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    About a month ago, girl told me she was creeped out by a dude who wished her happy birthday over the phone as she only knew him for one week.

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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I didn't say that too her but I didn't want her to think I dreamed of ****ing her, surely that's more creepy than just dreaming about being with her
    Not at all, sexting is quite common for a reason, of course if your affection is completely not shared it will be dismissed as creepy, whereas this is by all accounts, just creepy.
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    Saying 'in a non dirty way' makes it worse tbh...it's best not to mention dreaming :rofl:
    yeah I was really pissed at that point lol
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    How do I proceed then :/ ? I said sorry if it was creepy and I didn't mean it to be
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    How do I proceed then :/ ? I said sorry if it was creepy and I didn't mean it to be
    How many messages have you sent her and how many has she sent back?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    How do I proceed then :/ ? I said sorry if it was creepy and I didn't mean it to be
    You don't. Quit being a muppet and ask her, at least she'll respect you for owning up to it.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)

    Don't think because I forgot your eyecolour I don't love you, I dream of you, in a non dirty way and I just want to cuddle you xx
    Yea not creepy at all, especially the last bit
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    (Original post by Impressive)
    About a month ago, girl told me she was creeped out by a dude who wished her happy birthday over the phone as she only knew him for one week.

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    ?? this is when I don't give a **** about girls and their emotions
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    (Original post by DanteTheDoorKnob)
    You don't. Quit being a muppet and ask her, at least she'll respect you for owning up to it.
    ask her what
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    Idek I don't find it creepy. It's kinda sweet- if it was from someone you'd wanna hear that from lol
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    ask her what
    Out. Ask her out.
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    (Original post by 0to100)
    ?? this is when I don't give a **** about girls and their emotions
    This is just the way of showing how some people can find certain things creepy. Although it's based more on whether the person is sociable or mainly shy.

    Women for instance will most likely have higher affection rather than men thus making things a bit more complicated with relation to being able to distinguish between wrong and right intentions.

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    (Original post by Arima)
    Yeah.... it's kinda ingenuous after you got the eye colour wrong??? How can you love someone if you forget their eye colour? Must not be very close then.. so yes. It is a tad creepy.
    If you just knew what Arima did to Ken
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    well I didn't want to make her think I dreamed of ****ing her haha, but I do dream about her, like doing stuff, or kissing in the moonlight and just being with her, then I wake up no longer in a euphoric state and feel **** haha
    sounds sweet now that you've explained it here but first impression is what a creep' and you haven't explained this to her so...
    sorry
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    your eyes remind me of the deep blue sea, your face reminds me of a beautiful flower, you're fun to be with and you're sweet.
    Edit(I was drunk when I sent this and got her eye colour wrong haha)
    she replied, umm I have brown eyes laughing face
    I then said
    Don't freak out but I love your hair couldn't think of anything though,haha
    Don't think because I forgot your eyecolour I don't love you, I dream of you, in a non dirty way and I just want to cuddle you xx

    I was pretty drunk so I know I shouldn't have sent it, is that creepy?
    Doesn't sound creepy - it sounds lovely!
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    It sounds very creepy.
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    (Original post by Ishea16)
    sounds sweet now that you've explained it here but first impression is what a creep' and you haven't explained this to her so...
    sorry
    I should say this to her then?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I should say this to her then?
    you'll have to be careful if you do because you dont want her thinking that youre being too defensive...
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    I'd be pissed of you got my eye colour wrong
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    I found it creepy, and I'm a bloke.
 
 
 
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