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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    When I found out he had cheated on me last year, he was saying things like how much he had enjoyed kissing her and that he was 'out of practice'. There was no mention of me at all in these messages, though apparently she did know about me. Last time we talked about this he said he understands why I have trust issues with him, but I feel like he's making no effort to fix it and doesn't have the want for me to trust him.*
    your answers are all there, dump his cheating arse. once a cheat always a cheat, there's better men out there to be with rather than wasting your time on this ****wit
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    The title says it all really. I've caught my boyfriend messaging other women on Facebook behind my back, I also found out he cheated on me twice by seeing the messages on his phone and he didn't have it in him to tell me. Every time I try to talk to him about it I get called a 'psycho' and he tries to change the subject. I love him, but this is really getting me down. Please help!
    He cheated on you once and you're still with him? OK you think he deserves a second chance.

    He cheated on you again? He's not gonna stop. Get rid

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    even if messages aren't about sex?
    Yes, that's what I was about to say then just means he's not allowed to talk to any other woman or even have a casual conversation with them.
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    Let him go,not even worth the tears
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    Like most of the people who have replied here, I agree that you should dump him immediately.
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    if its 'secretly' then yes, for definite.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    The title says it all really. I've caught my boyfriend messaging other women on Facebook behind my back, I also found out he cheated on me twice by seeing the messages on his phone and he didn't have it in him to tell me. Every time I try to talk to him about it I get called a 'psycho' and he tries to change the subject. I love him, but this is really getting me down. Please help!
    if he has already cheated on you and he is messaging girls on Facebook behind your back and without your knowledge of what they are talking about. I would get him in front of the computer and tell him to show you the messages. Maybe you should read what he's talking to other girls about.maybe this is not the person for you. I think whenever you do something behind your partner's back without their knowledge and conceal that information because they are fearful that their partner will find out and be upset about it. It's wrong.
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    well, in a relationship couples are supposed to share any secrets they have to each other, so yes, but you could try and start conversations with him with slight hints to show that you know about these secret messages or ask him if he's been messaging or seeing anyone else so that he can come out and tell you himself but act like you don't know anything about this.
    I've tried having conversations with him several times about it but he just denies everything, though I can tell when he's lying. I felt awful going on his phone and seeing those messages, but if he'd just had the balls to tell me then maybe I wouldn't feel so in the dark about it all.
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    man says dump his cheating ass
 
 
 
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