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Outgoing confident girls tend to compliment my personality since I am quite laid-back and reserved they do all the socialising for me :h:

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loveleest

I just don't like being around loud/overly chatty people tbh. But I like confident guys that are still reserved.

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choleCcarknif3r

I would say it's easier for me to be with more introverted people. I need my space sometimes, so I don't like someone texting me literally 19 hours of the day just trying to make small talk. I also find going out a lot and being around a lot of people really tiring, so I like someone who is kinda on board with that

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queenofswords

Original post by NotGodofWorld

I like quiet, cute and awkward girls :redface:

their my fave

I love it when guys feel that way about us :love:

Reply 24

queenofswords

Original post by I'mJustSomeGuy

I'm an all around type of guy but I'm more so attracted to girls who are shy. I dunno why but I just find them really cute :colondollar:

I like guys who appreciate my innocence and shyness :colondollar:

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username2861570

Original post by queenofswords

I like guys who appreciate my innocence and shyness :colondollar:

I dunno how someone couldn't, it's adorable ^_^

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username1732491

I don't want to be in a relationship with someone who's going to hold me back. The women I'm attracted to are mostly those who are at least as interested, if not more interested in the world/maths/general knowledge than me.

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queenofswords

Original post by TimGB

Introverts can be into all of those things. Just because you are shy doesn't mean you don't have interests. Introverts can have very 'deep' personalities, they just find it harder to express. :smile:

Reply 28

username1732491

Original post by queenofswords

Introverts can be into all of those things. Just because you are shy doesn't mean you don't have interests. Introverts can have very 'deep' personalities, they just find it harder to express. :smile:

I know this very well - I am an extremely introverted person myself, and most of the people I see around (at least the ones I feel comfortable nearby) are introverts too. I'm not some sort of arrogant extrovert - I'm not going to overlook someone just because they're shy.

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I Don't Know 79

the things i care about in a girl is that she has to be sporty, quite,and confident.

Reply 30

NotGodofWorld

Original post by queenofswords

I love it when guys feel that way about us :love:

I love it when girls feel the same :colondollar:

Reply 31

DavyDG

i think i like the quiet girls. quiet but not too shy. those who can keep a conversation going but would initially start the conversation.

Reply 32

math42

Well I was with an introverted girl for a long time, and I guess for the most part I find them more attractive. But I think really I get on best with extroverts, on the whole, or at least I have in most cases. A lot of the time talking to other introverts can be awkward. I can be talkative and gregarious but usually only if the other person is themselves first. I dunno, I'd say I have a tendency to mirror people to a small extent, so that's probably why. I think really it's very attractive if someone is fun and unreserved with those they are close to but not perpetually outgoing with a massive circle of friends.

Reply 33

Cremated_Spatula

Original post by Little Popcorns

Lol at your profile pic... So deep (his stare) I just wanna pull him out of his little hole and show him off to the world exactly like he doesn't want. Weeeee

I feel violated and I don't know why.

Reply 34

frostfly

Original post by 1 8 13 20 42

I think really it's very attractive if someone is fun and unreserved with those they are close to but not perpetually outgoing with a massive circle of friends.

Absoulutely agree with you. I prefer to just stay close to a few friends who I genuinely like, rather than socialising with all my peers.

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Jimmy Carr

Kristen Stewart, so beautiful yet so shy and awkward :coma:

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Anebris59

I'm attracted to nerdy guys :biggrin:

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Reply 37

girlintheforest

I'm fairly reserved and I'm not particularly attracted to very extroverted / loud people. I want someone to share airspace with, not fight for it.

Reply 38

Gavin2016

Original post by queenofswords

I'm only attracted to the uber social, wild and popular, alpha male type. So I am essentially attracted to people I wish I was like.

I think its my inferiority complex kicking in. (I'm an extreme introvert)

Do other introverted people feel this way? Or are you attracted to people that are reserved and quiet like you?

I'm an extreme introvert unfortunately, as a guy I hate it, I've gained more confident in public speaking over time and can do this quite well now to when I was say in my late teens, around then I was nervous at it. I also used to be somewhat awkward around people as a child & in my teens, I'm okish now but still not great. My social skills have never really improved much I think, an extrovert will outshine me every time by a long, long way in social situations.

I'm nearly always attracted to extrovert girls, not by choice the chemistry just switches straight on without any decision or will on my part. The girls are often towards the extreme end of extroverts, often nightclub types, hot looking (at least to me) and to be honest, sl*gs but not the rough looking ones, the clean looking ones. I know it sounds awful to term them as this to many but I like girls who are sl*gs. I know many look down on them but its just what I'm attracted to - I guess I'm attracted to their vibrancy, promiscuity and I like how they are really tarted up :colondollar:

The main issue though tends to be social, I would not be particularly out to mix with their (many) friends. They no doubt are put off with thoughts of friends and it not fitting, who know's, but I can't sit & socialise for hours till my bum goes numb, I'm exhausted after about half hour or so tops and want to move on to do something else, my brain is quite active and always on the move even if it doesn't look like it from the outside.

I don't mind spending some time with friends/people I'm just not good at it though. That and perhaps the girl see me and my lack of social skills as a major weakness/problem which it kind of is but more so if girl looks upon it that way. I mean most of my strengths are on the intellectual, analytical, problem solving, thinking side really.