is it ok for bf to look at other girls pics?

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    (Original post by theDanIdentity)
    ...this is what constitutes for "serious" threads on tsr nowadays? this b.s?

    to op: get off your high horse woman.

    my days. please don't post again unless for actual enquiries.

    not this.

    tsr makes me laugh sometimes
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    Obviously it's not nice to know your other half finds other people attractive but I think we all have to be realistic and accept that you are not the only person in the world he is attracted to. That said, I think it's quite rude and disrespectful for him to be doing that in front of you / making it so obvious to you.
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    yeah its fine cos she most likely looks at other guys anyways
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    Yeah I don't think this is odd or anything. If he does it excessively, have a weird and just explain that it makes you uncomfortable

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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    i probably sound really psycho, but I'm just wondering. my boyfriend will sometimes scroll past a picture of a girl or some girls on instagram or Facebook and will look at it for like 10 seconds, which is quite a long time to look at a picture. i think he also searches girls up on ig sometimes. he's defo not a cheater type or anything like that, he's great and I'm just wondering if this ok for a guy in a relationship to do? anyone else bf's do this? I'm probably over reacting but just want some advice. thanks )
    Leave him. you can find another man. and a good one. stick to your moral gun and reject fools who don't focus on you.

    Now some might say how normal it is for man to look at and lust for other women. this is no excuse - especially by way you describe it.

    A person, man or woman, can cheat emotionally with out knowing it. by the way they interact with others or as you described, constantly look at other women.

    Why be with someone where it seems like he is looking for someone else?
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    unless he's just doing it with bikini/cleavage pics then I wouldn't worry... I often spend a few seconds looking at a photo cos I'm interested in how an old friend is getting on, there's a cute dog, someone's in an exciting/pretty place, I like their top etc - there's loads of reasons to look at photos other than sexual
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    i probably sound really psycho, but I'm just wondering. my boyfriend will sometimes scroll past a picture of a girl or some girls on instagram or Facebook and will look at it for like 10 seconds, which is quite a long time to look at a picture. i think he also searches girls up on ig sometimes. he's defo not a cheater type or anything like that, he's great and I'm just wondering if this ok for a guy in a relationship to do? anyone else bf's do this? I'm probably over reacting but just want some advice. thanks )
    Wouldn't bother me. Could be a lot worse. If he's checking out other women's bodies but is still with you then that means he must like you.
 
 
 
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