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    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PV0V5DpwRNY

    In all seriousness, people respond to this in different ways. Some may say you're not romantically attracted to her. Some would say it's a totally normal reaction. You've made it clear that you like her usually so it should be okay.
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    It doesn't sound like you stop loving her, you just stop desiring physical intimacy for a period, which is perfectly normal after finishing for a guy.
    This is how I think it works with my boyfriend. He's exhausted afterwards, but always open to a cuddle and often is the one to kiss me and pull me into a cuddle. We're tired and don't want to do anything for a while, but we still love each other
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    Doesnt sound odd at all if you ask me. It also doesnt sound like a problem, its just for 10 minutes anyway.
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    I think it's just that you lose your sex drive after masturbation/sex. I don't think it's anything to do with your attraction towards her.
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    Maybe you're like wow that was intense ... *Runs away from the intensity for a bit of a breather then goes back for more*

    Gosh talk about self interest/sex obsessed lol
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    I'm sorry you have...
    Gay For 15 Minutes After Sex Disorder
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    The 10 mins. of loss of feelings you are experiencing is normal. That's the approx. amount of time it tales the average male to wake up, gather his wits and come up with a reason why he has to be somewhere else, get his pants on and find the exit.
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    oxytocin is a neurotransmitter (messenger dude) released during orgasm. It facilitates personal bonding w/ you're partner and other phycological things, it also has the affect of the refractory period
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    Tbh, you might actually just be lusting for her, and feel satisfied after you've...Had your fill
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    The 10 mins. of loss of feelings you are experiencing is normal. That's the approx. amount of time it tales the average male to wake up, gather his wits and come up with a reason why he has to be somewhere else, get his pants on and find the exit.
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    I'm a girl. I experience this, no matter how much I like the guy, the few minutes, sometimes an hour after sex can be slightly uncomfortable because I just don't feel like kissing him or getting all touchy-feely. It's normal.
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    (Original post by FrogLad)
    Or after i masturbate. Before all i want to do is be around her and touch her and kiss her everywhere and suck her earlobes and hold her and **** her.
    Then afterwards I'm like "nope" and feel really awkward and don't feel anything for her anymore. Until like 10 mins later when I'm back to normal.
    Why is this happening? :confused:
    prolactin. that is why.

    learn to have multiple orgasm and continuous orgasm.

    vitamin b6, helps a lot to get you normal again

    http://www.entelechyjournal.com/httpdocs/prolactin.jpg
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    (Original post by FrogLad)
    Only immediately after sex/masturbation for 10-15 minutes. I just want to get away in that time, then I love her again
    It's amazing what influence hormones can have over our feelings of romantic love and attraction. After orgasm males secret a number of different hormones, which include oxytocin- a hormone which give us feelings of love and attachment. It just might be you have a different hormonal reaction after orgasm, and when the hormones subside you return to normal? :dontknow:
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    It sounds like your 'love' for her is driven purely by your desire to copulate...
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    It's just you recharging your junk, don't worry

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    Post orgasm depression is common. It's worse with a partner you don't really rate which is probably why one night stands can end up pretty tense. Once you find a girl you adore to cuddle afterwards you'll know to marry her.
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    (Original post by TorpidPhil)
    Dunno. Never been romantically attracted to some AND had sex with them. Only been one or the other so far for me :L
    Wtf does that mean....to have romantic attraction...

    I guess the same as emotional connection ?
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    (Original post by FrogLad)
    Or after i masturbate. Before all i want to do is be around her and touch her and kiss her everywhere and suck her earlobes and hold her and **** her.
    Then afterwards I'm like "nope" and feel really awkward and don't feel anything for her anymore. Until like 10 mins later when I'm back to normal.
    Why is this happening? :confused:
    Err mate, every guy is kinda of the same.

    Like after I ***, my sexual thoughts / sexual interest goes negative
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    (Original post by FrogLad)
    Or after i masturbate. Before all i want to do is be around her and touch her and kiss her everywhere and suck her earlobes and hold her and **** her.
    Then afterwards I'm like "nope" and feel really awkward and don't feel anything for her anymore. Until like 10 mins later when I'm back to normal.
    Why is this happening? :confused:
    Err mate, every guy is kinda of the same.

    Like after I ***, my sexual thoughts / sexual interest goes negative
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    It's called the refractory period. It's completely normal for men to find the woman they're with repulsive immediately after sex. It's essentially the body's way of recovering, and stopping you from jumping in immediately for some more action.
 
 
 
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