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    Go for it mate
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    Also escorts are not prostitutes for Christ sake :L
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    If you wanna it's your choice, but it's a silly choice. There's more to life than shagging so1.
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    (Original post by Jay_Cartwright)
    Don't, if you do this then you will only become more unattractive to women.

    Imagine if you do meet a girl in the future, she may leave you if she finds out.

    Just keep using your hand.
    unless this guy has a really big mouth and guilty conscience how is a future girlfriend going to find out about this. Don't tell anybody in your life that you've done this. No matter what theyll judge you and look down upon you.
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    (Original post by neal95)
    Also escorts are not prostitutes for Christ sake :L
    an escort is a prostitute. She just gets more money. An escort is just a high-class prostitute. You are paying an escort money for her attention.that's a prostitute
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    (Original post by emobambam)
    an escort is a prostitute. She just gets more money. An escort is just a high-class prostitute. You are paying an escort money for her attention.that's a prostitute
    Depends really, your not really soliciting unless your standing on a street corner tbh. I disagree. Escort is escort especially if they advertise Incall services. Prostitutes are prostitutes....
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    (Original post by fermat1324)
    He should go back to uni. If he does "better bring his wellies, cos he'll be knee deep in clunge!"
    If there's one thing I've learned at uni, it's that sex is not available to everyone despite what people commonly think.
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    (Original post by LavenderBlueSky88)
    If I met a guy I'd rather hear he lost his virginity in his 20s than he paid for it with a prostitute at a younger age. Just sayin'.*
    I've always said this, I wouldn't care if someone lost their virginity the normal way at a very late age, however I would feel uncomfortable knowing that they paid for sex, especially for their first time.
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    Up to you, but do you really want to have sex with someone who doesn't even like you? I definitely wouldn't be with someone who had paid for sex, I wouldn't care if they were a virgin though.
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    (Original post by Ella-keturah)
    Up to you, but do you really want to have sex with someone who doesn't even like you? I definitely wouldn't be with someone who had paid for sex, I wouldn't care if they were a virgin though.
    EVen if they regret immensely and try to live a different life now?
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    (Original post by Ella-keturah)
    Up to you, but do you really want to have sex with someone who doesn't even like you? I definitely wouldn't be with someone who had paid for sex, I wouldn't care if they were a virgin though.
    are you keturah? were you banned or suttin?
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    (Original post by fermat1324)
    are you keturah? were you banned or suttin?
    *looks at username*
    *looks at avatar*

    Nah, couldn't possibly be.
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    (Original post by SpiritSharD)
    *looks at username*
    *looks at avatar*

    Nah, couldn't possibly be.
    haha i realised my stupidity afterwards lol when i looked at her profile...i'm a dumbass

    i think i'll punish myself by having evidence of it on the internet lol
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    (Original post by LavenderBlueSky88)
    If I met a guy I'd rather hear he lost his virginity in his 20s than he paid for it with a prostitute at a younger age. Just sayin'.*
    what if he lost it in his 30s or 40s?
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    (Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes)
    however I would feel uncomfortable knowing that they paid for sex, especially for their first time.
    ...but for some reason it's the only way they can get sex?

    Whilst you're all out having a good time and getting laid whenever you feel like it, there are those of us that can't get sex. Why should some people miss out on these experiences when they are younger?

    Up to OP what he does. I won't judge him. It's up to him to decide whether or not it's worth seeing an escort or waiting it out to see if a girl does come along.
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    (Original post by Jay_Cartwright)
    EVen if they regret immensely and try to live a different life now?
    Hmm I doubt it. Would mean they view sex differently to me.

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    are you keturah? were you banned or suttin?
    Forgot my password.
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    (Original post by fermat1324)
    what if he lost it in his 30s or 40s?
    still would rather that than see an escort.

    Besides, losing it to an escort wouldn't necessarily mean he had ever done it again - he would probably still be just as inexperienced so it really wouldn't make much difference. I'd rather have plain old inexperienced than inexperienced and seedy thanks.*
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Hi

    So I've come to the decision at least for the time being that I'll visit an escort regularly because quite frankly women that I find attractive will simply not give me a chance. Tried everything, thrown a lot of money away trying to do it the normal way.

    Basically my childhood was dreadful and I was psychologically abused and bullied for years when I was growing up. This has meant that now as an adult I feel defective as a human being. I simply cannot change the past and I've thrown thousands of pounds at trying to recover from past events.

    I'd consider myself a physically attractive male. I have a good job and I'm intelligent but I'm simply not attractive to some women when it comes to my personality.

    What would you do in my situation?
    Do it if you wnat, but I dont see it really solving your issues. It may deal with part of the physical urges, but it could damage your self worth and how you realte to women i.e it could mess you up even more.

    If it were me, then I would want to heal and de traumatise myself. I appreciate you can't.

    It isnt about changing the past, part of it is working your way through it, understanding, coming to terms and learning from it, then being able to define your future.
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    (Original post by SpiritSharD)
    ...but for some reason it's the only way they can get sex?

    Whilst you're all out having a good time and getting laid whenever you feel like it, there are those of us that can't get sex. Why should some people miss out on these experiences when they are younger?

    Up to OP what he does. I won't judge him. It's up to him to decide whether or not it's worth seeing an escort or waiting it out to see if a girl does come along.
    Well to me I often wonder if prostitutes/ escorts actually enjoy the sex, or feel the need to do sex work to pay something off, or perhaps someone is making them, I don't know but to know someone I like or am interested in has paid for this makes me uncomfortable.
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    (Original post by Ella-keturah)
    Hmm I doubt it. Would mean they view sex differently to me.


    Forgot my password.
    But what if they view sex differently now and regret going with a prostitute.
 
 
 
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