He has no attachment to "It" Watch
Wether he is also trying to protect you as well, I cant tell 100%. Its possible that he is.
Maybe that's just his way of dealing with this. As above poster has said, sometimes the guy can be far more affected then he lets on.
If you do still love your boyfriend, dont let this affect you two. You decided that you wanted an abortion, so theres no reason to feel any anger or bad feelings towards him for not supporting you more during the process.
TSK08 - Shutup. Kthx.
I think that's a matter of him not caring rather than him not letting on how he feels.
...Yes, he is the epitome of a classy gentleman isn't he?