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    (Original post by Wired_1800)
    If you like him, then give him a chance. You never know. Don't try to fight it by making unnecessary excuses. Maybe you are holding out for your "prince charming" or something.

    If you don't, then cut it off ASAP. Put yourself in his shoes. Would you like to be in love with a guy, who feels the way you feel now?

    You have to be fair to him and yourself. Good luck.
    This response and the poster after you ot me thinking. I have been thinking about him more than usual and he has grown on me quite a bit. I just have my reservations.

    There are alot of things that have bothered me. 1. The fact we work together And see each Other everyday. 2. There have been a few rumours about him floating about apparently he slept with this girl who sleeps around alot, I also heard he asked my other colleague for sex 3. In between pouring his heart out he told me he also likes my work friend 4. He asked out another one of my colleagues that left a year ago around the same time he initially asked me on a date.
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    There are alot of things that have bothered me. 1. The fact we work together And see each Other everyday. 2. There have been a few rumours about him floating about apparently he slept with this girl who sleeps around alot, I also heard he asked my other colleague for sex 3. In between pouring his heart out he told me he also likes my work friend 4. He asked out another one of my colleagues that left a year ago around the same time he initially asked me on a date.
    Hmm, now I'm not sure if it's lust or love he has for you :/ .
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    This response and the poster after you ot me thinking. I have been thinking about him more than usual and he has grown on me quite a bit. I just have my reservations.

    There are alot of things that have bothered me. 1. The fact we work together And see each Other everyday. 2. There have been a few rumours about him floating about apparently he slept with this girl who sleeps around alot, I also heard he asked my other colleague for sex 3. In between pouring his heart out he told me he also likes my work friend 4. He asked out another one of my colleagues that left a year ago around the same time he initially asked me on a date.
    From this information, it seems that the guy is not serious. He may like you, but may not be the one for a serious relationship.

    This is the reason why you should have the "talk". If you like him, tell him clearly about how you feel and how you don't want to be second-best to any other woman. Anything that is in the past should remain in the past. You don't want him to be reminding you about your past.

    Like I said before, speak with him and have a clear definition of what you want. If you don't like him, then break off any contact. If you do, then proceed and talk to him. There is no point hurting both of you by being half way in.

    All the best.
 
 
 
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