I sent a guy a message and he unfriended me.

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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    lol.
    here's what happened.

    I used to fancy this guy and my friend thought it would be ****ing funny if I told him I still liked him just to see what he said.

    At this point, I didn't care, I mean when you like someone you're really conscious of what they say but I wasn't feeling nervous or anything cause I don't have feelings for him anymore.

    anyway I saw him at his work and told him and then just walked away he was probably like errr and just forgot about it. Later on I was gonna say it was just a prank my friend told me to do albeit not a very good one but then I was convinced not to. I just say sorry about that. He was like its fine. Then I messaged him and said I'd suck his d**k and he unfriended me lol.

    Basically, I don't really care that he unfriended me but I just hope he doesn't show anyone that I know cause they might take it seriously?! If I actually wanted to do that I would never message someone where there's evidence of what I said but you know when you're doing things with friends you don't think very much.

    Perhaps he thought you were being really immature and making fun of him?
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    (Original post by Pinkberry_y)
    I have read what you've written several times and I still can't work out why you messaged him saying you'd suck his dick. If I were a guy I'd find you very bizarre. In fact I already find you bizarre
    Idk lol, I understand where you're coming from but the way I said it was in a sarcastic & very formal way but he must've thought it was serious

    ah well it's been a few days now and it's fine so I'm not worried about it anymore
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    (Original post by 999tigger)
    Perhaps he thought you were being really immature and making fun of him?
    That would make him realllly easily offended lol which isn't hard to imagine but :/
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    btw i love how the title of this thread is all chill
    like when you click on it you're thinking oh my what an unreasonable guy all the poor girl did was send him an innocent message
    and then you read the description and you realize what this **** is all about
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    I'm intrigued by the use of "albeit" in the OP
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    (Original post by TSR Mustafa)
    Well at least we know his gay now
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    (Original post by Rhaenys10)
    btw i love how the title of this thread is all chill
    like when you click on it you're thinking oh my what an unreasonable guy all the poor girl did was send him an innocent message
    and then you read the description and you realize what this **** is all about
    i <3 u
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    (Original post by 0to100)
    i <3 u
    thanks
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    (Original post by Rhaenys10)
    btw i love how the title of this thread is all chill
    like when you click on it you're thinking oh my what an unreasonable guy all the poor girl did was send him an innocent message
    and then you read the description and you realize what this **** is all about
    That's cause I'm actually a chill person

    At least it wasn't click bait a title which this thread had a massive potential to make.

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    (Original post by Trinculo)
    I'm intrigued by the use of "albeit" in the OP
    What do you mean?

    "Just a prank my friend told me to do albeit not a very good one"
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    That's cause I'm actually a chill person

    At least it wasn't click bait a title which this thread had a massive potential to make.

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    yeah you keep telling yourself that=))
    you told a guy you didn't know that you wanted to suck his d*ck
    you're anything but chill lol
    how would you feel if a man sent you a similar message? wouldn't you think he was a creep?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    That would make him realllly easily offended lol which isn't hard to imagine but :/
    He seems to have sussed you out though. Whats more puzzling is why you seem surprised about his response.
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    (Original post by Rhaenys10)
    yeah you keep telling yourself that=))
    you told a guy you didn't know that you wanted to suck his d*ck
    you're anything but chill lol
    how would you feel if a man sent you a similar message? wouldn't you think he was a creep?
    Lol I'm not gonna tell myself anything

    it'd be different if I actually wanted to and just messaged him that

    Yh some guys do message **** like that I said on page 1

    I did know him but not closely
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Lol I'm not gonna tell myself anything

    it'd be different if I actually wanted to and just messaged him that

    Yh some guys do message **** like that I said on page 1

    I did know him but not closely
    idk what to tell you girl=)))
    even as a joke it's kinda s*itty
    if ****ing sean o'pry sent me a message like this right now, i'd still think it's weird
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    (Original post by 999tigger)
    He seems to have sussed you out though. Whats more puzzling is why you seem surprised about his response.
    In the OP I've said I wasn't bothered about his response, my issue was highlighted
    I just didn't want him to take it serious & show anyone but after this I think he knows it wasn't so idm
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    (Original post by Rhaenys10)
    idk what to tell you girl=)))
    even as a joke it's kinda s*itty
    if ****ing sean o'pry sent me a message like this right now, i'd still think it's weird

    I do know that it's **** lol Im sure I've repeated similar phrasing several times before

    Sean o pry is a completely stranger thou, also when you do things as pranks you don't send a "regular message". It's not even classified as a prank tbh it wasn't very well thought out. We were just joking around to see how he'd respond.

    ofc messages like that when you actually know someone/have a thing are completely different I don't really know what you're getting at? :/
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I do know that it's **** lol Im sure I've repeated similar phrasing several times before

    Sean o pry is a completely stranger thou, also when you do things as pranks you don't send a "regular message". It's not even classified as a prank tbh it wasn't very well thought out. We were just joking around to see how he'd respond.

    ofc messages like that when you actually know someone/have a thing are completely different I don't really know what you're getting at? :/
    i mentioned him because he's attractive
    anyway it's not like he was your bestie or anything.. he was just an acquaintance
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    In the OP I've said I wasn't bothered about his response, my issue was highlighted
    I just didn't want him to take it serious & show anyone but after this I think he knows it wasn't so idm
    Well if he's irritated or bored, then he has a copy now, which he can send around. Perhaps he's not bothered what you think and will find it funny?
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    (Original post by Rhaenys10)
    i mentioned him because he's attractive
    anyway it's not like he was your bestie or anything.. he was just an acquaintance
    So you mean if anyone EVER sent you a message like that you'd be weirded out? Even if you had a thing? ...

    (Original post by 999tigger)
    Well if he's irritated or bored, then he has a copy now, which he can send around. Perhaps he's not bothered what you think and will find it funny?
    True but I'm gonna to not worry myself on the basis that he didn't find it funny (and thus unfriended) I think it's a safe assumption to make lol
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    So you mean if anyone EVER sent you a message like that you'd be weirded out? Even if you had a thing? ...



    True but I'm gonna to not worry myself on the basis that he didn't find it funny (and thus unfriended) I think it's a safe assumption to make lol
    out of the blue? of course. if it were a close friend or sth, i'd probably understand it was a joke or sth
    but anyway
    all you can do now is play it cool
    so what if he shows this to other ppl? and btw he's a guy not a girl.. guys don't take screenshots of crap all day like we do)
 
 
 
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