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    Personally, I don't see anything wrong with it.

    If you're both consenting adults then I see nothing wrong with it at all.

    (This is coming from an 18 year old btw)
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    by long term you meant
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    (Original post by LordwinJMA)
    Lol age isn't just a number guys come on.
    Call me old fashioned but I think you should see where the relationship can go before you go any further; because both of you are in very different stages of life; she's only just become an adult (legally) and maturity we don't know about since we don't know the girl. You're 27, probably looking to settle down with a woman, not a girl, of age. I just don't know what's going through your head really (not in the offensive way, I genuinely wonder what you're thinking), like does it even sound right to you to be having sex with a girl 8 years younger than you? When you we 5 her parents hadn't even had sex to make her yet and you were already walking and talking, just think about that
    Oh the irony.
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    (Original post by PharaohFromSpace)
    Oh the irony.
    Trust me
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    (Original post by LordwinJMA)
    Lol age isn't just a number guys come on.
    Call me old fashioned but I think you should see where the relationship can go before you go any further; because both of you are in very different stages of life; she's only just become an adult (legally) and maturity we don't know about since we don't know the girl. You're 27, probably looking to settle down with a woman, not a girl, of age. I just don't know what's going through your head really (not in the offensive way, I genuinely wonder what you're thinking), like does it even sound right to you to be having sex with a girl 8 years younger than you? When you we 5 her parents hadn't even had sex to make her yet and you were already walking and talking, just think about that
    I really cannot see how it's wrong.
    I mean it's completely legal and consensual by the sounds of it.
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    (Original post by LordwinJMA)
    Trust me
    What do you mean trust you, your response to my comment makes no sense

    It's ironic because if you were old fashioned, having a large age gap would be more of a thing, not the opposite.
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    (Original post by GeAiupeso)
    For some reason my thread was closed, I just had some questions.

    The girl is 19 and I am 27. She was a virgin before I entered.

    We are both Indian and come from quite traditional Indian families.

    I think she is absolutely beauty and I feel that I love her and her sex. I'm not using her or anything, I plan to stay with her for the long term.

    Do people feel this is ok? Does it make any difference am that we are Indians?
    I'm guessing you haven't been too successful with the ladies and she's gonna be the best u get so don't ever let her go!
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    (Original post by PharaohFromSpace)
    What do you mean trust you, your response to my comment makes no sense

    It's ironic because if you were old fashioned, having a large age gap would be more of a thing, not the opposite.
    I meant the slang connotation for trust me, as in I agree that what I said was ironic
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    (Original post by JavaScriptMaster)
    I'm guessing you haven't been too successful with the ladies and she's gonna be the best u get so don't ever let her go!
    Lol, I do alright. I find this statement ironic coming from someone who proclaims themselves as the "Java Script Master" lmao.
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    (Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes)
    I really cannot see how it's wrong.
    I mean it's completely legal and consensual by the sounds of it.
    Just because it's politically correct doesn't mean it's morally correct (in my book at least, but he's a different person so I guess his perspective is different)
    I mean there's stories of guys who are intimately in love with their grandmothers and have had children with them, although both people are over 18 and are politically allowed to do whatever they want, does that even sound right to you? "I had a baby with my nan..."?
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    Omg dude, she probably hasn't even left kinder garden yet!

    But seriously, it's probably fine...
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    (Original post by LordwinJMA)
    Lol age isn't just a number guys come on.
    Call me old fashioned but I think you should see where the relationship can go before you go any further; because both of you are in very different stages of life; she's only just become an adult (legally) and maturity we don't know about since we don't know the girl. You're 27, probably looking to settle down with a woman, not a girl, of age. I just don't know what's going through your head really (not in the offensive way, I genuinely wonder what you're thinking), like does it even sound right to you to be having sex with a girl 8 years younger than you? When you we 5 her parents hadn't even had sex to make her yet and you were already walking and talking, just think about that
    An age gap of anything over 9 months would lead to one person being born and the other not having being conceived! That whole "you were 5 when..." thing totally fails to emphasise the age gap. If anything it shows how close in age we are - the same sort of generation.

    She's at second year of university, going onto third year soon. So I would say she has matured.
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    (Original post by LordwinJMA)
    Just because it's politically correct doesn't mean it's morally correct (in my book at least, but he's a different person so I guess his perspective is different)
    I mean there's stories of guys who are intimately in love with their grandmothers and have had children with them, although both people are over 18 and are politically allowed to do whatever they want, does that even sound right to you? "I had a baby with my nan..."?
    I don't think you can compare OP's relationship to an incestuous relationship with one's grandparents...

    EDIT: I love that you did though...
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    (Original post by LordwinJMA)
    I meant the slang connotation for trust me, as in I agree that what I said was ironic
    You've lost me.

    (Original post by LordwinJMA)
    Just because it's politically correct doesn't mean it's morally correct (in my book at least, but he's a different person so I guess his perspective is different)
    I mean there's stories of guys who are intimately in love with their grandmothers and have had children with them, although both people are over 18 and are politically allowed to do whatever they want, does that even sound right to you? "I had a baby with my nan..."?
    Although I agree with the "Just because it's politically correct doesn't mean it's morally correct" bit, that's just incest, which I'm pretty sure is illegal, or at least I hope it is.

    EDIT: Just realised John55 said it first as well.
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    If you are both happy, what do you need our worthless opinions for?
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    That's really weird to me. Yes it's completely legal, but what exactly do you have in common? You're both in completely different stages of your life, and it does ring some alarm bells imo. However, as it is legal, you can do whatever.
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    I know someone from uni dating a lecturer 20 years older than her.
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    (Original post by PharaohFromSpace)
    You've lost me.



    Although I agree with the "Just because it's politically correct doesn't mean it's morally correct" bit, that's just incest, which I'm pretty sure is illegal, or at least I hope it is.

    EDIT: Just realised John55 said it first as well.
    Yeah but you added the thing about incest should be illegal, so you added to my initial point...not sure I agree though, if it's two consenting adults.
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    (Original post by drowzee)
    That's really weird to me. Yes it's completely legal, but what exactly do you have in common? You're both in completely different stages of your life, and it does ring some alarm bells imo. However, as it is legal, you can do whatever.
    What alarm bells?

    She's approaching final year of university. I am three years out of university. We both study similar subjects.

    It's not really a world of difference.
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    (Original post by GeAiupeso)
    What alarm bells?

    She's approaching final year of university. I am three years out of university. We both study similar subjects.

    It's not really a world of difference.
    You said you're 27 and she's 19; an 8 year age gap isn't bad, but considering you're in your late 20s and she's only 19, it is a tad odd. I am in no position to judge as I don't know either of you, so you do you. I just think for most people that wouldn't work.
 
 
 
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