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    (Original post by MaseratiJay)
    Move on!

    I had that same problem with a girl recently. She was nice but quite honestly the thought of seeing her again is just no...

    She will text me and say what an amazing time she had and always asked me when I'm free etc but when actually meeting it was kind of dead. There's no point trying to force something that just isn't there!

    If you don't miss someone and are not excited to see them definitely drop it. Clutching at straws there!
    It's an awful situation to be in. He's nice and kind but there's no real depth and curiosity when we are together. I tried, I gave him a chance. I will explain my feelings to him over coffee tomorrow but if he says "it's your choice", then farewell to him because I can't be with someone who can't meet my needs. I tried for him.
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    (Original post by gamerchic)
    It's an awful situation to be in. He's nice and kind but there's no real depth and curiosity when we are together. I tried, I gave him a chance. I will explain my feelings to him over coffee tomorrow but if he says "it's your choice", then farewell to him because I can't be with someone who can't meet my needs. I tried for him.
    I know it's a tough decision but never feel guilty for wanting to move on from someone. Okay yeah it does suck and it does feel bad and we'd all rather not have to.

    At the end of the day nice or not if there's no connection there's no relationship. Sometimes someone is nice and you date them but there is so little connection you don't even see them as potential friends let alone and it just is what it is.

    I hope it goes well
 
 
 
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