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How do you pretend to feel sexy and enjoy sex

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    i dont need to pretend because i aint had sex and i dont have a partner
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    (Original post by Nirvana1989-1994)
    I'm sure you're fine. I haven't got the best body, but if they're having sex with you, chances are, that they like your body, so don't worry.
    This really. If I felt a bit insecure then I'd wear something that made me feel more confident. But tbh once the action starts my insecurities tend to melt away.
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    (Original post by Precious Illusions)
    This really. If I felt a bit insecure then I'd wear something that made me feel more confident. But tbh once the action starts my insecurities tend to melt away.
    interesting.
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    (Original post by Precious Illusions)
    This really. If I felt a bit insecure then I'd wear something that made me feel more confident. But tbh once the action starts my insecurities tend to melt away.
    Same.
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    (Original post by swirly)
    interesting.
    Most women are similar.
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    (Original post by Precious Illusions)
    Most women are similar.
    Just wanted to make a creepy comment tbh.
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    (Original post by swirly)
    Just wanted to make a creepy comment tbh.
    repped :yy:
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    (Original post by Nirvana1989-1994)
    I'm sure you're fine. I haven't got the best body, but if they're having sex with you, chances are, that they like your body, so don't worry.
    ....you're not having sex are you? :eyeball:

    wait till I tell your Jamaican nan tsk tsk

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    (Original post by 0to100)
    ....you're not having sex are you? :eyeball:

    wait till I tell your Jamaican nan tsk tsk

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    Maybe. :sexface:

    :rofl: at the spoiler.
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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    with your partner when you're feeling fat and not sexy at all. If I can't feel sexy I can't have sex
    Have you got a moment to talk about our Lord and Saviour

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    Victoria's Secret? Or any other brand, really.
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    (Original post by SmashConcept)
    repped :yy:
    You literally didn't.

    Literally.
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    (Original post by swirly)
    You literally didn't.

    Literally.
    I know lol
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    (Original post by swirly)
    Just wanted to make a creepy comment tbh.
    It worked.
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    (Original post by Nirvana1989-1994)
    Maybe. :sexface:

    :rofl: at the spoiler.
    oooo
    yep I'm telling
    I'm going down to Sheffield, and I am telling

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    You literally didn't.

    Literally.
    :toofunny:
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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    I don't say anything because insecurity is a big turn off
    I'd go for confidence and he probably doesnt care. Noted that you do care, then cnat you just get your ass down to the gym and work it off, but also take care of your diet?

    2-3 months or 56 big macs or 112 mars bars less?

    If you worked really hard you could do it this year, but end of jan would be more realistic.
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    (Original post by 0to100)
    oooo
    yep I'm telling
    I'm going down to Sheffield, and I am telling
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    (Original post by Rhaenys10)
    Have you got a moment to talk about our Lord and Saviour

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    Victoria's Secret? Or any other brand, really.

    No I literally just want to wear a tshirt but he's into the shorts and sexy whatever's
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    (Original post by 999tigger)
    I'd go for confidence and he probably doesnt care. Noted that you do care, then cnat you just get your ass down to the gym and work it off, but also take care of your diet?

    2-3 months or 56 big macs or 112 mars bars less?

    If you worked really hard you could do it this year, but end of jan would be more realistic.
    My diet isn't even that bad, I'm a vegetarian and at one point I wasn't taking in enough calories that's why I think I gained.....because I been eating sorta proper again.
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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    My diet isn't even that bad, I'm a vegetarian and at one point I wasn't taking in enough calories that's why I think I gained.....because I been eating sorta proper again.
    You only gain if you are at calorie surplus. You need to undestand about weight gain and loss. If you lift weights then you can change your shape as it preserves muscle.

    I would normally say confidence, but its such a small amount of weight to lose imo you should get on with it.
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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    with your partner when you're feeling fat and not sexy at all. If I can't feel sexy I can't have sex
    I don't even bother trying to be honest. I've put on loads of weight, put on a dress I bought thinking I looked like a whale in it. Let's just say it didn't even stay on for long when my bf saw it. I'm sure your man loves you just the way you are!
 
 
 
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