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    (Original post by EnterNamehereplz)
    how much do you charge tom?
    I quite like him so there's no set amount between us at the moment. He gives what he wants, usually what he has left over in cash from us going out. I usually get £60-£160 in cash. Usually more around £100-£120. I think he spends about £150-£200 per night depending on what we decide to do.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Lol very romantic... Do you think you'll ever settle for one guy and have a proper relationship? Or would you prefer to live that lifestyle of no strings being used by guys for the foreseeable future? How old are you?
    I always hated romance it's awkward and embarrassing.I quite like the arrangements but it comes with the specific people I have the arrangements with. I'll probably settle down eventually, probably stop this by the time I'm 25-30 since I'll be busy with work and won't be bothered to look for replacements for when it ends with one guy. I'm 20 at the moment
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    How much do you get paid? I see you've answered this one.


    Also what's the market like for young sugarmen?
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    (Original post by Atlas Thugged)
    How much do you get paid? I see you've answered this one.


    Also what's the market like for young sugarmen?
    Do you mean as in young guys who pay? Then it depends on what age is young for you. There are quite a few aged 30-40. Some under 30 but it's pretty rare. If they are younger, it's usually because they got married and the wife isn't putting out so they just want some quick sex. Which I don't really go for.

    If you mean as in for guys getting paid, there is also a market for that. Definitely a smaller one than for women, but some older women who have money also want some younger men company.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Do you mean as in young guys who pay? Then it depends on what age is young for you. There are quite a few aged 30-40. Some under 30 but it's pretty rare. If they are younger, it's usually because they got married and the wife isn't putting out so they just want some quick sex. Which I don't really go for.

    If you mean as in for guys getting paid, there is also a market for that. Definitely a smaller one than for women, but some older women who have money also want some younger men company.
    I meant for young men getting paid. I presume they want that boyfriend experience as well as sex.


    Like make them feel young again :sexface:
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    (Original post by Atlas Thugged)
    I meant for young men getting paid. I presume they want that boyfriend experience as well as sex.

    Like make them feel young again :sexface:
    I wouldn't really know for sure but I suppose it would be same as for the guys. Some are just more attracted to younger men, some want to have that 'mentor' experience, some may be into BDSM and like to be the Dominant which is easier with a younger person. Some may just want to have sex with someone who still has plenty of energy to go multiple rounds.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I wouldn't really know for sure but I suppose it would be same as for the guys. Some are just more attracted to younger men, some want to have that 'mentor' experience, some may be into BDSM and like to be the Dominant which is easier with a younger person. Some may just want to have sex with someone who still has plenty of energy to go multiple rounds.
    Thank you.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I quite like him so there's no set amount between us at the moment. He gives what he wants, usually what he has left over in cash from us going out. I usually get £60-£160 in cash. Usually more around £100-£120. I think he spends about £150-£200 per night depending on what we decide to do.
    Do you live in London Anon?
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    Do you live in London Anon?
    No
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    No
    Your allowance just seemed a little low, but if you're not in London I'm sure it's more than enough.
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    (Original post by sugarflower)
    Your allowance just seemed a little low, but if you're not in London I'm sure it's more than enough.
    Yeah, if I was in London it would be way higher but I'm quite far away from London and don't usually get men from there
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Call it what you want. For me it's no different to sleeping with random guys you may meet at a club, even better really. Prostitution is more like having sex with anyone who will pay. Being SB you pick the guys out yourself. I was always more attracted to older men. Sure some are the stereotypical ugly grandpa types but some are attractive men. Then you also pick out by interests. Most want company and sex is just a thing included, so you only continue the meetings with someone you enjoy spending the time with. It's more like dating if you find the right guy. For example, I have one that we can name Tom. So Tom and I chat on WhatsApp quite often, especially when he's bored at work, just about random things you would talk about with friends. Tom is also working in the same industry as I am aiming for so he acts like a mentor whenever I need it, giving advice from his experience. We meet up about once a week, he comes over, picks me up, we go out, have a nice dinner and chat. Sometimes it ends there, more often we go back to my place and have sex. Truthfully, he's pretty hot and knows exactly what to do.
    You're making a hell of a lot less than an escort would 😂😂
    I imagine these guys are Johns getting a bargain from these "sugar baby" sites.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Yeah, if I was in London it would be way higher but I'm quite far away from London and don't usually get men from there
    Have you tried freestyling at any upscale bars or hotels in your area? You might just a travelling businessman.
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    (Original post by Hamo2509)
    You're making a hell of a lot less than an escort would 😂😂
    I imagine these guys are Johns getting a bargain from these "sugar baby" sites.
    Pretty sure that's on a case to case basis. "London Escorts from Charlotte action for £79p/h." that's in London, I would assume outside of London it could be as low as £30-£40. Also for Escorts you don't have much choice, you go with anyone who pays you money. If it's an escort company they just tell you where to be and who to meet and you do it.

    It's a similar but slightly different service.
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    (Original post by sugarflower)
    Have you tried freestyling at any upscale bars or hotels in your area? You might just a travelling businessman.
    I prefer to stick to a select few guys instead of one off meetings, I enjoy the company more than I need the money. I might in the future tho
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Pretty sure that's on a case to case basis. "London Escorts from Charlotte action for £79p/h." that's in London, I would assume outside of London it could be as low as £30-£40. Also for Escorts you don't have much choice, you go with anyone who pays you money. If it's an escort company they just tell you where to be and who to meet and you do it.

    It's a similar but slightly different service.
    You're kidding, right?Escorts average around £100-150 an hour outside of London and £125-200 within London.
    Independent escorts have total choice, of course those who work for agencies have less but you still have every right to turn down a client.
    Sugar babies on Tumblr have some kind of delusions that they provide "companionship" when all that's happening is frugal clients have flocked to SA and similar websites for a bargain.
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    (Original post by Hamo2509)
    You're kidding, right?Escorts average around £100-150 an hour outside of London and £125-200 within London.
    Independent escorts have total choice, of course those who work for agencies have less but you still have every right to turn down a client.
    Sugar babies on Tumblr have some kind of delusions that they provide "companionship" when all that's happening is frugal clients have flocked to SA and similar websites for a bargain.
    It's just what google said if people wanted a cheap escort I would assume that they would use those companies then. And I did say, it's probably case to case. I also said that I prefer the company rather than worry about the price. It also depends on what kind of arrangement you have. Some may not be any different than just being a call girl or something, some are a lot different.
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    How many of the men are married? And do you mind if they're married or not? I've been wondering whether this would be something I could do in the future but I'm not sure how you'd tell if they are married or not.

    Also, what was your first time like? Did you find it awkward or difficult?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I always hated romance it's awkward and embarrassing.I quite like the arrangements but it comes with the specific people I have the arrangements with. I'll probably settle down eventually, probably stop this by the time I'm 25-30 since I'll be busy with work and won't be bothered to look for replacements for when it ends with one guy. I'm 20 at the moment
    Ahh that explains it. Unfortunately romance seems to be dying here and it's all becoming very cynical and shallow. Do you not worry most guys would be really turned off by a girl who'd sold herself out to lots of other guys?
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