Yes okay I will take your advice and I agree with everything you wrote. I just logged into Facebook messenger, and saw he was online about 15 minutes ago, so clearly he has time to chat on Facebook, but to not even read or respond to his girlfriend on whatsapp so that says it all. I can't thank you enough for your help.(Original post by 999tigger)
So make it a fair challenge and you cna get the measure of him.
1. Work out a realistic plan to improve.
It works both ways btw.
2. See how important you are by how he responds.
Then you dont have to stress, becayse you know you can walk away with a clear conscience knowing it wont work because despite what he says (lot of rubbish) he wont make the effort. Entirely his doing.
He may have just underestimated or realised the sort fo commitment needed. Easy fro someone who really does care, less so for someone who is a bit naive and not willing to make an effort.
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