Broke up with first ever girlfriend and feel terrible

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    This feeling fades, try to keep yourself occupied I know it sucks but it's just a matter of waiting on it.
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    (Original post by Mr Smurf)
    I stopped making such posts months ago when we started dating.
    So yiu are oriental and your girlfriend was white?.

    Where did you find her?.
    On tinder?.
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    (Original post by Illuminatus999)
    So yiu are oriental and your girlfriend was white?.

    Where did you find her?.
    On tinder?.
    Yes.

    We met on okcupid
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    (Original post by Mr Smurf)
    Yes.

    We met on okcupid
    How old are you?.
    Because if you are 16 abd crying about this, it's pretty ridiculous.

    And why did you break up?.
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    (Original post by Illuminatus999)
    How old are you?.
    Because if you are 16 abd crying about this, it's pretty ridiculous.

    And why did you break up?.
    I'm 25. Been in TSR for years now.

    We were not sexually compatible. Everything else was perfect.
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    (Original post by Mr Smurf)
    I'm 25. Been in TSR for years now.

    We were not sexually compatible. Everything else was perfect.
    I see.

    I am 24.

    Do you mean you wanted sex and she didn't?.
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    (Original post by UWS)
    It will take time. Block her number and delete her from all social media.
    We decided to stay friends. :o:
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    (Original post by Mr Smurf)
    We decided to stay friends. :o:
    Terrible idea and you know that. You won't get over her then.
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    several pints of tequila
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    I'm sorry OP *hugs*
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    (Original post by Mr Smurf)
    I'm 25. Been in TSR for years now.

    We were not sexually compatible. Everything else was perfect.
    What do you mean you were not sexually compatible?

    Did she expect more...?

    Or...? What?
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    (Original post by TorpidPhil)
    What do you mean you were not sexually compatible?

    Did she expect more...?

    Or...? What?
    I don't really want to go more into the exact reason. But it caused a strain on our relationship and led to times where she was in the mood and I wasn't and vice versa. The relationship started to become platonic so we mutually decided to end it. It wasn't an easy decision by all means.
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    I don't believe we get over things but through them.

    Time my friend.I thought i would be okay after 3 months but i'm not and that's okay.

    Focus on the reasons you broke up.
    Write a goodbye letter but don't send it, if you feel you have unsaid things.
    But think about everything good that came out from this

    The NO CONTACT rule- will untangle you from her, and give you space whilst your hurting to sort out your head.

    Cry.
    Journal.
    Talk to friends.
    Break up songs on youtube
    Exercise
    Eat
    and repeat

    You will heal.
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    (Original post by Mr Smurf)
    I don't really want to go more into the exact reason. But it caused a strain on our relationship and led to times where she was in the mood and I wasn't and vice versa. The relationship started to become platonic so we mutually decided to end it. It wasn't an easy decision by all means.
    Ahh okay that's quite a tough break-up then really.

    I definitely would avoid making too much contact in the short term - just tell her you don't want to make breaking up easier.
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    I would say keep being social with your friends and in time you will get over it. It may take some time to but it won't be good for you in the long run to mope about
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    (Original post by UWS)
    Terrible idea and you know that. You won't get over her then.
    I'm not going to message her any time soon though.
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    (Original post by Mr Smurf)
    How do I get over the feeling of heart break?
    Did she dump u?
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    Heartbreaks are the worst. I think it will be good for you to divert your mind from all this, Take up some other activity that you like, may be like sports, or some music. Keep yourself occupied with things, and don't think too much about the past.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Did she dump u?
    Mutual breakup.
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    (Original post by Mr Smurf)
    Mutual breakup.
    Over sexual wants incompatibility?.
 
 
 
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