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    (Original post by HigherMinion)
    Terrorism and rape gangs are culturally enriching too, right? How can our own culture be enriched when we're told to keep separate from those who come to continue their own cultures? All we are doing is diluting our own cultural values to accommodate for the alien ones.

    I would have liked to “like” this post, but the system prevented me from doing so because apparently I'm not allowed to agree with you so often. I completely agree with this.
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    (Original post by queen-bee)
    She said she won't be anywhere she wasn't invited to and that she's an educated person
    Read an article about it and you're right!
    Good.
    I hope everything goes well. A lot of people I know are going to a marche so I hope it's safe.
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    (Original post by Tom_Ford)
    Lol oh lol, mate, if there is anything I have learnt in certain places in London, is that if you are a 100% white man (and ok this is going to sound a bit cynical but we all know it is truth) then getting the ethnic minority woman is easy peasy (well, Arabs, Indians, Orientals). Even the average white guy that his own race ignore can score easy. Many want the white boyfriend to cover up their own insecurities, feeling accepted as it were. Was in a bar in Mayfair, Arab girl walks around the bar basically offering herself to various white men. Ignores the ethnics or ethnic looking ones - I think there is clear evidence of a complex among many. You see it here on TSR, Indian girls writing if white men like Indian girls, this insecurity you can see in front of you in real life. No man with self respect wants damaged goods.

    Go to the UAE for example, whites are worshipped over there even though the Arab lads/girls would get treatment like you did in London. So hate to say it, but you know it is just a big circus.

    I am mixed and don't go near many ethnic girls if I see any trace of this type of behaviour. It is just offputting. White girls, many people slate them, but I think they are actually (in my experience) the most open minded of all without racial self hating/insecure hang ups.
    He was saying that it's extremely rare for him to speak/flirt with a Middle Eastern girl due to religious reasons most likely. I know many arab girls who would love to settle for a dashing blonde but at the same time,do you think I'm deaperate for a white guy or something? And I'm not the kind of girl to go around begging and hoping the next good looking white guy sees me in a club,my first ex was actually italian and I spent 6 years with him and I never used to think along the lines of i so badly want to date a british guy but as it stands at the moment,I do and he's an amazing person plus we are friends.
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    (Original post by queen-bee)
    He was saying that it's extremely rare for him to speak/flirt with a Middle Eastern girl due to religious reasons most likely. I know many arab girls who would love to settle for a dashing blonde but at the same time,do you think I'm deaperate for a white guy or something? And I'm not the kind of girl to go around begging and hoping the next good looking white guy sees me in a club,my first ex was actually italian and I spent 6 years with him and I never used to think along the lines of i so badly want to date a british guy but as it stands at the moment,I do and he's an amazing person plus we are friends.
    No, but I think many of your friends are likely to be. E.g. Sarah.
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    (Original post by Tom_Ford)
    No, but I think many of your friends are likely to be. E.g. Sarah.
    My friend Sarah had passed away but she was dating several white british guys and she preferred it that way even tho she realised it would never work. I think some girls like that kind of security that they think comes with dating natives(like a status move)
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    (Original post by queen-bee)
    So today,I went out to the pharmacy to get some essentials etc and as I was walking back home I came across two guys who seemed to look normal at first sight. One of them then just suddenly came up to me and started asking questions about where i'm from and then went on to insult my background after I told him I was part middle eastern and part italian. He also blamed 'my people' for the Paris attack today and was rambling on and on,bearing in my mind this was in a shop and everyone could hear and see the harsh racist comments he was making. He said stuff like 'oh you will never be british,no matter what you or you people do to try to fit in'...
    so after I left the store and got home, I started thinking further about what he was saying. I mean I may have been born here but I don't even feel british at all! I've never dated a fully british guy for this reason I guess. I mean, I follow a similar culture(drinking,partying,how I dress etc) but will ethnic minorities ever be accepted into british society?! Do those on this forum who were born into ethnic families feel like they are accepted or do you still feel like an outsider?
    People like that shouldn't even be accepted into society in the first place.

