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What does it mean when girls say "you don't understand me" watch


    (Original post by arisk01)
    It means:
    - she's using a cop-out
    - you're an imbecile
    - she's emotionally blackmailing you
    - attention seeking
    - all of the above

    (Original post by tazarooni89)
    It means one of the following:

    She's not very good at expressing her point of view
    She can't be bothered to express her point of view
    If she expressed her point of view, based on her emotions, you'll floor it easily with logic. She doesn't want that.
    She wants to get her way, even if its unfair in her favour
    You've used a logically sound argument, which she can't logically falsify
    It's that time of the month
    and this

    (Original post by Schmokie Dragon)
    Oh dear.

    If a girl says this is usually means one of two things.

    1) She is trying to shut you up

    2) She honestly thinks that you don't 'get' her, because if you did, she assumes that you would agree with her.

    Btw - You don't automaticaly understand someone because you say "I understand you"

    In fact, it is perfectly possible that she is being sensible and logical and you are being a muppet. It is also possible that you are being sensible and she is using emotions to justify hersel
    and quite possibly this especially the last part
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