Personally I'd hate being a full time house wife and having to completely depend on my husband for financial matters. I'm too ambitious and have too many things I want to accomplish to limit myself to someone whose day only consists of cooking,cleaning,looking after the children etc.. My mum managed to be the most incredible mother to six children while having her own career too, and I admire her even more for her ambitiousness and ability to find a balance between work and home life.
Staying at home gets so boring after a while
If there are kids, then definitely, especially if you can afford to live on one income.
If there are no kids, then it depends, but you would want them to be looking after more of the chores etc. If you cna afford it then no worries.
If it was just slacking and laziness, then I probably wouldnt be with them anyway.
Not really much reason to be uptight.