Would anyone else not want their gf to give them a bj?

Oh, it is funny. Every discussion he takes part in can by summed up as follows:

Pretty Boy: "[something about men and women]"
Someone else: "Okay, well, what if their roles are reversed?"
Pretty Boy: "It's totally different then!"
Someone else: "Why?"
Pretty Boy: "Because men want sex!" or "Because that's just the way men are!" or "That's just my opinion! And the opinion of almost every guy I've met... like, um, hold on, this anonymous user that I'm going to create."

I've never posted anonymously ever - you can ask a mod about that.

Substitute my name for the word 'reality' and you'll have a pretty good summation of the truth. But like I said I'm not interested.

Yeah definitely. My opinion is that some of the views put forth by Pretty Boy are so utterly ridiculous that they would be better left un-said. Also, in my opinion, calling someone a "pussy" because they disagree with you is not a good idea unless you want insulting yourself. Furthermore, in my opinion, Pretty Boy's comments and general attitudes make him more worthy of insults than other people posting on the thread. This is why, when I gave my opinion I said he was stupid (which in my opinion he is). Thank you for defending my right to an opinion.

I'm merely addressing how many guys view it.

If you read back through the thread you'd see I'm not the only one that holds this belief.

I know you're gay and I dont have any problem with that.

That's not true at all. You're just generalising and assuming that most men agree with your warped and outdated views on sexuality. Many men enjoy oral sex, and I wouldn't even associate it with being degrading or submissive if it was a concensual thing, it's just a predecessor too, or a part of sexual intercourse, between two people who care for each other (or just enjoy it.) What's wrong with that?

If you're a man, Pretty Boy will tell you that you're lying. If you're a woman, he will tell you that all the men you've spoken to are lying... except for him, of course - he's the only truthful man in the world... well, him and the couple of other men who agree with him.

Now you can go on believing that most guys agree with your view of it. Thats fair enough, I'm not forcing my opinions on you. I'm a guy and I have a different view on the matter.

I don't remember giving my view on the matter...

That's not true at all. You're just generalising and assuming that most men agree with your warped and outdated views on sexuality. Many men enjoy oral sex, and I wouldn't even associate it with being degrading or submissive if it was a concensual thing, it's just a predecessor too, or a part of sexual intercourse, between two people who care for each other (or just enjoy it.) What's wrong with that?

I'm gay? Right. Well seeing as you're the fountain of all knowledge, by the sound of things I must have been mistaken these past 20 years of my life and I will from now on be gay. *joins the LGBT soc*

Come on, you're making this too easy for me, stop proving your stupidity like this. How about it? Please?

Yes, but you're 'gay'/'effeminate'/'a pussy'; of course, you would say that.

(Aren't you?)

I didn't say that men didn't enjoy oral sex. I just said that the act itself can be viewed as degrading by many men.

I'm gay? Right. Well seeing as you're the fountain of all knowledge, by the sound of things I must have been mistaken these past 20 years of my life and I will from now on be gay. *joins the LGBT soc*

Come on, you're making this too easy for me, stop proving your stupidity like this. How about it? Please?

The act of cunnilingus can be viewed as degrading by many woman, can it not?

The act of cunnilingus can be viewed as degrading by many woman, can it not?

The act of cunnilingus can be viewed as degrading by many woman, can it not?

I didn't say that men didn't enjoy oral sex. I just said that the act itself can be viewed as degrading by many men.

Just out of interest, what do these "many men" think of when a long term girlfriend they're incredibly attached to/love is giving them oral sex? That she's degrading herself by giving him pleasure? Somehow, I don't think so.

Its not that they don't like it. But in a physical sense there is not much pleasure to be gained from it. Same for a guy.