    Wouldn't let it get to you, a vast majority of people that go around insulting like that, are often the ones that're claiming job seekers (without actively seeking for a job), and just being a nuisance. Quite alike the people you'd see on Jeremy Kyle. Just ignore them and get on with your day.
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    (Original post by queen-bee)
    My friend Sarah had passed away but she was dating several white british guys and she preferred it that way even tho she realised it would never work. I think some girls like that kind of security that they think comes with dating natives(like a status move)
    There is no status move... they are still ethnic when they walk out of the house without their bf. So what are they going to do, make sure they have their bf seen with them everytime they are out in public ? :lol: Besides, how do they know what the natives are thinking? Hence why they are damaged goods lol.

    I remember a fellow mixed Chinese and white girl in the first year of university. In a social setting she had the nerve to ignore me and all the other ethnic males. She was not good looking, on a scale I am 3 points above her (we all have an ego :rolleyes: ) so that was why I was extra offended being only 19 and all (I am nearly 24 now). She was a 6 out of 10 at best and I had never been ignored like that before when I was not even interested in her sexually. We were in a circle right and she goes and introduces herself to every white person and then just quickly acknowledges me and shuts me out.
    Subsequently we ignored her and she was wondering why we treated her like rubbish when she tried to make amends. We totally turned the social tide against her so to speak and tbh i have to be honest, it was bullying.

    The white girls did not like her either as they can be territorial too obviously. But yeah, as I said before, white girls have always been more level headed in my experiences, good to be around.
    Anyway, needless to say she ran around my white friend in my flat (who had a gf at home) like a fly to ****. Then ran around several other white males like fly to **** until she finally got a white male to take her seriously. It's when these girls obviously make so much effort to fit in with white males that they just seem like whores and a bit cheap, its that high energy fawning that really pisses me off. As someone from the same background (white and Chinese) it just makes your society look like it is not raising the females correctly with self-respect.
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    (Original post by Tom_Ford)
    There is no status move... they are still ethnic when they walk out of the house without their bf. So what are they going to do, make sure they have their bf seen with them everytime they are out in public ? :lol: Besides, how do they know what the natives are thinking? Hence why they are damaged goods lol.

    I remember a fellow mixed Chinese and white girl in the first year of university. In a social setting she had the nerve to ignore me and all the other ethnic males. She was not good looking, on a scale I am 3 points above her (we all have an ego :rolleyes: ) so that was why I was extra offended being only 19 and all (I am nearly 24 now). She was a 6 out of 10 at best and I had never been ignored like that before when I was not even interested in her sexually. We were in a circle right and she goes and introduces herself to every white person and then just quickly acknowledges me and shuts me out.
    Subsequently we ignored her and she was wondering why we treated her like rubbish when she tried to make amends. We totally turned the social tide against her so to speak and tbh i have to be honest, it was bullying.

    The white girls did not like her either as they can be territorial too obviously. But yeah, as I said before, white girls have always been more level headed in my experiences, good to be around.
    Anyway, needless to say she ran around my white friend in my flat (who had a gf at home) like a fly to ****. Then ran around several other white males like fly to **** until she finally got a white male to take her seriously. It's when these girls obviously make so much effort to fit in with white males that they just seem like whores and a bit cheap, its that high energy fawning that really pisses me off. As someone from the same background (white and Chinese) it just makes your society look like it is not raising the females correctly with self-respect.
    Well let be honest,most girls have no decency these day,just going around and taking off their knickers for the next good looking guy to walk through the door on a first date or one night stand.
    But I know the type you're talking about,most arab girls wil go almost to all extremes in securing a good looking white male even tho for most of these girls who are full arabs;both parent are arabs) will never accept this but to them it's a lifetime achievement and it's something they would like to boast about to get their girlfriends jealous
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    (Original post by queen-bee)
    Oh hi 5!!! They looked top notch tho with their expensive suits but probably just a couple of chavs living in estates hahaha
    Estate agents probably.
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    (Original post by queen-bee)
    Well let be honest,most girls have no decency these day,just going around and taking off their knickers for the next good looking guy to walk through the door on a first date or one night stand.
    But I know the type you're talking about,most arab girls wil go almost to all extremes in securing a good looking white male even tho for most of these girls who are full arabs;both parent are arabs) will never accept this but to them it's a lifetime achievement and it's something they would like to boast about to get their girlfriends jealous
    Can't turn a whore into a housewife. Girls for now, girls for later... nomwhati'msayin?



