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    (Original post by Fxbszmn)
    No omg. You're free to do whatever you want with whoever you want!
    How much did the escort cost
    160 for an hour, but without the agency it will cost me 80 for a n hour,she was actually really nice and we spoke for a bit about stuff,she wasn't amazingly hot,but defo better than what I could get.It was a bit awkward though haha.I'm glad it wasn't with a gf or girl I like when I think about it, as I probably seemed quite pathetic, like the way I cuddled her and such, didn't really take control either I let her do that. Though I did touch/do what I wanted. And the fact she said to relax and that I was nervous, that and she said when I contact her to say it was her baby, yeah she called me that haha because of the way I wasn't really dominant, that and I was probably the youngest she's been with.
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    I assume you find it easy to get girls, in which case you wouldn't understand.
    No actually. Yet I don't give up straight off the bat and go **** a prostitute. That's seriously low and it really does tell people something about the kind of person you are. If you're the type of guy to go and sleep with a prostitute at only 18 years old, then that is surely an indicator that you're also the type of guy girls don't want to date. There's a reason for why he can't get a girlfriend. Work on that and there you go. And it's not necessarily about looks, girls usually like confident, well dressed/groomed, polite/respectful guys, not teenage trash that are desperate for sex.

    PS: You can't "get girls", they're not objects so don't treat them like they are. That's a good step towards becoming a better person and possibly one step closer to "getting girls"
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    Where were you escorted too?
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    (Original post by John55)
    Where were you escorted too?
    His bed. Then to complete euphoria I bet.
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    Really. Do you have a problem with gays then? If you don't, it's time to realise that sexual intercourse between any two or more consenting non-blood related adults is perfectly fine in most cases - same as homosexual relationships.
    Of course I don't have a problem with homosexuality. I never said the sole act of having sex is wrong, it's the fact that one member of the party (or more) is actually selling their body in exchange for sex. Just what the **** man. Not to mention the risk of STI's, unwanted pregnancies, issues with the law etc.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    The answer is so obvious it shouldn't even be a question.
    Well what is the answer if it is so obvious?
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    Mate, I read that and it's the exact same thing that happened to me don't feel bad, I was in no position to talk to girls (confidence) and just thought if i died tomorrow at least I can say I lost my virginity, no regrets whatsoever 6 months later, but I did go back twice, what I would say is don't go back, your craving intimacy and you're just temporarily filling that filling, 6 months later I'm soo much more confident with not only talking to girls but life in general it's ridiculous because it feels like a weight has been lifted off your shoulders,
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    What's the refund policy of your local brothel?
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    (Original post by joecphillips)
    Well what is the answer if it is so obvious?
    There are multiple, just human respect and decency for one. The fact that you're selling and in multiple ways exploiting your body in exchange for money and/or other, materialistic goods. STI's are another thing, obviously, and condoms only protect so much. It's also the fact that this guy is talking about trying to get a girlfriend, and then going off and ****ing a prostitute. Now what does that imply? That he was desperate, and just wanted to **** someone he has feelings for? Doesn't getting an 'escort' go against what this guy said he's looking for?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    So after a few years of trying to get a gf, and no success, and a few crushes that just left me sad, I said **** it and got an escort.
    I'm 18 and she was 19.
    I was quite nervous/awkward and I don't really regret doing it, like I am going back to her when I get the money, but I feel somewhat like I've done something wrong, obviously I would have liked to lost my virginity to one of the girls I was in love with, but I can't talk to girls over text(I'm ****ing terrible at reading signals and flirting), that and the girl I was in love with was 15 so even if she did like me back...I wouldn't have had sex with her. So I feel slightly regretful that it wasn't to someone special, but I did enjoy it. Is it wrong to get an escort(morally speaking).
    It was slightly awkward as she was taller than me, haha, but I really wanted a bit of intimacy with a female, like I hadn't kissed a girl before her(though it wasn't a proper kiss, no tongues) and I cuddled her a lot as well, did what I wanted to do and touched what I wanted to. I wore a condom so I'm not worried about disease. Was it wrong of me?
    How tall are you? How tall was she?
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    No actually. Yet I don't give up straight off the bat and go **** a prostitute. That's seriously low and it really does tell people something about the kind of person you are. If you're the type of guy to go and sleep with a prostitute at only 18 years old, then that is surely an indicator that you're also the type of guy girls don't want to date. There's a reason for why he can't get a girlfriend. Work on that and there you go. And it's not necessarily about looks, girls usually like confident, well dressed/groomed, polite/respectful guys, not teenage trash that are desperate for sex.

