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Jennie1987

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I'd slap him back. If it was really out of character for him and I was sure he wouldn't do it again, I'd give him the benefit of the doubt - but if he ever looked like doing it again I'd be gone.

N I Y = Totally Right

Reply 21

Darkness and Mist

SnowAngel

Punch him in the face and then get on top of him and beat the crap out of him.

Yeah, very enlightened of you. Light slap...beating the crap hmm who would really be the problem.

I do love the way that it is generally considered OK for a girl to slap a guy if he offends them or steps over the line a bit, but when a man does it is horrible.

I cant remember the study, but it was proven that violence committed by women was seen as far less serious than exactly the same acts committed by men.

Reply 22

fourleaf

I'd hit him back. No man has the right to hit a woman. Ever.
Why does he think hitting a woman is gonna make her go "you're right, I was in the wrong and I'm sorry" during an argument?

The fact that he's your 'first love' and its your 'first argument' shouldn't come into it, except as major warning bells that he could potentially do it again. And harder.

No first relationship should be like that. I'd walk away. It'd be hard, but I'd have to.

Reply 23

Hana_87

Darkness and Mist

I do love the way that it is generally considered OK for a girl to slap a guy if he offends them or steps over the line a bit, but when a man does it is horrible.

I cant remember the study, but it was proven that violence committed by women was seen as far less serious than exactly the same acts committed by men.

This. Hitting you was very wrong. But it is bad how women can do it to men and nothing is said.

Give him beatings.

Darkness and Mist

Don't worry. I'm working through my anger in therapy :yep:

Reply 26

AllAboutMe

I'd have slapped him back . . . harder! :smile:

Reply 27

Anonymous #1

hitting you was wrong.
dont hit back.
just walk away.
he wont feel as guilty if you hit him back.

Reply 28

Annie354

I don't think I'd be that pissed or think it was wrong - it would mostly depend on his later reactioin tbh.

Reply 29

Hello_Kitty

I would cry and then break up with them.

Reply 30

ophqui

i wonder how many of you saying 'break up with him' would slap your boyfriend in a heated moment and expect instant forgiveness

Reply 31

Diaz89

so it's alright for a girl to smack me and expect me to be with her?

walk away

I would leave. The trust would just be gone :frown:

Reply 34

Ice_Queen

If it had been before Tom I'd say "I'm outta here". Now, I don't know.

I'd look at him and walk out of the room and curl up on the bed. When he came to apologise (about one second after) I'd tell him not to touch me (pretty usual, when I'm depressed I do that) and just look at him, either with tears in my eyes or just a sort of questioning, non-understanding look

As long as I knew he was truly sorry, and maybe a little guilty ( :wink:

) I'd accept it.

I would leave.

SnowAngel

Don't worry. I'm working through my anger in therapy :yep:

I am glad

as long as you are trying to better yourself :p:

Reply 37

username136318

It really depends on what the reason behind the hit was and how the reaction after it was. I probably wouldn't let him touch me for quite a while and he would have to earn my forgiveness somehow. But I doubt I would just walk away from the relationship.