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    (Original post by 99_Problems)
    If she doesn't make you happy then why can't you dump her?

    I understand why older/married people cheat, they have too much invested to leave mortgages, children etc. but why young people with no ties cheat is beyond me. LEAVE HER AND BE WITH SOMEONE WHO MAKES YOU HAPPY ffs. For both your sakes.
    Its not that simple though. I actually lover her a lot. She is a really kind and generous person. Also she has an amazing job; she could provide for both us. I really want to be with her.

    I just don't think she's THAT attractive. I don't find the sexual side of things that enjoyable.
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    Yes. Unless you have an open relationship (that you're both aware of....) you're still sticking your **** in another girl.*
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    Don't marry her. You clearly don't really care about her feelings and you're unlikely to be able to afford to shag a couple of prostitutes a week and bring up kids. When your wife finds out how much money you are spending on sex and not on your family she will probably remove part of your anatomy.
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    thats like saying 'if it happens in a different area code its ok' ?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Its not that simple though. I actually lover her a lot. She is a really kind and generous person. Also she has an amazing job; she could provide for both us. I really want to be with her.

    I just don't think she's THAT attractive. I don't find the sexual side of things that enjoyable.
    Good well she sounds like a good person to be friends with but you need to be sexually attracted to her for the relationship to work. I have lots of friends who are kind an awesome but I don't go out with them because I'm not attracted to them.

    Bare minimum you should have sought her thoughts on an open relationship first but sleeping with others behind her back is just no, it's a really grimy thing to do.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Also she has an amazing job; she could provide for both us.
    Now I see the attraction. So you'd be happy to live off her money and spend it on prostitutes? You really are a decent human being, aren't you?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Basically I love my girlfriend. I want to marry her and start a family together. But she's not that good looking. She's alright, don't get me wrong, she can still turn me on if she dresses really dirty but most of the time I'm actually thinking go other women when making love to her.

    So I have started using escorts. Like 1-2 a week. Its OK they are high class and its all safe fun. I have no emotional attachment to them, I just **** them.

    So my question is - would you consider this as technically cheating?
    Lol, your ****ing hillarious
    If i had a boyfriend and i earned lots of money i would pay escorts to **** him when i don't want to have sex but that's just me but i don't think any other women would like what your doing and would still think it's cheating unless they are very broad minded or you tell them before you do it
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Basically I love my girlfriend. I want to marry her and start a family together. But she's not that good looking. She's alright, don't get me wrong, she can still turn me on if she dresses really dirty but most of the time I'm actually thinking go other women when making love to her.

    So I have started using escorts. Like 1-2 a week. Its OK they are high class and its all safe fun. I have no emotional attachment to them, I just **** them.

    So my question is - would you consider this as technically cheating?
    Yes you are cheating. Please don't marry this women unless you really love her and are attracted to her. Evidently you don't really love her anyway if you're shagging other women, you just think you do. Leave her for a guy that really cares about her
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Its not that simple though. I actually lover her a lot. She is a really kind and generous person. Also she has an amazing job; she could provide for both us. I really want to be with her.

    I just don't think she's THAT attractive. I don't find the sexual side of things that enjoyable.
    I know this is the wrong advice to give you but i don't care but lots of people men and women do the same thing you do but no one really talks about it.
    It's only wrong because she does not know about it so you had better hope she never finds out and she will dump you if you do tell her
    I think it's nice that you love her and still want to be with her and marry her even though she's not attractive but if she got lots of money you should keep her or you won't be able to afford to pay for any more escorts, lol
    Because she is so unattractive she should count herself lucky she is not single
    How come all these unattractive women can get partners but only loser men ask me out ?
    How many men can say their girlfriends earn loads and are generous to them ?
    Even men with beautiful or super model girlfriends still cheat on them or use escorts
    I wish my only problem in life was to have a boyfriend who uses escorts without telling me about it.