    PS: You can't "get girls", they're not objects so don't treat them like they are. That's a good step towards becoming a better person and possibly one step closer to "getting girls"
    I do dress well and I've been told by multiple friends I am too nice to them. I can't really say I have a lot of confidence, and I'm not good at talking to girls.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Of course I don't have a problem with homosexuality. I never said the sole act of having sex is wrong, it's the fact that one member of the party (or more) is actually selling their body in exchange for sex. Just what the **** man. Not to mention the risk of STI's, unwanted pregnancies, issues with the law etc.
    So you want to police everyone's actions limiting them.
    If people are happy doing it why shouldn't they?
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    no, women are commodities and you are paying for that commodity just see it that way pal
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    How tall are you? How tall was she?
    I'm 176cm tall so 5 gt 9 and she must have been 5 ft 10/11
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    There are multiple, just human respect and decency for one. The fact that you're selling and in multiple ways exploiting your body in exchange for money and/or other, materialistic goods. STI's are another thing, obviously, and condoms only protect so much. It's also the fact that this guy is talking about trying to get a girlfriend, and then going off and ****ing a prostitute. Now what does that imply? That he was desperate, and just wanted to **** someone he has feelings for? Doesn't getting an 'escort' go against what this guy said he's looking for?
    as I said I wanted some intimacy. What I'm looking for is more long term/preference. But an hour of feeling loved was better than nothing. I also feel more positive about life.
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    Mate, I read that and it's the exact same thing that happened to me don't feel bad, I was in no position to talk to girls (confidence) and just thought if i died tomorrow at least I can say I lost my virginity, no regrets whatsoever 6 months later, but I did go back twice, what I would say is don't go back, your craving intimacy and you're just temporarily filling that filling, 6 months later I'm soo much more confident with not only talking to girls but life in general it's ridiculous because it feels like a weight has been lifted off your shoulders, and ignore the idiots who are putting you down, they're arguments make no sense, athletes exploit the body they were given for money and materialistic goods, does that make it wrong? f**k no
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    Why wont you answer my questions? Do you hate me?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    There are multiple, just human respect and decency for one. The fact that you're selling and in multiple ways exploiting your body in exchange for money and/or other, materialistic goods. STI's are another thing, obviously, and condoms only protect so much. It's also the fact that this guy is talking about trying to get a girlfriend, and then going off and ****ing a prostitute. Now what does that imply? That he was desperate, and just wanted to **** someone he has feelings for? Doesn't getting an 'escort' go against what this guy said he's looking for?
    Are models similar in your view? They sell and exploit their bodies for money.
    STI's isn't that true for all sex? It would be easier to eliminate stis if prostition was legalised.
    What is human respect? The only definition I could find was putting someone's opinion in place of your own conscience which you are not doing.
    Human decency is all about morals and everyone is different in this respect, would the people who go on these slutwalks lack human decency?
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    (Original post by John55)
    Why wont you answer my questions? Do you hate me?
    No refunds unless she comes with an arm or leg missing, you must keep the box though, and she escorted me to my bed........
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Yes, it is wrong. Escort is just a word you use to hide the fact that you're just ****ing a prostitute, which is illegal I believe.

    That is quite a sad story. Instead of being desperate and getting an 'escort' why don't you better yourself as a person and maybe then you'll find a gf? I mean the fact that you actually gave up on getting a girlfriend and got an escort instead speaks for itself, not sure you're the type of person girls want to date.
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    You were only 18 and that desperate???????
    The level of projecting and assumptions here are hilarious. Funny how it would probably be okay if a girl did it.

    Then again for me personally I've never really cared about relationships so I can't relate.
 
 
 
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