It's not illegal, depending on how you find her. If you know for sure that she's in the business out of her own free will, and that there's nothing dodgy going on, then I don't see a problem. If, however, you're exploiting a girl's desperation for the the gain of some pimp and for your own gratification, then there is a problem.
In my opinion it should be legal, but more should be done to stop women needing to resort to it.
You may as well just choke one off and save some money. It's essentially the same. You are paying her for it after all - she is only there because of the money. She has no feelings for you. Therefore what you are doing is emotionally meaningless. Sex is best when it's with someone you are really passionate about, and they're passionate about you.
I don't think there's any ethical problem with the idealistic view of a female who is choosing to work as a prostitute and (as much as possible) is happy with her job, having sex with a client for money. But I don't think it's easy to find that kinda situation, there's all sorts of stuff tied up in sleeping with a prostitute I reckon. She might not wanna do it, she might be forced into doing it by someone, etc. So I'd be kinda worried about it. And I would react badly if a partner told me they'd slept with a prostitute in the past. It's not an ideal world.
Are you REALLY that desparate for it?
can't you just wait like most of us do
I don't think there's a problem with it, if your getting it somewhere official like a proper brothel house in Amsterdam. Prostitution's been going on for thousands of years. I think brothels should be legalized here in fact...at least it'd help to get vulnerable girls off the streets.
Don't think there's anything morally wrong with it, as long as it's a reputable brothel that does not partake in sex trafficking or anything like that.
No. Consenting adults and all that.
Let me introduce you to Mrs Hand, she is always willing to please and you don't have to pay her.
I've considered this myself.
I'm 21, still at uni, and I've only slept with one girl, over a year ago and she made me feel crap and worthless. I lost my virginity to her and sorta regret it.
I lost what little self esteem I had and up until recently haven't had any interest from the opposite sex.
I'm convinced I'm ugly or there is something else majorly wrong with me that puts every girl in the Uk off me.
My workmate put the idea into my head and said it would only cost £80 (he's used one before).
I don't think it's wrong. Not all prostitutes are forced into their job by violent sex rings. Some just do it for a a well paid living.
I've not hired a prostitute, but if you really want to have sex and there is no other way, like in my case, then yeah, go for it.