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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I've been asked out on a tinder date and nervous about whether to go or not, I'd have to get the train to go to his city as I live outside it but my distance setting includes his city. My stomach feels a bit knotty when I think about it but I think I like the guy and we've been talking for a while.
    But the idea of meeting up with someone 3 years older than me who I don't even know freaks me out?!?
    What do I do? Has anyone on here been on a tinder or other dating app date before? Would you ever go on one?
    whatever you do, make sure you meet up in a public place.
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    (Original post by james652)
    whatever you do, make sure you meet up in a public place.
    I wanted to find a random tall multi store car park that I could take him to, so we can sit on the roof and look out at the view :/
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    Yeah I have been on a few. One I went out with, one I'm friends with and the other was a **** 😃
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Same!!! That's why I'm inclined not to even reply back to him I think I'm going to be a ball of nerves and neither of us will enjoy it
    don't over think it! it will be fine
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    (Original post by trapking)
    don't over think it! it will be fine
    Would it be weird if we went on the roof of a random multi store car park?
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    (Original post by Ella-keturah)
    Yeah I have been on a few. One I went out with, one I'm friends with and the other was a **** 😃
    For your dates:
    1) where did you go?
    2) what did you wear?
    3) did you kiss or sleep with them?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Would it be weird if we went on the roof of a random multi store car park?
    It's different I would like that

    Although tell someone where youre going just to be on the safe side
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    (Original post by trapking)
    It's different I would like that

    Although tell someone where youre going just to be on the safe side
    Idk who to tell because I'm ashamed to tell any of my friends that I use tinder and I can't tell my parents. The only friends I have told are one who's gone back to Leeds and one who's back in Birmingham, so even if something happened to me they'd be too far away to do anything
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Idk who to tell because I'm ashamed to tell any of my friends that I use tinder and I can't tell my parents. The only friends I have told are one who's gone back to Leeds and one who's back in Birmingham, so even if something happened to me they'd be too far away to do anything
    You don't have to mention it....just make it up and say you met in somewhere and that youre just curious how he's like on a date!

    When i went on mine my mum saw me all dressed up and she was like where you going and i was like just to see a friend :lol:
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    For your dates:
    1) where did you go?
    2) what did you wear?
    3) did you kiss or sleep with them?
    Either to restaurants or bars.
    I can't remember what I wore, probably a low cut dress or jeans and a crop top.
    I kissed and slept with the one I ended up in a relationship with.
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    (Original post by trapking)
    You don't have to mention it....just make it up and say you met in somewhere and that youre just curious how he's like on a date!

    When i went on mine my mum saw me all dressed up and she was like where you going and i was like just to see a friend :lol:
    (Original post by Ella-keturah)
    Either to restaurants or bars.
    I can't remember what I wore, probably a low cut dress or jeans and a crop top.
    I kissed and slept with the one I ended up in a relationship with.
    That's why I want to find a tall multi storey car park with a rooftop so after we've looked around ate or whatever I can take him there and kiss him there
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    That's why I want to find a tall multi storey car park with a rooftop so after we've looked around ate or whatever I can take him there and kiss him there
    If he's lucky smash while looking at a good view! Can't be any better ayee?
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    (Original post by trapking)
    If he's lucky smash while looking at a good view! Can't be any better ayee?
    If I just grab him and kiss him will I look too easy or confident? I don't want him to think I'm easy but this guy took a whole 2 weeks to even ask me out on a date, I feel like it'll take another 5 dates before he kisses me if it were up to him
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    If I just grab him and kiss him will I look too easy or confident? I don't want him to think I'm easy but this guy took a whole 2 weeks to even ask me out on a date, I feel like it'll take another 5 dates before he kisses me if it were up to him
    Forget the stereo-types! If you want to do it....If a girl I was attracted to did what you've just described yeahhh imma leave the nuts hanging out.

    It makes the chemistry even more exciting
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    Anymore tinder date experiences?
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    ive been on 2 tinder dates. the first wasnt that good, but it got me back into dating, the second went much better and we recently went on our third date
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    I would, yeah - just make sure not to get shanked
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I've been asked out on a tinder date and nervous about whether to go or not, I'd have to get the train to go to his city as I live outside it but my distance setting includes his city. My stomach feels a bit knotty when I think about it but I think I like the guy and we've been talking for a while.
    But the idea of meeting up with someone 3 years older than me who I don't even know freaks me out?!?
    What do I do? Has anyone on here been on a tinder or other dating app date before? Would you ever go on one?
    I would

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