    Some men have a fetish for only dating unattractive women
    I think your more in love with her money than her but there's nothing wrong with that either and don't spout that bull about her having a great personality because no one ever dated a person for their personality but women have been doing the same dating/marrying unattractive men for their money for centuries so why should'nt a man ?
    Your thread is hillarious though, it really made me laugh
    Crack on
    I'm sure someone is going to get upset about my reply but just remember it's just my opinion, i did'nt feel the need to get angry about it because it's not that serious a problem. He likes escorts but he loves his girlfriend
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    Now I see the attraction. So you'd be happy to live off her money and spend it on prostitutes? You really are a decent human being, aren't you?
    Er excuse me, no. I work too. Im just saying that she has an excellent job that could potentially provide for both us. But I work as well. And pay from my own earnings.
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    Yes you are cheating. Please don't marry this women unless you really love her and are attracted to her. Evidently you don't really love her anyway if you're shagging other women, you just think you do. Leave her for a guy that really cares about her
    How could you possibly judge the level of my love for her from the internet?

    There is one thing I do, ONE THING - I utilise a professional sex provider to take care of my sexual urges. I respect my gf, i treat her well, I help her when she's down. We are like best friends. We have been for ages.
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    I know this is the wrong advice to give you but i don't care but lots of people men and women do the same thing you do but no one really talks about it.
    It's only wrong because she does not know about it so you had better hope she never finds out and she will dump you if you do tell her
    I think it's nice that you love her and still want to be with her and marry her even though she's not attractive but if she got lots of money you should keep her or you won't be able to afford to pay for any more escorts, lol
    Because she is so unattractive she should count herself lucky she is not single
    How come all these unattractive women can get partners but only loser men ask me out ?
    How many men can say their girlfriends earn loads and are generous to them ?
    Even men with beautiful or super model girlfriends still cheat on them or use escorts
    I wish my only problem in life was to have a boyfriend who uses escorts without telling me about it.

    Some men have a fetish for only dating unattractive women
    I think your more in love with her money than her but there's nothing wrong with that either and don't spout that bull about her having a great personality because no one ever dated a person for their personality but women have been doing the same dating/marrying unattractive men for their money for centuries so why should'nt a man ?
    Your thread is hillarious though, it really made me laugh
    Crack on
    I'm sure someone is going to get upset about my reply but just remember it's just my opinion, i did'nt feel the need to get angry about it because it's not that serious a problem. He likes escorts but he loves his girlfriend
    Im glad you've enjoyed my thread so much!

    The fact is that its nothing to do with money. I was merely stating that this was a very attractive feature about her - that she is in a fantastic job that could support both of us. I work as well, I just don't earn as much. I use a lot of my income to pay for escorts. I don't take money for her or ask her to pay!
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    It's not cheating, when i was going out with an ex gf i used an escort to practise to make sure i would be good enough for her in bed because my worm is small
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    Until she finds out it isn't.
    * If a tree falls in the middle of the forest with no one to observe it, does it make a sound?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    How could you possibly judge the level of my love for her from the internet?

    There is one thing I do, ONE THING - I utilise a professional sex provider to take care of my sexual urges. I respect my gf, i treat her well, I help her when she's down. We are like best friends. We have been for ages.
    It's quite simple really, if you're doing things which you know would hurt someone, you don't really love them, do you? Love is considerate, kind, thoughtful and self sacrificial.

    From what you've said you like each other and you would be great as friends but it doesn't sound like there is a lot of chemistry there. I think you should break up before you hurt her
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    thats like saying 'if it happens in a different area code its ok' ?
    No that is a very poor analogy.
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    I really don't understand how your life can be so boring that you have to amuse yourself by creating ridiculous posts. I also don't understand why people take nonsense like this seriously and get themselves so wound up by it


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    I'm so sick and tired of these trolls. The worse things is we actually respond to them and give them more ammo to fire.

    No more trolls! :banned:




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    No that is a very poor analogy.
    It's a perfect analogy as either one is a ridiculous rational to use.
 
 
 
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