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How do some guys get caught up in opportunies to cheat watch

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    (Original post by The1975UGH)
    And yeah there are girls like that. Could be that they aren't looking for anything serious, and if a guy is in a relationship already, obviously it's just going to be a fling. Some girls just aren't looking for commitment and aren't phased by his relationship status.
    That I don't understand, don't they have any horny single guys around them?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    That I don't understand, don't they have any horny single guys around them?
    Pahaha, probably. I'm not entirely sure why they'd pick taken guys over single ones in that situation to be honest. Can't help you there
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    Usually the other girl doesn't know the guy already has a gf, and she takes interest in him without thinking about whether he does or not, or he lied to her because he feels like he's the **** and wants to have fun.

    I've had girls interested in me while I was in a relationship, whenever it felt like we hit a barrier, where if I subtly validated her possible interest in me then the barrier would be knocked down and things would escalate, I would shy away from it and keep the barrier up and hope she understands that's not what I want rather than outright saying I've got a gf and making things awkward.

    So yes, it's not that rare to have opportunities to cheat, it just depends on the actions the guy decides to take.
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    (Original post by Retired_Messiah)
    I can't think of many people that get up in the morning that go "Mmm I think I'm going to see if I can cheat on my girlfriend today"

    bit weird
    They definitely do. I know many lads with girlfriends who go out intending to cheat.

    I can understand how a kiss could be an accident but if your having sex it is too long a process to get yourself in the position to even cheat. You have plenty of time to think about what your doing is wrong when you are traveling to the venue.
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    (Original post by Sternumator)
    They seek out the opportunities. The other woman isn't responsible. The man is.

    It isn't like women throw their clothes off, you have to show a bit of interest back.
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    Usually the other girl doesn't know the guy already has a gf, and she takes interest in him without thinking about whether he does or not, or he lied to her because he feels like he's the **** and wants to have fun.

    I've had girls interested in me while I was in a relationship, whenever it felt like we hit a barrier, where if I subtly validated her possible interest in me then the barrier would be knocked down and things would escalate, I would shy away from it and keep the barrier up and hope she understands that's not what I want rather than outright saying I've got a gf and making things awkward.

    So yes, it's not that rare to have opportunities to cheat, it just depends on the actions the guy decides to take.
    Do you know guys who have the same problem?
 
 
 
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