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I discovered my girlfriend is an Escort/Prostitute. So I stand by her or leave her? Watch

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    Is she on adultwork ? Link?
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    You say you love her. If you did then you will have to accpet her as she is. Talk to her if you wnat her to stop, but you have to be realistic and think how she is going to transition and how she will earn her money.

    You are a bit serious and dramatic about it, so i dont think you would be able to make it last or continue to deal with it anyway. In that situation you will end up splitting up. If she cant afford a hotel room and its that which really disturbs you, then why doesnt she rent somewhere and she could even split that rent with other girls?

    Is she an escort and a student so doing it to pay for uni or its her only source of income? I dont think you have the mentlaity to be able to deal with it, so youd best end it.
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    Leave her if you don't like her lifestyle op, I wouldnt want to be with some slutty guy who had slept around I'd want a guy who I knew was fresh and clean. The less people sleep around the better for the partner.
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    You can't help the way you feel, so don't feel bad about it. I mean, why is your girlfriend escorting? Why not another job?

    It just all comes down to this... She could get any job if she wanted. It wouldn't be easy. But she obviously enjoys escorting to some extent, does she want to give that up? If she gives it up for you, then it'll never work because she'll always resent you for it. It has to be her own decision whereby she realises she doesn't want to do it anymore... Not just 'I'm doing it for my boyfriend'.

    I understand your frustration. Whilst you're out strangers are going into your home and not only that they're having sex with your girlfriend in your bed. So, don't feel bad for how you feel.

    Hope this helps, feel private to reply to this.
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    You say how much you love her and I get that. If you envisage a future with her, what does that future entail exactly? Children one day? Ask yourself if you really want the mother of your children to be a prostitute ? Do you kiss her on the lips? Knowing where her mouth has been probably many times a day? There are millions of decent, respectable women out there. Why would you settle for one who does that for a living? Have a bit of self respect.
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    How did I know this thread was either going to be anonymous or a new user...
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    I don't know how you can even bare to look at her ...let alone hug or kiss her.

    Get rid ASAP

    Only a desperate man would stay with a woman who is doing what she is doing
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    (Original post by WoodyMKC)
    How did I know this thread was either going to be anonymous or a new user...
    With no links or pics...
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    I can't believe you're even asking for advice. I'm sorry but you're not a man.

    Do you even have much self respect left? She isn't your best friend. She isn't exclusive with you. Leave her immediately, don't even bother to tell her to stop because she won't. If she does, she'll start again
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    Your gf had sex with countless random other men and lied to you about it? No, OP, I think you're being totally unreasonable :no:
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    OP if you stay with her then you are ****ing up your life, there are plenty fish in the sea
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    Get rid; don't be a cuck
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    What's the price??

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    What's the price??

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    Oh dear God...





    OP; I know it must be difficult but unless you're happy with her living that lifestyle, and unless you're happy being in a relationship where other men are having sex with your partner, then I will end things. At the end of the day it is what YOU find comfortable and what you will find happiness in.
 
 
 
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