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    As-salamu-alaykum everyone

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    Chapter 58 – Kindness
    باب الرفق
    The Messenger of Allãh (s.a.w) said:

    "Indeed, when gentleness is placed on a thing beautifies it, and when removed from anything it makes it ugly"

    .علي بن إبراهيم ، عن أبيه ، عن ابن أبي عمير ، عن عمر بن أذينة ، عن زرارة ، عن أبي جعفر عليه*السلام قال قال رسول الله صلى*الله*عليه*وآل إن الرفق لم يوضع على شيء إلا زانه ولا نزع من شيء إلا شانه

    [Kitab Al Kafi - Volume 2 ] [Grading: Hasan like- Saheeh - Mirat Al Uluq]
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    As-salamu-alaykum everyone

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    Walaikum salam warahmatullahi wabarakatu
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    (Original post by mkap)
    Just looked on Islamqa and found this fatwa. it says its not permissible to see a womens hair but a man can look at a womens face and hands if it encourages him to marry her

    https://islamqa.info/en/2572
    lol this is not serious, surely. i would never marry someone who i don't know what they look like. this is simple logic
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    (Original post by Tawheed)
    Walaikum salam warahmatullahi wabarakatu
    How are you?

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    (Original post by Warrior Gene)
    I don't think it is impermissible to show hairs to a person genuinely interested in marrying you. But shyness and hayaa wins it, to be honest its really really hard to find shy women these days.
    Well before nikah we are not allowed. Face, hands and feet are allowed as far as I know.
    I agree SubhanAllah. Tbh I don't know how one can't be shy at all.
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    (Original post by Ayaz789)
    As-salamu-alaykum everyone

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    Wa'alaykum Assalaam.
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    (Original post by h333)
    Wa'alaykum Assalaam.
    How are you?

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    (Original post by h333)
    :lol: I would never be able to do that to my husband, it would have to be something really really annoying.

    Alhamdulillah I don't see myself landing in that situation insha'Allah. But there is someone who asked me as they had this concern and I said he does not need to know but then what if it counts as a lie and is necessary for him to know? You know honesty and trust from start kinda thing



    Showing hair before marriage? 😮 tbh I admire the fact she did not like masha'Allah she sounds so pious. Most girls nowadays if they know they are getting married to that person and is confirmed then they would show.
    I am glad everything worked out for them Alhamdulillah.
    Yep one of the most religious sisters I've encountered Allahuma barik.
    Yep alhamdulilah.
    It's a doubtful matter in my opinion so I think it should be avoided, I was always told it is permissible however so now I'm confused lol

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    (Original post by faith 101)
    what if you're not too lazy and you do all the work at home
    Then pick whatever is more efficient for you
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    (Original post by IdeasForLife)
    Then pick whatever is more efficient for you
    safe.
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    Not sure about any rulings out there for those. I'd just go to their halal events and skip the haram ones.
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    (Original post by Ayaz789)
    How are you?

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    Good Alhamdulillah. So windy and raining, my umbrella kept flying away Yourself?

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    Yep one of the most religious sisters I've encountered Allahuma barik.
    Yep alhamdulilah.
    It's a doubtful matter in my opinion so I think it should be avoided, I was always told it is permissible however so now I'm confused lol

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    Masha'Allah. May she remain that way insha'Allah.
    Yeah I have always known that it is impermissible. I had just heard of allowing face, hands and feet. Even if it was allowed I couldn't come in front of him without it on :/
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    (Original post by Ayaz789)
    As-salamu-alaykum everyone

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    Wa'alaykum asalaam warahmatullahi wabarakatu bro
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    (Original post by h333)
    Good Alhamdulillah. So windy and raining, my umbrella kept flying away Yourself?



    Masha'Allah. May she remain that way insha'Allah.
    Yeah I have always known that it is impermissible. I had just heard of allowing face, hands and feet. Even if it was allowed I couldn't come in front of him without it on :/
    Yeah good alhamdulillah same over here , raining heavily

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    (Original post by IdeasForLife)
    Wa'alaykum asalaam warahmatullahi wabarakatu bro
    How are you?

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    (Original post by h333)
    Good Alhamdulillah. So windy and raining, my umbrella kept flying away Yourself?



    Masha'Allah. May she remain that way insha'Allah.
    Yeah I have always known that it is impermissible. I had just heard of allowing face, hands and feet. Even if it was allowed I couldn't come in front of him without it on :/
    In shaa Allah
    Alhamdulilah well I learnt something new then, I'll tell my friends too because some are us are under the impression that it's okay.
    Lol same my mum forbids it


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    https://youtu.be/LjO6Fx8HYqI

    Found this lecture really beneficial for anxiety/depression alhamdulilah

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    (Original post by MuhammadDarcy)
    I went their once and they were giving me dirty looks 😕
    why? did you have Sufi written on your forehead?
 
 
 
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