I did it all except update java and check the end user cap box (or whatever it was).
My laptop is brand new and the version of limewire I installed was the latest (I think). So I'm assuming the java is up to date. The main reason I didn't do it is because I didn't know what to do! A list of lots of different updates came up and I didn't know which one to click.
I didn't check/uncheck (whichever I was supposed to do) that box because I couldn't find it. I went where the person in the link asked me to, but there was no box to check.
The other things I did made no difference. The problem persists!
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