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    Basically we were playing a quiz video game and I got an answer wrong in a store, he was annoyed because I lost him his money and got pissed off. I told him to wise up because he still owes me money and he totally went off on one and said I'd get my money when he gets paid again. I walked out because obviously I'm not going to have him yell at me in public so when we got outside he called me a "****ing ****", grabbed my phone, told me he was going to "****ing smash it" and hurt my wrist when taking my phone. It's not the first time he's hurt me, yesterday he kicked me, twisted the skin on my wrists and said he was going to throw me off my bed head first. He said I deserved it. He's never actually hit me, sometimes I know it's my fault I make him angry, and he's told me he's sorry and that it's not his fault but he has issues with his temper and anger. I also have a past with abuse, and he promised me that he'd never hurt me a while ago. I don't know what to do.
    Get out from this seriously, no person should hit another in a relationship, don't matter if he has anger issues, you don't deserve to be on the recieving end.
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    This is an abusive relationship. Get out ASAP!!

    Not to be mean here. You said you have a history with abuse, that means you are the common denominator. You might want to take a look at yourself and try to work out some underlying issues and talk to a counsellor, friend, anyone that may be able to shed some insight. Good luck love

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    Leave leave leave seriously this was exactly like my ex and it's the first signs of an abusive relationship. It took me ages to realise that relationships weren't meant to be like that until it got really physical. Honestly girl leave him because it'll only get worse and you don't deserve that


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    Please don't let this carry on any longer. Do yourself a favour and get rid. It'll be so much better. There is nothing that you could do to warrant him hurting you like that. It's just not acceptable at all. Stay safe
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    Wonder what the OP did....
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    Leave him. Just get out as soon as possible. Go and stay with your mum, dad, sibling, grandparents, friend, it doesn't really matter as long as you are safe. Once you're in a safe place, tell the police what he's done.

    It'll get better if you do this
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    Never ever allow yourself to be with a man who will hurt you.

    How about a man that gets paid to hurt other men but would only ever hurt you if you consented to it in bed?

    That's pretty much the only time 'your man' should be hurting you. To tolerate anything else is really ridiculous imo.
 
 
 
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