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    (Original post by Foo.mp3)
    Depends on the situ e.g. if they're relatively mature/immature, chill/bitter, and cool/awkward. Gotta use your own sense of discernment :yy:
    True 😊
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    @Foo.mp3 I've realised I was the one who looked annoying & clingy even tho I wasn't. I waS the one whoforget he's got his own life. Is moving on still the best option
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    @Foo.mp3 I've realised I was the one who looked annoying & clingy even tho I wasn't. I waS the one whoforget he's got his own life. Is moving on still the best option
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    I've realised I was the one who looked annoying & clingy even tho I wasn't
    Well, at least you are that self aware now

    I waS the one whoforget he's got his own life. Is moving on still the best option
    To some extent, yes. If he expresses a desire to reconnect in future then remain open to that but in all other respects, refocus your energies :hippie:
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    unless u ask u don't know just cuz he has a keeper don't mean u cant score
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    (Original post by La Mush)
    unless u ask u don't know just cuz he has a keeper don't mean u cant score
    Ask what 😂😂. I'm not looking for a bf
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    (Original post by Foo.mp3)
    Well, at least you are that self aware now

    To some extent, yes. If he expresses a desire to reconnect in future then remain open to that but in all other respects, refocus your energies :hippie:
    Yeah I'm cautious now ☺
    Yeah true so I should never message him again until he does? Should I request to follow him on insta to check whether we're cool? Or should I leave it
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    Ask what 😂😂. I'm not looking for a bf
    ask if he wants sex u know smash and dash
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    I should never message him again until he does?
    That would be my approach

    Should I request to follow him on insta to check whether we're cool? Or should I leave it
    See the spirit of my prior advice for a clue. Exercise some judgement here m'dear
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    @Foo.mp3 I've realised I was the one who looked annoying & clingy even tho I wasn't. I waS the one whoforget he's got his own life. Is moving on still the best option
    do you think he likes you or something
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    (Original post by Tom Jickleson)
    do you think he likes you or something
    He deffo doesn't, cuz I have asked him a few weeks back after he told me he's got a gf.
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    (Original post by Foo.mp3)
    That would be my approach

    See the spirit of my prior advice for a clue. Exercise some judgement here m'dear
    Right, so you mean it's best to wait for him to make a move, meaning there's no point sending a request to follow first? Sorry I don't wanna assume
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Right, so you mean it's best to wait for him to make a move, meaning there's no point sending a request to follow first? Sorry I don't wanna assume
    What I mean is think about all the advice you have been given, reflect on it, arrive at a position for yourself, and act in accordance with it :yy:
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    (Original post by Foo.mp3)
    What I mean is think about all the advice you have been given, reflect on it, arrive at a position for yourself, and act in accordance with it :yy:
    I was thinking if I sent a follow request and he accept it then I'll know we're good... I think it's better that way instead of texting. Idk what would u do?
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    I was thinking if I sent a follow request and he accept it then I'll know we're good... I think it's better that way instead of texting. Idk what would u do?
    I wouldn't text, but might idly follow if I were you. Personally, I would do neither, but then I'ma boss
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    (Original post by Foo.mp3)
    I wouldn't text, but might idly follow if I were you. Personally, I would do neither, but then I'ma boss
    I've sent a request so if he doesn't accept I know I should continue moving on. Hopefully I didn't make a mistake. What should I do if he does/ doesn't accept
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    What should I do if he does/ doesn't accept
    A: Move on!
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    (Original post by Foo.mp3)
    A: Move on!
    Uh?
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    I'm single, do you want my number?
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    I'm single, do you want my number?
    Don't want a bf😂
 
 
 
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