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    I think this is a bit of a myth. If anything I think other women are more judgemental of promiscuous women.

    Yes guys use words like slut, whore as insults, but they're using these more just to be hateful towards women rather than out of being offended that the girls are exercising their sexual choice.

    My view on promiscuous women is the same as my view on promiscuous men.....if they brag about it and talk about it all the time then I think it's naff and tacky. If they don't go on about it then it's all good for me.
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    (Original post by Zarek)
    Firstly, it's a bit of a fallacy. From what I've seen if a girl is attractive in body and mind guys don't give a hoot how many partners she's had, they're just keen to join the list.
    I think that's true if it's just to have sex but I think it's different when it comes to looking for a relationship.

    I think the way most guys look at it has been said really. If you want another way to look at it: if a key opens multiple locks it's a master key, if a lock is opened by lots of keys it's a crappy lock.


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    (Original post by Eternalflames)
    Hahaha :lol: ( to the bit in bold)
    I don't think women who are more sexually active would have looser vaginas either
    People who say that are full of rubbish lol. If childbirth has a slight impact on the width of the vagina, what makes people possibly think that sex with multiple dicks (probably at a max length of 7") would make any sort of impact the way a BABY does?
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    I don't mind girls who sleep around because I sleep around myself. I'm of an age where my relationships tend to be strictly for fun, so providing the girl has no STIs/Ds and picks my fancy then I'm happy. It's sometimes a plus as she knows what she's doing, too.

    I'm not saying I go with every girl who sleeps around as like many lads, some are desperate. I just don't mind a girl who does sleep around.
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    (Original post by Novascope)
    Would you have an issue with a girl saying they find you unattractive and "not a challenge", who has an increased risk of STD's because you've slept with multiple women?
    I wouldn't have an issue with it because they probably do say that ha. It's different for guys though isn't it. not saying it's fair but that's the way life is
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    (Original post by Darien91)
    Unattractive
    Unlikely

    shows she's not a challenge
    Ego

    I'd worry she'd cheat, more people to compare me to in sex
    Insecurity


    baggy vagina, loose
    False


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    btw when I say multiple partners I don't mean like 3, I'm talking 30/40+

    Also, not the girl is unattractive.. the fact she'd slept around is unattractive. ask any boy if they were interested in a girl and she said oh I've had sex with 25 people I guarantee you they'd be put off. maybe not enough to stop pursuing things but definitely lose some brownie points
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    (Original post by Mayhem™)
    To me, it shows that the girl is easily satisfied (lack of challenge is bad) and she isn't likely to be committed.
    Mayhem...

    I am currently listening to mayhem.



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    (Original post by Darien91)
    btw when I say multiple partners I don't mean like 3, I'm talking 30/40+

    Also, not the girl is unattractive.. the fact she'd slept around is unattractive. ask any boy if they were interested in a girl and she said oh I've had sex with 25 people I guarantee you they'd be put off. maybe not enough to stop pursuing things but definitely lose some brownie points
    lol at the irony.....
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    (Original post by loveleest)
    4 sexual partners at once or throughout her lifetime?
    hahaha 4+ sexual partners at once would certainly be interesting :lol:

    No I mean individuals she's had sexual contact with up to the age of about 25ish, regardless of the number of occasions.
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    (Original post by Darien91)
    I wouldn't have an issue with it because they probably do say that ha. It's different for guys though isn't it. not saying it's fair but that's the way life is
    (Original post by Darien91)
    btw when I say multiple partners I don't mean like 3, I'm talking 30/40+
    Realistically though how many average women have that many sexual partners? Unless they are an escort or a nympho?

    Why is it different for men though? People need to just calm down with this double standards ****. As long as nobody is carrying around STD's, ruining marriages/relationships or doing anything illegal who cares if a man or woman has had 2, 20 or 200 sexual partners? If that turns you off, or you don't find people like that "relationship/marriage material" then who cares? Because not everyone on this planet wants a serious relationship or even marriage. So it really shouldn't bother you how many people a woman has slept with.
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    (Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes)
    Unlikely
    In my experience it's quite accurate that the girls who are less attractive sleep around more. Based on my own opinions the less attractive girls I know have slept with a lot more people than the hottest girls I know.

    I think the person meant sleeping around is an unattractive part of someone rather than meaning if she sleeps around she's probably munted


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    (Original post by BhagwanNoBhool)
    hahaha 4+ sexual partners at once would certainly be interesting :lol:

    No I mean individuals she's had sexual contact with up to the age of about 25ish, regardless of the number of occasions.
    4 is nothing? lol
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    (Original post by Novascope)
    Realistically though how many average women have that many sexual partners? Unless they are an escort or a nympho?

    Why is it different for men though? People need to just calm down with this double standards ****. As long as nobody is carrying around STD's, ruining marriages/relationships or doing anything illegal who cares if a man or woman has had 2, 20 or 200 sexual partners? If that turns you off, or you don't find people like that "relationship/marriage material" then who cares? Because not everyone on this planet wants a serious relationship or even marriage. So it really shouldn't bother you how many people a woman has slept with.
    where I'm from, lots

    and I don't know why, it just is and it's always been that way
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    (Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes)
    lol at the irony.....
    How is that ironic?
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    (Original post by Eternalflames)
    Is this even true?
    Helen was worried xD
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    (Original post by trustmeimlying1)
    Helen was worried xD
    Why would I be worried?
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    (Original post by Underscore__)
    In my experience it's quite accurate that the girls who are less attractive sleep around more. Based on my own opinions the less attractive girls I know have slept with a lot more people than the hottest girls I know.

    I think the person meant sleeping around is an unattractive part of someone rather than meaning if she sleeps around she's probably munted


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    But I don't understand why it's unattractive? It not like it affects your sex life in anyway, infact it probably makes it better, no?
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    (Original post by Underscore__)
    In my experience it's quite accurate that the girls who are less attractive sleep around more. Based on my own opinions the less attractive girls I know have slept with a lot more people than the hottest girls I know.

    I think the person meant sleeping around is an unattractive part of someone rather than meaning if she sleeps around she's probably munted


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    And how do you know if the hottest girls aren't lying about the amount of people they slept with?
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    (Original post by Underscore__)
    I think that's true if it's just to have sex but I think it's different when it comes to looking for a relationship.

    I think the way most guys look at it has been said really. If you want another way to look at it: if a key opens multiple locks it's a master key, if a lock is opened by lots of keys it's a crappy lock.


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    I really hate this analogy, human nature can't be simplified to something this arbitrary.

    At least use the evolutionary argument to back up your point. Men (of all cultures I can think of) tend to have an aversion of promiscuous women because from their perspective, women with numerous mates are less statistically likely to bare that particular male's offspring. Therefore the genes that promoted an attraction to less promiscuous females tended to be passed on more often. That's quite literally human nature.
 
 
 
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