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    (Original post by Richci)
    I've dated several Bisexual girls in the past, doesn't bother me at all.

    I happen to know that some guys are threatened by it (more opportunities for their girlfriend to think others are better than they are). I even saw it happen once, a good friend of mine had his girlfriend leave him for a girl haha.

    I think honestly though, it's a bit silly. Like I said, it wouldn't bother me at all and I don't think it should bother others.
    That is so ****ing dumb to be threatened if [you 're] dating someone bi and they leave you for the other sex?! It's like they're not doing it because that person was necessarily better in bed they're just into...the other sex...so it's kinda a given like. I wouldn't take it personally. But if anything they should all have a 3some
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    (Original post by 0to100)
    Bisexual female and mixed race? Sounds like the dream lass.
    Haha well, I'm glad you think so. I hope more people think like you, then I wouldn't have to worry at all.
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    (Original post by 0to100)
    That is so ****ing dumb to be threatened if [you 're] dating someone bi and they leave you for the other sex?! It's like they're not doing it because that person was necessarily better in bed they're just into...the other sex...so it's kinda a given like. I wouldn't take it personally. But if anything they should all have a 3some
    Yeah, I think it's stupid too. I just happen to know a lot of people think this way haha. Like I said, it's never stopped me in the past and it never will.
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    (Original post by Richci)
    Yeah, I've seen that mindset a few times. People seem to forget that you don't choose what you do and don't like... But there we go! As long as you do what makes you happy and end up with someone who feels the same, it's all good.
    Yeah, I think it can be hard for people to understand the concept. That's true too, my happiness and my future partners happiness is what counts, nothing else.
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    Just my 2 cents but mixed race girls (at least in my area) are considered the hottest, definitely wouldn't be worrying about that, that'll work in your favour for sure.


    Like others have said, the being bisexual part is potentially an issue as some guys may find it threatening that they could be dumped for a girl or just be freaked out by the extra competition. I know I wouldn't really be bothered if my girlfriend was bisexual unless she keeps complaining about men and seems to like women more! Will also work in your favour as girl on girl is a major turn on for manyyy men (including me).

    Definitely wouldn't worry, bisexual mixed race female is a real man winning combo.
    Love yourself, your heritage and your sexuality. You'll be fine
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    (Original post by senpyi)
    Haha well, I'm glad you think so. I hope more people think like you, then I wouldn't have to worry at all.
    What're you mixed with and how long ago did you realise ur bi?
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    (Original post by henrypoole97)
    Just my 2 cents but mixed race girls (at least in my area) are considered the hottest, definitely wouldn't be worrying about that, that'll work in your favour for sure.
    My area as well where are you
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    (Original post by 0to100)
    My area as well where are you
    finsbury park, north ldn , you?
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    (Original post by 0to100)
    What're you mixed with and how long ago did you realise ur bi?
    I'm White and Black Caribbean. I realised I was Bi about 3 years ago but everyone kept telling me that it was phase so I began to believe them. It was only this year that I knew I was definitely Bi and nothing anyone else could tell me would change that.
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    (Original post by henrypoole97)
    Just my 2 cents but mixed race girls (at least in my area) are considered the hottest, definitely wouldn't be worrying about that, that'll work in your favour for sure.


    Like others have said, the being bisexual part is potentially an issue as some guys may find it threatening that they could be dumped for a girl or just be freaked out by the extra competition. I know I wouldn't really be bothered if my girlfriend was bisexual unless she keeps complaining about men and seems to like women more! Will also work in your favour as girl on girl is a major turn on for manyyy men (including me).

    Definitely wouldn't worry, bisexual mixed race female is a real man winning combo.
    Love yourself, your heritage and your sexuality. You'll be fine
    Yeah, I can understand why that would put a lot of guys on edge. Thank you though haha, I definitely will be proud of who I am and love myself for who I am
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    (Original post by 0to100)
    oh dear....
    LMFAO
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    (Original post by senpyi)
    Yeah, I can understand why that would put a lot of guys on edge. Thank you though haha, I definitely will be proud of who I am and love myself for who I am
    aha good, that's what really matters , good luck on your hunt for love
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    (Original post by henrypoole97)
    aha good, that's what really matters , good luck on your hunt for love
    Yes aha, thank you, you too
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    (Original post by henrypoole97)
    finsbury park, north ldn , you?
    Oh you're in london I'm in brum but I get why mixed race girls would be rated where you are

    (Original post by senpyi)
    I'm White and Black Caribbean. I realised I was Bi about 3 years ago but everyone kept telling me that it was phase so I began to believe them. It was only this year that I knew I was definitely Bi and nothing anyone else could tell me would change that.
    Oh that is lovely that is. Do you mind me asking your age?
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    Oh that is lovely that is. Do you mind me asking your age?
    Yes I do, sorry. I hope I haven't offended you or anything, I'm just very wary about sharing my age.
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    Someone who doesnt feel strong enough in a relationship, that they have to bring up their partners past. Is this a relationship worth being in?
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    (Original post by BabyChow)
    Someone who doesnt feel strong enough in a relationship, that they have to bring up their partners past. Is this a relationship worth being in?
    No it isn't since you should be able to trust your partner and accept what has happened in the past and move on to make new memories together. However, that's not always how life goes. I know this as I've grown up surrounded by adults who are in relationships and when they are in an argument or even just talking, they bring up their partners past in order to have a jab at them.
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    (Original post by senpyi)
    No it isn't since you should be able to trust your partner and accept what has happened in the past and move on to make new memories together. However, that's not always how life goes. I know this as I've grown up surrounded by adults who are in relationships and when they are in an argument or even just talking, they bring up their partners past in order to have a jab at them.
    Personally i couldnt be with someone like that. If a person has a problem with the person that you are then i think thats a ted flag to begin with.
 
 
 
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