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    No no he didn't send pictures of me to his brother. He sends himself Facebook messages with my pics in so that he can then delete them from the computers documents and his brother WONT see, but he will still have them stored on his Facebook which only he can access. If that makes sense.

    And yes I really do feel betrayed, and creeped out by him. He betrayed three people doing what he did : me his best friend and his best friends girlfriend.

    He is obviously wanting other girls if he is downloading tinder as soon as we are apart. I don't feel like I am in a respectful relationship but I love him and we live together. I don't know what to do
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    I'm just wondering why you didn't dump him after he shared your pics with his bro...


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    No doubt he probably enjoyed his little "nut busting" sesh but even though what he did was quite "bad" i wouldn't say breaking up with him over it would be the answer. I'm not going to lie though this is a warning sign that he can possibly cheat in future but at the same time its probably something he just did out of being naive and he probably regretted doing it afterwards.

    It's something OP will have to talk to him about and then decide (but yeah he broke the boundaries of respect)....
    I guess it depends on the type of person that OP is... there's two options here. Depends whether she thinks that hes worth holding onto or not. Either way they should deffo make sure that they know they've done wrong and not just forgive them like its nothing because it isn't. If they choose to take them back then they need to make sure that they don't get treated like a fool. BE STRONG GIRL. if he does it again chop his d*ck off and wear it like a flag lol. Im joking, thats a bit extreme but yh. :cool:
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    (Original post by birdpumpkin)
    He is obviously wanting other girls if he is downloading tinder as soon as we are apart. I don't feel like I am in a respectful relationship but I love him and we live together. I don't know what to do
    have a talk with him and let him know youre really upset with what he did....and he must apologise (don't tell him to apologise wait until he does it for himself. If he's sensible he will do it there and then if he doesn't dump his ass asap)
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    Passionate make-up sex or hate **** and breakup?

    What do you reckon. :dontknow:
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    Save a photo of a guy with a massive **** as your background and "accidentally" let your boyfriend see it
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    (Original post by tierAlevel)
    If they choose to take them back then they need to make sure that they don't get treated like a fool. BE STRONG GIRL. if he does it again chop his d*ck off and wear it like a flag lol. Im joking, thats a bit extreme but yh. :cool:
    fkn hell are you lady medusa doe?

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    Think about how he would feel if you did this to him. It's not only disrespectful to you but to his best friend and his girlfriend too. Personally, I wouldn't really want to be with someone who carries that level of disrespect for people he's supposed to care about. Also, why should he need to talk to other girls on a website like tinder when he has you? surely its not for friendship purposes as they are complete strangers... think about the fact that yes he hasn't acted on any of these messages etc yet but what if he does? I think that he's not acting very loyally to anyone and thats a key thing in any relationship. You could do better
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    yeah dump him

    he needs to get his priorities right

    he wouldn't like you having a pic of another naked guy on your phone so why does he have someone else on his?
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    Okay. Let's pull you out of this equation.

    The dude -stole naked pictures of his friends girlfriend-. That's a little skeezy.
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    well you know what they say u always find stuff that u dont like when u go nosing around in other peopls messages and it happened to me too but if u say anything then he might be annoyed with u for looking, if i were u id just delete it
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    It wasn't a random girls picture though it was his friends gf!!! That is really pervy and creepy as hell. Also using tinder to chat and flirt with other girls shows he has no respect to you.
    Delete your own pictures off his messages and screenshot the pic he has of her. I would be freaked out by him and people saying don't dump him but how can you trust him? he will have more girl pics sent to his email. Scummy *******
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    Please, please tell me you've broken up with this jerk???
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    (Original post by birdpumpkin)
    Recently I was on my boyfriend's phone scrolling through his facebook messages.
    What do I do?
    We don't need to go any further than your first sentence then. If you mistrust him enough to casually be scrolling through his phone messages, then the relationship is toast! No relationship can be built on a (presumably mutual) mistrust of each other.
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    Really bad on what your boyfriend has done, I would dump him and tell him why, only thing is you clearly never trusted him anyway by going through his phone, obviously this time you had good reason.
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    (Original post by trapking)
    fkn hell are you lady medusa doe?

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    WTF?? The best friend and best friends gf would be disgusted if they knew your BF STOLE those photos. Im sorry this happened OP. He sounds like the sort of skeeve to share ur naked pics on porn sites or some ****. Surprised only ThatOldGuy has noticed this.


    Take the advice of anon and take a pic of it so you have evidence. Then show it to the best friend. Also, dump ur scum bf, duh. If u have to move move but he sounds criminal TBH.
 
 
 
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