    Shame a lot of desperate men do not understand this then complain when the girlfriend they met in a nightclub (lol) is with someone new :rolleyes:. So many morons.
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    (Original post by queen-bee)
    I couldn't just walk away but I will take this into consideration and next time probably just walk away
    You could, you can, and I do hope, for the sake of your dignity/soul (delete as appropriate) you shall do so; such demonstrations of composure et. civility are extremely mature/high minded/attractive, and really mark a lady out :top2:

    hahaha, shaking her pom-poms all over you
    Well, that is one way of putting it! :teehee:

    oh come on!! Middle Eastern girls aren't that scary
    It’s not them, it’s Middle Eastern men connected with them, that would deter me

    You just have to make sure you have your pockets filled with money or gold
    Haha, no gold here :scrooge:

    nothing like a dashing handsome blonde who is willing to learn Arabic and call me habibi all day bahahahaha!
    I doubt I’d ever learn more than the basics, I’m blonde like that

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    Link?

    It makes me sound so rude but there's only one priority for me right now
    According to whom? There’s nothing ‘rude’ about devotion, it’s quite charming when you encounter it really :daydreaming:

    (Original post by jedanselemyia)
    That's a shame
    Why?

    Same here with the Front National
    UKIP are not as right wing/thugish as Front National

    Because of the economic advantages?
    Chiefly, yes, plus some social/internationalist ones

    (Original post by queen-bee)
    He was saying that it's extremely rare for him to speak/flirt with a Middle Eastern girl due to religious reasons most likely
    Ethno-cultural and religious reasons, yes. If it weren’t for the menfolk in those cultures/religions then I’d be more inclined to approach such women

    I never used to think along the lines of i so badly want to date a british guy but as it stands at the moment,I do and he's an amazing person plus we are friends
    Careful, you’ll give the chap a big head! :mmm:
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    (Original post by Foo.mp3)

    Why?

    UKIP are not as right wing/thugish as Front National

    Chiefly, yes, plus some social/internationalist ones
    I just think it's a shame resorting to extremism. But I don't know UKIP precisely.

    Le Front National is a pool of toxic waste where chavs, extreme Catholics, NeoNazis, Royalists thrive.

    As in welcoming people of certain countries to be on better terms with their homecountry?
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    (Original post by Foo.mp3)
    You could, you can, and I do hope, for the sake of your dignity/soul (delete as appropriate) you shall do so; such demonstrations of composure et. civility are extremely mature/high minded/attractive, and really mark a lady out :top2:

    Well, that is one way of putting it! :teehee:

    It’s not them, it’s Middle Eastern men connected with them, that would deter me

    Haha, no gold here :scrooge:

    I doubt I’d ever learn more than the basics, I’m blonde like that

    Link?

    According to whom? There’s nothing ‘rude’ about devotion, it’s quite charming when you encounter it really :daydreaming:

    Why?

    UKIP are not as right wing/thugish as Front National

    Chiefly, yes, plus some social/internationalist ones


    Ethno-cultural and religious reasons, yes. If it weren’t for the menfolk in those cultures/religions then I’d be more inclined to approach such women

    Careful, you’ll give the chap a big head! :mmm:
    In future,I will always be the bigger person in a heated situation am I lady enough now?

    Hahah,I can shake my hips and ass better than she can shake those pom-poms

    You still hadn't answered my question but I think I know the dreaded answer

    some of the men aren't happy,and in a way it is rude to constantly turn people down but the heart wants what the heart wants and I have no control over what my heart wants oh and it's definitely a prerequisite that he has to be willing to learn more than just a few words of Arabic,I managed to teach my ex fluently.
    Unless she's a muslim,most middle eastern men wouldn't mind their daughters dating other men,especially westernised ones.
    oh and honestly,I would never have thought about ever dating a white Brit before but it's crazy how certain people can have a huge effect on your life and I'm thankful for those people everyday

