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    virginity is a social construct and yes if you view it as significant fine but in reality this doesn't change who you are as a person
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    (Original post by eden3)
    Bro I've just gone through one year of uni and I still haven't even kissed a girl. I don't see any other options. I'm limited by my ugliness.
    That's the thing, you think you have a time limit, you don't, you have all your life.

    On my course everybody used to bang on about how if you were 18 or 19 without a kiss/ girlfriend or sex, you were a loser.

    I believed this bullcrap and as I neared 18, I thought "Oh, I'm gonna be a loser all my life." and so I went to see what it was like and paid a hooker.

    Believe me when I say this, the way you feel now will be nowhere near how bad you will feel afterwards if you do this.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I lost my virgnity to an escort last weekend. I used protection throughout, so that is not what I am worried about.

    I am just feeling so disgusted with myself that I just threw away my virginity like that in such an immoral way. Like when I heard about the footballers hiring escorts, I saw them as filth, and now I feel like I am filth myself...
    Your a silly billy lol
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    (Original post by eden3)
    Bro I've just gone through one year of uni and I still haven't even kissed a girl. I don't see any other options. I'm limited by my ugliness.
    And there is nothing wrong with that. Don't feel like some loser because you haven't done any of that. Personally I now think it is all overhyped and people think they are the **** once they do all of this. That's what I was thinking. But seriously it's not worth it. Just wait until your right time and enjoy uni life.
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    You're not filth.

    You have to move on now.

    There isn't anything particularly special about virginity in itself.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    And there is nothing wrong with that. Don't feel like some loser because you haven't done any of that. Personally I now think it is all overhyped and people think they are the **** once they do all of this. That's what I was thinking. But seriously it's not worth it. Just wait until your right time and enjoy uni life.
    :sadnod:
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    I lost me virginity to a troll
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    Nothing immoral about this. Don't feel ashamed.

    Very few people lose their virginity to somebody they truly love. It is not a holy ritual. It is just sex.

    Accept that this sort of thing is probably not for you. Wait for a nice girlfriend before your next time if you feel that strongly about it.
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    (Original post by Hamoody)
    I lost me virginity to a troll
    Under the bridge?

    http://image.slidesharecdn.com/troll...?cb=1406976518
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    (Original post by eden3)
    Bro I've just gone through one year of uni and I still haven't even kissed a girl. I don't see any other options. I'm limited by my ugliness.
    No you aren't,I'm sure you aren't ugly . You aren't option-less!

    Keep your head up!
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    (Original post by stefano865)
    Nothing immoral about this. Don't feel ashamed.

    Very few people lose their virginity to somebody they truly love. It is not a holy ritual. It is just sex.

    Accept that this sort of thing is probably not for you. Wait for a nice girlfriend before your next time if you feel that strongly about it.
    Are you saying there is nothing immoral about losing my virginity to someone I don't truly love, or there is nothing immoral about hiring an escort?
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    (Original post by Clockrice)
    Are you male or female?
    why would that matter.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Are you saying there is nothing immoral about losing my virginity to someone I don't truly love, or there is nothing immoral about hiring an escort?

    Thought I made it quite clear. :eyeball:
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I lost my virgnity to an escort last weekend. I used protection throughout, so that is not what I am worried about.

    I am just feeling so disgusted with myself that I just threw away my virginity like that in such an immoral way. Like when I heard about the footballers hiring escorts, I saw them as filth, and now I feel like I am filth myself...
    So what? I don't see why you should feel so filthy. I'm guessing you just wanted to lose your virginity. As long as no one got hurt, it's not a problem. But what would be a problem is if it became a habit of yours. Make sure it does't. Also, maybe make up a story for when someone asks you how you lost your virginity (trust me on that one).
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    So? It was a human being. Losing it to a one night stand is no more exciting.

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    (Original post by aesthetic god)
    why would that matter.
    precisely. male = good on you!

    female = such a disgrace!!

    the reality of our society.
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    (Original post by Longshot708)
    That's the thing, you think you have a time limit, you don't, you have all your life.

    On my course everybody used to bang on about how if you were 18 or 19 without a kiss/ girlfriend or sex, you were a loser.

    I believed this bullcrap and as I neared 18, I thought "Oh, I'm gonna be a loser all my life." and so I went to see what it was like and paid a hooker.

    Believe me when I say this, the way you feel now will be nowhere near how bad you will feel afterwards if you do this.

    Why exactly did it make you feel this way?
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    Negative, to a TSR troll
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    (Original post by Longshot708)
    That's the thing, you think you have a time limit, you don't, you have all your life.

    On my course everybody used to bang on about how if you were 18 or 19 without a kiss/ girlfriend or sex, you were a loser.

    I believed this bullcrap and as I neared 18, I thought "Oh, I'm gonna be a loser all my life." and so I went to see what it was like and paid a hooker.

    Believe me when I say this, the way you feel now will be nowhere near how bad you will feel afterwards if you do this.
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    And there is nothing wrong with that. Don't feel like some loser because you haven't done any of that. Personally I now think it is all overhyped and people think they are the **** once they do all of this. That's what I was thinking. But seriously it's not worth it. Just wait until your right time and enjoy uni life.
    (Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes)
    No you aren't,I'm sure you aren't ugly . You aren't option-less!

    Keep your head up!
    You haven't seen me.... :laugh:
    (Original post by abc_123_)
    You're not limited by your ugliness you just haven't found the right girl yet xx everyone makes mistakes
    Tbh sex is overrated anyways xx
    Thanks guys

    A lot of people at uni have made fun of me/make fun of me for having no experience, and I know I shouldn't listen to people but I would be lying to myself if I said it didn't get to me..

    It makes me feel like **** when I realise everyone has been screwing since like 15 and I have only ever been rejected time and time again because of my appearance (something I can't change lol). So nowadays I just try not to think about sex or girls because as soon as I do it makes me realise how pathetic I am and I soon start feeling like **** again

    And I know people say 'oh it'll happen when you least expect it' but I'm starting to become really sceptical of that now.
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    Don't understand why some people pay for sex ?
 
 
 
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