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    Honestly, if this was me and my boyfriend I'd be really pissed. If my being bi 'changed everything' for him, then I'd probably be outta there. I'll never understand why some people are so insistent that being bi = greedy, or a cheat. If she's with you, she's with you. You're straight, you like girls. That doesn't mean you like every girl and that you're a cheat or whatever. She likes girls and guys. It doesn't mean she likes all girls and all guys. She's with you. She likes you. She probably isn't looking for anything else, and if she is it isn't because of her sexuality. Her being bi doesn't change a thing.
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    I don't understand the problem

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    You were happy before (and I'm sure she knew she was bisexual before) so it should be the same after. People don't take us bisexual people seriously. I would find it VERY disrespectful if may bf asked for a threesome
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    If this is concerning her fidelity, then you need to remember bisexual =/= polyamorous. A bisexual woman can be perfectly happy with a man and not need to have sex with a woman. If she is still sexually attracted to you there is literally no problem
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    (Original post by Darelz)
    I wouldn't say the OP can't bring it up at all, since there's no reason why they can't ask to find out how they're gf feels about it- starting conversations isn't wrong. But they should definitely be prepared for their gf to say no, since as you said being bi and wanting monogamy are not mutually exclusive.
    If OP wasn't thinking about asking before then that shouldn't change now. And it shouldn't be 'since you're bi...'
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    FFM threesome :top:
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    Lol. All these people taking OP seriously
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    If my girlfriend told me that she was a bisexual, that would strengthen my respect for her and our relationship because she feels that she can trust me. Coming as Bi isn't something do you lightly.
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    Evidently the truth is that the OP GF kissed another girl before hand and said "Haha, I'm not into girls. It was just for fun."

    Nah I'm just messing around.
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    I dated a bi girl. Pretty normal relationship to be fair, with the added bonus that you can both comment on how that girl across the street is hot. Major change from having your head bitten off for simply looking in their direction.
 
 
 
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