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    Just a note. Unconsciously our brains also stop us. If a man is in a relationship and an attractive lady comes into the room (say a pub/restaurant), she will appear less attractive to the man. The Brain has evolved to try to maintain the pre existing reltionship because it is more likely then that they will reproduce and produce offspring.

    That's all Love is! Your brain tricking you.
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    (Original post by neal95)
    I was thinking more from the woman's perspective I.e that's why males date unnatracitve women
    Oh! So like I'd be the clingy one and he's cheating on me?
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    It's not all about looks. Despite what people want you to think, us men don't all think with our penises and look for the drop-dead gorgeous 10/10 model. As humans, yes we're inclined to go for the more attractive among us, but we also look for other characteristics too.

    Instead of being insecure, understand and find security in the fact your partner is with you and appreciates YOU and YOUR BEAUTY.
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    A: Insecure/uninspired. Never lower your standards for anyone :hand:
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    Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
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    Attractiveness is not only about looks, personality is a big part of it too. There are many aspects to desirable femininity. And of course what you can command and what chances your way is part of the equation. Have a bit more faith in yourself though.
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    Imagine being with someone who is a 10/10 but is a sh*tty person inside.
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    option 1: hes not telling you the full story about the girl and she rejected him

    option 2: he was too afraid to ask so just settled for you

    option 3: hes really fond of your personality - when you see someone as being beautiful on the inside they automatically look beautiful on the outside.

    sorry to be blunt but those are the three things it could have been
 
 
 
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