What do girls nowadays look for in a guy?

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    (Original post by TorpidPhil)
    Pretty sure he meant females tbh.

    But anyway, I meant by women girls who are mature. Some would be 17. Some 18. Some older. Not kids basically.
    Okay, sorry for the misunderstanding 😔
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    Charisma, Charm and Humour. They should be a nice person like not full of themselves or ignorant to others.
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    Certainly not any of the physical features or characteristics that I possess. :gah:


    At the end of the day, both men and women look for different things in partners so it's difficult to pinpoint an exact attribute or collection of attributes' people are looking for. General idea is that women look for confidence.
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    My best friend loves the features about a guy the most and will not consider him if he doesn't live up to expectations and beyond but for me it's about their personality. Obviously look are unconsciously a factor that we can't help but if you find it hard to attract girls on first meeting i'd just say get out there more and make tons of a friends who are girls because then they'll fall for your personality and begin to love small aspects of your features that they may not have noticed initially, idk
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    It all comes down to confidence I think. Confidence is how you convey your personality, ideas, style and blablabla.

    Also, girls want a guy who makes them feel good to be alive and to be them. Vague, I know, but that's how people are.

    Just don't be so arrogant that you start believing you can do no wrong.
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    (Original post by Jagwar Ma)
    What makes you say that personality means nothing?
    I would say that unless you meet online looks are the things that get the first nugget which makes you stand any chance

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    Why are guys answering this q? gtfo.
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    There must be something I'm doing wrong
    or..... The above lists are incomplete. Or I'm completely oblivious to any one liking me which is also plausible, or they think I'm gay as I have a fair few platonic friends that are girls. Who knows

    I guess it'll be the weight even tho I'm told "Nah"
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    (Original post by stefano865)
    Big dick
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    You forgot fat wallet :rolleyes:
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    Willy.
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    sense of humour
    nice shoulders + not fat
    nice dick
    doesn't give a crap about what other ppl think
    attractive mouth + thick hair
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    (Original post by The_Internet)
    There must be something I'm doing wrong
    or..... The above lists are incomplete. Or I'm completely oblivious to any thing liking me which is also plausible, or they think I'm gay as I have a fair few platonic friends that are girls. Who knows

    I guess it'll be the weight even tho I'm told "Nah"
    Probably is, people are shallow even though they try to deny it

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    (Original post by fksociety)
    big dick
    (Original post by stefano865)
    Big dick
    Six pack
    6ft +
    Hahaha loooollll.

    I don't get the appeal with being with tall guys? Srsly. Like I understand why some girls like bulked up guys but not the height thing. Confused :/
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    People become more attractive when you like them anyway, so
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    (Original post by medhelp)
    sense of humour
    nice shoulders + not fat
    nice dick
    doesn't give a crap about what other ppl think
    attractive mouth + thick hair
    But how r u going to know what kind of dick he has before you start datin'?

    Also, what are *nice* shoulders?
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    Wah wah! I'm a nice guy and ladies don't like me, wah wah!

    If you're that nice, you don't need to say it or make that much of a point out of it, bub. You just have to be likeable and appealing to the woman you like, if she finds you interesting, great, if no one finds you interesting then that's your fault. If you think you're doing something wrong, maybe change it and see what happens - be the change you want to see. By the way, women like confidence. Telling everyone on TSR that women only want looks and don't care for personality is shallow as ****.
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    (Original post by FireFreezer77)
    ^^^
    Truthful answers
    Is it just looks because it seems that way
    Personality means nothing around where i live
    You dont have the looks, you just get laughed at in the street
    So what do girls actually look for in a guy nowadays?

    He obviously has to be somewhat attractive to me but a kind, intelligent guy with a good sense of humour does it for me. I dated a guy who wasnt very attractive but was super intelligent - I love to be around smart guys they're just so hot lol /// Oh forgot to mention, a super deep voice and a slim framed body makes me melt omg
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    (Original post by drowzee)
    You forgot fat wallet :rolleyes:
    So true
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    mixture of everything, good looks, personality ect but main one for me.. actually give a crap, takes an interest in my interests..
 
 
 
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