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    (Original post by Tufts)
    ignore him. If he doesn't freak out, you have your answer.
    I agree with Tufts, maybe if you ignore him he'll suddenly realise how unfair he is being. If he doesn't, he isn't worth it. Good luck
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    That's ridiculous, 1 hour apart isn't even really an LDR. He should want to come to see you as often as possible.
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    I'd walk away if I were you. Spend the last remaining weeks of summer having fun and then go back to uni with your chin up. Find someone how deserves you and is will to put the time and effort into it working. By time he realises what he's lost you'd have gained it all .
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    im having a similar problem but not as bad (mainly because we've been together for 9months and i know he loves me etc) you could talk to him, but when i did this it started a massive argument and he just made loads of excuses.

    Obviously you know more about your relationship than anyone else and i think ending the relationship is a bit drasric if you love/like each other!
    Your boyfriends is working full-time so he's probably just pre occupied/busy, just because he doesnt come see you doesnt mean hes not thinking of you! Due my own experience this summer i am going to say that boys are crap at maintaining communication. seriously. Ive seen my guy twice i think, he came up once, but when he got a fulltime job and i asked him if he wanted to come up on a sunday he said that the weekends were his only time to relax! (i wasn't impressed lol) I think you should just try your best at it, speak on the phone a couple of times/msn until your back at uni. Im sure things will get back to normal when term starts up again.
 
 
 
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