his 50's :curious:
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    (Original post by LittleMissMay)
    Oh my guy has kids one is my age, the rest older except his son who I got mad at my guy and told him keep it up and I'll date your son ...lol our relationship has been different ever since but I was angry
    His children are older than you? :lolwut:
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    (Original post by Josb)
    His children are older than you? :lolwut:
    2 of them, problem? :lolwut:
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    (Original post by Josb)
    His children are older than you? :lolwut:
    Look at this photo
    http://i.imgur.com/UKvmK7Q.jpg

    I bet you don't look as good and you're half, maybe 1/3 his age
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    (Original post by LittleMissMay)
    2 of them, problem? :lolwut:
    Yes, that's messed up.

    (Original post by LittleMissMay)
    Look at this photo
    http://i.imgur.com/UKvmK7Q.jpg

    I bet you don't look as good and you're half, maybe 1/3 his age
    I'm the same, but how will he look in 10 years?
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    (Original post by LittleMissMay)
    Look at this photo
    http://i.imgur.com/UKvmK7Q.jpg

    I bet you don't look as good and you're half, maybe 1/3 his age
    Hahaha
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    (Original post by Josb)
    Yes, that's messed up.



    I'm the same, but how will he look in 10 years?
    :hand:
    (Original post by chikane)
    Hahaha
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    (Original post by Sad Beta)
    I meant are the girls damaged soz

    The girls arent necessarily mature though
    lol wat

    (Original post by Alice__90)
    What sort of age are we talking? I'm 25 dating a 35 year old. I wouldn't say I'm damaged, I just prefer older guys as they're less likely to be going out getting drunk at clubs etc. I've got a kid so I'm not into that scene.
    oooOOOoooo someone has trust issues and assumes to much
    (Original post by LittleMissMay)
    Can we say the same for males who date older women? I mean really.
    why not? OP thinks so

    my opinion on this matter however varies differently
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    (Original post by thefatone)

    why not? OP thinks so

    my opinion on this matter however varies differently
    What are you referring to.
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    (Original post by LittleMissMay)
    What are you referring to.

    your post where you said

    (Original post by LittleMissMay)
    Can we say the same for males who date older women? I mean really.
    ^^this
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    (Original post by thefatone)
    lol wat


    oooOOOoooo someone has trust issues and assumes to much

    why not? OP thinks so

    my opinion on this matter however varies differently
    Why does that mean I have trust issues? It's nothing to do with that, it's about wanting the same things out of life. If a guy wants to go out all the time then our lifestyles just won't be compatible.
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    (Original post by Alice__90)
    Why does that mean I have trust issues? It's nothing to do with that, it's about wanting the same things out of life. If a guy wants to go out all the time then our lifestyles just won't be compatible.
    you assume to much and don't trust that young people aren't all the same

    understood but what if a young guy, not as old as 35 or something, wants to date you and doesn't go out a lot?
 
 
 
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