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    (Original post by RainbowMan)
    I find quiet people uncomfortable too and I'm an introvert.
    Well it extends to anyone really. The people I talked about identified themselves as extroverts when we were discussing it, so I just said as so but definetly not trying to generalise.

    If I am looking for a partner, it would be tiring for me if I were always nervous that I'll bore them with my silence (not that I am always quiet but it happens when I feel drained) and that there is this expectation that I should keep responding and talking.

    On another thought, someone who is willing to experience new things with me ie a hobby would be lovely. I love trying new things such as exploring somewhere I've never been.
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    I guess I prefer introverted girls too.
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    Outgoing confident girls tend to compliment my personality since I am quite laid-back and reserved they do all the socialising for me
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    I just don't like being around loud/overly chatty people tbh. But I like confident guys that are still reserved.
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    I would say it's easier for me to be with more introverted people. I need my space sometimes, so I don't like someone texting me literally 19 hours of the day just trying to make small talk. I also find going out a lot and being around a lot of people really tiring, so I like someone who is kinda on board with that
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    (Original post by NotGodofWorld)
    I like quiet, cute and awkward girls their my fave
    I love it when guys feel that way about us :love:
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    (Original post by I'mJustSomeGuy)
    I'm an all around type of guy but I'm more so attracted to girls who are shy. I dunno why but I just find them really cute
    I like guys who appreciate my innocence and shyness
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    (Original post by queenofswords)
    I like guys who appreciate my innocence and shyness
    I dunno how someone couldn't, it's adorable ^_^
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    I don't want to be in a relationship with someone who's going to hold me back. The women I'm attracted to are mostly those who are at least as interested, if not more interested in the world/maths/general knowledge than me.
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    (Original post by TimGB)
    I don't want to be in a relationship with someone who's going to hold me back. The women I'm attracted to are mostly those who are at least as interested, if not more interested in the world/maths/general knowledge than me.
    Introverts can be into all of those things. Just because you are shy doesn't mean you don't have interests. Introverts can have very 'deep' personalities, they just find it harder to express.
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    (Original post by queenofswords)
    Introverts can be into all of those things. Just because you are shy doesn't mean you don't have interests. Introverts can have very 'deep' personalities, they just find it harder to express.
    I know this very well - I am an extremely introverted person myself, and most of the people I see around (at least the ones I feel comfortable nearby) are introverts too. I'm not some sort of arrogant extrovert - I'm not going to overlook someone just because they're shy.
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    the things i care about in a girl is that she has to be sporty, quite,and confident.
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    (Original post by queenofswords)
    I love it when guys feel that way about us :love:
    I love it when girls feel the same
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    i think i like the quiet girls. quiet but not too shy. those who can keep a conversation going but would initially start the conversation.
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    Well I was with an introverted girl for a long time, and I guess for the most part I find them more attractive. But I think really I get on best with extroverts, on the whole, or at least I have in most cases. A lot of the time talking to other introverts can be awkward. I can be talkative and gregarious but usually only if the other person is themselves first. I dunno, I'd say I have a tendency to mirror people to a small extent, so that's probably why. I think really it's very attractive if someone is fun and unreserved with those they are close to but not perpetually outgoing with a massive circle of friends.
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    (Original post by Little Popcorns)
    Lol at your profile pic... So deep (his stare) I just wanna pull him out of his little hole and show him off to the world exactly like he doesn't want. Weeeee
    I feel violated and I don't know why.
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    I think really it's very attractive if someone is fun and unreserved with those they are close to but not perpetually outgoing with a massive circle of friends.
    Absoulutely agree with you. I prefer to just stay close to a few friends who I genuinely like, rather than socialising with all my peers.
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    Kristen Stewart, so beautiful yet so shy and awkward :coma:
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    I'm attracted to nerdy guys

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    I'm fairly reserved and I'm not particularly attracted to very extroverted / loud people. I want someone to share airspace with, not fight for it.
 
 
 
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