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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    Well your going to be cheated on left and right with that attitude
    It's *you're
    And btw, I'd rather be cheated on than be someone as controlling and nuts as you. Being in a relationship doesn't mean nobody can find someone else attractive. Just because a guy likes what he sees it doesn't mean he's going to shag her.

    Awww that's cute. Can you predict what I'll eat next week too?
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    cheeky guy
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    (Original post by xobeauty;[url="tel:67344608")
    67344608[/url]]Well your going to be cheated on left and right with that attitude
    Ridiculous.

    Why the f*** would the guy delete his fb. I'd delete my CLEARLY controlling, possessive girlfriend who EVIDENTLY doesn't trust me from my life.

    Thing called trust. You'll suffer breakup after breakup 'left, right and centre' with an attitude like that
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    (Original post by MrsSheldonCooper)
    It's *you're


    Awww that's cute. Can you predict what I'll eat next week too?

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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    Your.


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    Please read my edited post and answer properly if you're capable of it.
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    All he did was like a picture holy **** stop being so controlling
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    (Original post by MrsSheldonCooper)
    Please read my edited post and answer properly if you're capable of it.
    No. You should've said what you wanted to say in your orginal post. Sorry.
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    (Original post by Unistudent77)
    Ridiculous.

    Why the f*** would the guy delete his fb. I'd delete my CLEARLY controlling, possessive girlfriend who EVIDENTLY doesn't trust me from my life.

    Thing called trust. You'll suffer breakup after breakup 'left, right and centre' with an attitude like that
    I wasn't serious.


    Shouldn't be with someone you don't trust, period.
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    my bf used to do that so i made him delete his faccebook cos he had loads of girls on there and he was liking there pics and it pissed me off
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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    No. You should've said what you wanted to say in your orginal post. Sorry.
    Must be tough when you can't back yourself up sweetheart.

    I'm sorry you have such trust issues in relationships and have to be a control freak whereas I don't. It must suck for you and I hope it gets better x
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    (Original post by xobeauty;[url="tel:67344934")
    67344934[/url]]I wasn't serious.


    Shouldn't be with someone you don't trust, period.
    Ahhh ok. You could have put an emoji....

    Agreed. That's my point.

    All depends on context and trust whether a guy liking a pic of a girl is a big deal or not.

    Girls are so uptight. You either trust him or you don't
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    okay I'm not a controlling person so i havent told him he can't or whatever. The problem is is one of the girls' selfies he liked is a girl he called a '****'. I don't understand ,because he clearly isnt friends with her yet is giving her attention...what should i do?
    hush everyone who is saying 'god why are you getting worried about him liking pictures neh neh neh'. I've been in a relationship where things like that were an issue for me, and a relationship where they weren't an issue.

    When you feel like something's up, there's usually more to it. The reason bf number 1 made me feel uneasy with things like liking other girls' pictures was because there WAS something up.

    Trust your instincts but don't go berserk. Just casually ask about it or mention it. Don't let it lie.
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    (Original post by MrsSheldonCooper)
    It's *you're
    And btw, I'd rather be cheated on than be someone as controlling and nuts as you. Being in a relationship doesn't mean nobody can find someone else attractive. Just because a guy likes what he sees it doesn't mean he's going to shag her.

    Awww that's cute. Can you predict what I'll eat next week too?
    You can find other ppl attractive but be respectful to your partner. What's the difference between going up to a girl on the street telling her she looks nice vs liking a girls pic.....your letting her know she's looking good either way. That's the way I see it.
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    (Original post by MrsSheldonCooper)
    Must be tough when you can't back yourself up sweetheart.

    I'm sorry you have such trust issues in relationships and have to be a control freak whereas I don't. It must suck for you and I hope it gets better x
    How incredibly rude and patronising, I hope you don't speak to people like this in real life
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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    You can find other ppl attractive but be respectful to your partner. What's the difference between going up to a girl on the street telling her she looks nice vs liking a girls pic.....your letting her know she's looking good either way. That's the way I see it.
    Yes you can be respectful. How is telling your bf to delete his fb just over some likes respectful? You're not really giving him his own space and it speaks of how controlling you can be. Why do you find compliments as flirting?
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    How incredibly rude and patronising, I hope you don't speak to people like this in real life
    Oh thank you! Can I have my award now?
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    (Original post by MrsSheldonCooper)
    Yes you can be respectful. How is telling your bf to delete his fb just over some likes respectful? You're not really giving him his own space and it speaks of how controlling you can be. Why do you find compliments as flirting?
    Depends on the tone of the compliment
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    Don't ask why he liked it; it comes across as controlling if it bothers you, say that it bothers you- that way you're saying that it's your issue, but you'd like him to refrain from doing it it means nothing unless you have other reasons to be suspicious
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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    Depends on the tone of the compliment
    So what would you class as something that would ring alarm bells for you?
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    (Original post by MrsSheldonCooper)
    Oh thank you! Can I have my award now?
    I think you should have been a little more understanding of the fact that every relationship situation is very different, and the standards that people set in their relationships differ too. This leads to disagreements obviously but talking those disagreements through in a civil way can probably help OP a lot, rather than taking the thread off course.
 
 
 
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