Hey there! Sign in to join this conversationNew here? Join for free
    Offline

    15
    (Original post by YoFadda)
    I am working on becoming heterosexual. Through prayer I will achieve thiss inshallah.

    :erm:
    you cant 'become heterosexual' lol, it is biology you either are or aren't no offence, not that anything is wrong with either and nothing should make it feel as though there is
    Offline

    8
    ReputationRep:
    Not lying acc...they're in denial.
    Offline

    20
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by YoFadda)
    I'm a guy attracted to guys. I haven't told my parents and I don't plan on having a relationship.
    A gay Muslim? Isn't that extremely oxymoronic?
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    1
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Defraction)
    How old were you when you realised you were attracted to guys?
    Where are you from(Ethnicity not Nationality)?
    What would you do if your family choose to disown you?
    Are you open with your sexuality? Like as in, do your friends(possibly close friends) know about your sexuality.
    What do you think about the controversial beatings of homosexuals in Muslim countries and what would you do about it?
    Do you live in the UK?


    Sorry for the bombardment of questions but please answer truthfully.
    15 years old.I'm Indian.No, no one knows about this.I'm not sure how I feel about that. On the one hand, homosexuality is a sin in Islam and people who have homosexual relationships and sex in countries ruled by the Sharia should be punished for those sins. On the other hand, I believe that they should be given help to cleanse themselves of homosexual desires. I hope to one day have normal urges and no homosexual urges.
    I live in the UK, in London.
    Offline

    17
    ReputationRep:
    Can't say much but.. Hi :hi: How are you?
    Be happy and proud of yourself, whoever you are and no matter what.
    Offline

    2
    ReputationRep:
    Why are you muslim? :holmes:
    Offline

    8
    Were you born gay or did you become gay?

    If you were born like that do you think God made you this way and if so why because I thought it was forbidden, right?
    Offline

    21
    ReputationRep:
    What was the BBC documentary that was on about 6 months ago? About the Muslim guy who was not only gay but was a Transvestite? He/She wanted to become a singer and travelled out to Pakistan to meet other gay men. Did anyone else see it?
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    1
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Wordsaredeadly)
    You're not going to be able to 'suppress' these urges unfortunately. People who told you they've done so are lying.
    I will inshallah. I know that it can be done. Allah has presented me with a test to see if I will remain faithful to him or if I will succumb to evil. I can and will change and I will no longer have these urges one day.
    (Original post by Salamandastron)
    :erm:
    you cant 'become heterosexual' lol, it is biology you either are or aren't no offence, not that anything is wrong with either and nothing should make it feel as though there is
    Allah has the power to do anything. He has presented me with a test of faith. I need to pray and dedicate my life to him and to changing my ways and it will happen inshallah
    (Original post by Wordsaredeadly)
    Not lying acc...they're in denial.
    I'm not sure what you mean by this.
    (Original post by GradeA*UnderA)
    A gay Muslim? Isn't that extremely oxymoronic?
    Yes because homosexuality is forbidden in Islam but I will change one day.
    • Political Ambassador
    Offline

    5
    ReputationRep:
    Political Ambassador
    (Original post by YoFadda)
    15 years old.I'm Indian.No, no one knows about this.I'm not sure how I feel about that. On the one hand, homosexuality is a sin in Islam and people who have homosexual relationships and sex in countries ruled by the Sharia should be punished for those sins. On the other hand, I believe that they should be given help to cleanse themselves of homosexual desires. I hope to one day have normal urges and no homosexual urges.
    I live in the UK, in London.
    Wait, do you think you personally being attracted to the same sex is haram? You obviously think homosexuality is haram but do you think your feelings and the attraction you have to the same sex is haram?
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    1
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Electrospective)
    Why are you muslim? :holmes:
    Because I believe it.
    (Original post by Kryptonian)
    Were you born gay or did you become gay?
    If you were born like that did God make you this way and if so why?
    I believe that Allah made me have these desires to test whether I will remain faithful to him or whether I will succumb to evil. I believe and know that I can change and turn away from these desires.
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    1
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Defraction)
    Wait, do you think you personally being attracted to the same sex is haram? You obviously think homosexuality is haram but do you think your feelings and the attraction you have to the same sex is haram?
    Yes
    Offline

    8
    (Original post by YoFadda)
    Because I believe it.

    I believe that Allah made me have these desires to test whether I will remain faithful to him or whether I will succumb to evil. I believe and know that I can change and turn away from these desires.
    What if you don't? What if you are gay your whole life? Would you lose faith?
    Offline

    15
    (Original post by YoFadda)
    Allah has the power to do anything. He has presented me with a test of faith. I need to pray and dedicate my life to him and to changing my ways and it will happen inshallah

    Right well whatever u want to do.
    Offline

    4
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by YoFadda)
    Because I believe it.

    I believe that Allah made me have these desires to test whether I will remain faithful to him or whether I will succumb to evil. I believe and know that I can change and turn away from these desires.
    What happens if you go to heaven? Do you think you will still be gay?
    Offline

    2
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by markova21)
    What was the BBC documentary that was on about 6 months ago? About the Muslim guy who was not only gay but was a Transvestite? He/She wanted to become a singer and travelled out to Pakistan to meet other gay men. Did anyone else see it?
    Yeah I did. He was also on a show, called Free Speech or something as well. Although I personally don't see the point in why someone like that would be muslim, fair enough if you think it's wrong and you suppress it but he doesn't!
    • Political Ambassador
    Offline

    5
    ReputationRep:
    Political Ambassador
    (Original post by YoFadda)
    Yes
    So, you being homosexual was clearly a phase?

    But the real question is right now are you still attracted to men or the opposite sex?
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    1
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Kryptonian)
    What if you don't? What if you are gay your whole life? Would you lose faith?
    No, I know that it can be changed. I will change and cleanse myself of these urges one day.

    (Original post by mrahim)
    What happens if you go to heaven? Do you think you will still be gay?
    No homosexual will enter Paradise. I will change and remove these desires through faith and the methods available.
    Offline

    21
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Electrospective)
    Yeah I did. He was also on a show, called Free Speech or something as well. Although I personally don't see the point in why someone like that would be muslim, fair enough if you think it's wrong and you suppress it but he doesn't!
    Just Googled it. He's called Asifa Lahore. Looks really pretty as a female.
    Offline

    18
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by YoFadda)
    I'm a guy attracted to guys. I haven't told my parents and I don't plan on having a relationship.
    Ignore that sin crap, its a load of crap.
    Get out of that religion and be free,
 
 
 
  • See more of what you like on The Student Room

    You can personalise what you see on TSR. Tell us a little about yourself to get started.

  • Poll
    What's your favourite Christmas sweets?
    Useful resources
    AtCTs

    Ask the Community Team

    Got a question about the site content or our moderation? Ask here.

    Welcome Lounge

    Welcome Lounge

    We're a friendly bunch. Post here if you're new to TSR.

    Groups associated with this forum:

    View associated groups
  • See more of what you like on The Student Room

    You can personalise what you see on TSR. Tell us a little about yourself to get started.

  • The Student Room, Get Revising and Marked by Teachers are trading names of The Student Room Group Ltd.

    Register Number: 04666380 (England and Wales), VAT No. 806 8067 22 Registered Office: International House, Queens Road, Brighton, BN1 3XE

    Quick reply
    Reputation gems: You get these gems as you gain rep from other members for making good contributions and giving helpful advice.