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    I'm white but my accent gives it out, that I'm not British. I actually belong to one of the most despised immigrant groups in the UK.
    I do feel accepted. I always get complimented on my accent (not that it sounds British, just very unusual and hard to locate, apparently) and I do blend in well, but whenever someone asks, I'm rather reluctant to tell and try to change the subject or make them guess (though give tell the answer, until I get to know them better ).
    It can be a burden sometimes.
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    As minorities we are excluded from British society, people should learn this. Especially with the rise of skinhead neo-Fascist movements like UKIP and EDL.
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    (Original post by björk)
    I'm white but my accent gives it out, that I'm not British. I actually belong to one of the most despised immigrant groups in the UK.
    I do feel accepted. I always get complimented on my accent (not that it sounds British, just very unusual and hard to locate, apparently) and I do blend in well, but whenever someone asks, I'm rather reluctant to tell and try to change the subject or make them guess (though give tell the answer, until I get to know them better ).
    It can be a burden sometimes.
    Polish?
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    (Original post by queen-bee)
    So today,I went out to the pharmacy to get some essentials etc and as I was walking back home I came across two guys who seemed to look normal at first sight. One of them then just suddenly came up to me and started asking questions about where i'm from and then went on to insult my background after I told him I was part middle eastern and part italian. He also blamed 'my people' for the Paris attack today and was rambling on and on,bearing in my mind this was in a shop and everyone could hear and see the harsh racist comments he was making. He said stuff like 'oh you will never be british,no matter what you or you people do to try to fit in'...
    so after I left the store and got home, I started thinking further about what he was saying. I mean I may have been born here but I don't even feel british at all! I've never dated a fully british guy for this reason I guess. I mean, I follow a similar culture(drinking,partying,how I dress etc) but will ethnic minorities ever be accepted into british society?! Do those on this forum who were born into ethnic families feel like they are accepted or do you still feel like an outsider?
    I hope you're ok?

    Me and friends have all experience this fro early stages of childhood, all I say is that this is just the beginning of the abuse, there is more to come in the future.

    'This will never be our country were we can feel accepted as one even though we was born here.'
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    (Original post by Ahmed21)
    I hope you're ok?

    Me and friends have all experience this fro early stages of childhood, all I say is that this is just the beginning of the abuse, there is more to come in the future.

    'This will never be our country were we can feel accepted as one even though we was born here.'
    I'm okay now,thank you
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    (Original post by Foo.mp3)
    That wasn’t terribly British of him now was it? :holmes: Sorry this happened to you OP

    These sort of comments that serve as to alienate particular immigrant communities from the rest of the population. If you want to live harmoniously among us, in our land, kindly respect us, our culture and history :top2:

    Excuse me?

    Perhaps he sees exotic characteristics as a positive

    Generally education can, but it must be accompanied by a cessation of ‘the changing face of Britain’, a level playing field for minorities, change in social identities/enhanced secularity (or else Islamists being asked/made to leave) and related enhanced community integration, and a reduction in related hostilities, and will take time e.g. a few generations

    My best mate at school was of Nigerian descent. As far as I know we all conceived of him as British, but then he didn’t have a foreign accent, foreign mannerisms, or much in the way of foreign culture going on..

    My conception, in 2012:



    Boy, and I thought I was heavy!

    You'll find that's generally because the 'terrorists' are following a common (typically professed) ideological 'terrorist' agenda, whereas the white nutters are usually just nutters :borat:

    Rule of law + self defence + thick skin + relocation if absolutely necessary

    This is termed inter-culturalism, and is associated with intracivilisational 'mixing' e.g. between French and British Canadians in the Canadian model

    I’m sure Cleese and I aren’t the only Londoners who feel this way

    White-British people (like myself) are now in the minority in my home city (London), although we may still constitute the largest ethnic group, it's little consolation for feeling like a foreigner in your home town :rolleyes:


    Higher still and you start to spot trends, look at the facts of the matter, and recognise that tolerance is not a sure-fire recipe for success given human nature. I am from a liberal background, am well educated, intelligent, and was raised in a diverse society. Guess what, I’m also a realist

    It is also related to GB being a ‘Great Power’ (historically at least), as it relates directly to languages spoken in international institutions e.g. Bretton Woods (which have their origins in the tail end of The Age of Empire)
    hahaha your whole post made me laugh. nice one!
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    (Original post by queen-bee)
    I've this tanned,olive tone abit light,I think it's because my exotic feautures,they realised I wasn't originally from here
    They were well dressed,I'm guessing business men and this happened in a nice part of london in kensington and Chelsea
    No matter how nice you'd dress a piece of sh, sh will always be a sh I wish I was there, I'd start throwing words at them for some fun :gah:
 
 
 
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