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    (Original post by Pretty Boy)
    If you read back through the thread you'll see that I think the degradation is negated if it is part of a committed relationship.
    Right, I haven't read this whole thread. I'll just say, if it's a one night stand type thing and the parties involved aren't really attached then I can see why the guy might see it as degrading. But then again, he'll probably think the girl is a slut for sleeping with him whether oral sex is involved or not, so his opinion of her would be low anyway. ( again, this doesn't go for everyone, just general opinions of people)
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    (Original post by thegreatstupendo)
    Not much pleasureto be gained from oral sex????
    Are you mad!?!?!?

    Apologies for the punctuation, but it's highly necessary.
    I meant giving oral sex. I guess some people might like it , the taste etc but generally its better to receive.

    (Original post by PaperMoon)
    Right, I haven't read this whole thread. I'll just say, if it's a one night stand type thing and the parties involved aren't really attached then I can see why the guy might see it as degrading. But then again, he'll probably think the girl is a slut for sleeping with him whether oral sex is involved or not, so his opinion of her would be low anyway. ( again, this doesn't go for everyone, just general opinions of people)
    be careful , you wont be able to say things like that on here without about ten feminists jumping down your throat.

    p.s. I agree with you btw
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    (Original post by medic_bex)
    not on my watch... but if you're not 100% comfortable with the guy you can feel a bit, 'exposed' in a way you wouldn't when having penetrative sex.

    hey, do guy's ever feel that?
    yeah, she can do damage if she's rough!
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    (Original post by Pretty Boy)
    I meant giving oral sex. I guess some people might like it , the taste etc but generally its better to receive.
    That makes it more understandable, but I have to say, i really enjoy giving it too, not purely because of the pleasure it creates for my partner, but for the act itself as well.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    why would most guys be disgusted by the idea of swallowing their own semen (a substance that THEY produce) yet are usually fine to let a girl swallow it?

    Yet then we claim that oral sex is in now way degrading. :confused: I think some people are trying to avoid admitting the obvious.
    i don't think most women would pour themselves a nice tall glass of their own breast milk, yet are fine feeding it to their infant babies. degrading?!
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    (Original post by Pretty Boy)
    be careful , you wont be able to say things like that on here without about ten feminists jumping down your throat.

    p.s. I agree with you btw

    I don't see why they would, in the right, or should that be wrong context anything can potentially be degrading. For example if a guy is..pushing her head down, calling her a whore during it etc, even if the girl likes this and gets turned on by it, in a way he is thinking of her as submissive and himself as dominant, even if it is only for a few minutes.

    In a long term relationship though, it's not really applicable. In that situation partners aim to just give pleasure to each other, and I don't think degradation even comes into the equation.
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    I love the art of blowjob, it allows most girls to become artists. Which girls agree and can I recruit on TSR?
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    (Original post by grace)
    i don't think most women would pour themselves a nice tall glass of their own breast milk, yet are fine feeding it to their infant babies. degrading?!
    but that's its biological purpose, whereas semen is not meant to be eaten.

    do guy's find it degrading, or even unpalatable tasting female vaginal secretions?
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    (Original post by medic_bex)
    but that's its biological purpose, whereas semen is not meant to be eaten.

    do guy's find it degrading, or even unpalatable tasting female vaginal secretions?
    Oh, it totally, totally is :eek: :p:
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    No thx, some guy on here known as Ads is interested in giving blowjobs, however. Try him.
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    (Original post by RAYPLETTS)
    Anyone wanting to give a blowjob, contact within
    Like, eew. Munter.
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    It was a joke, at least the anonymous ppl find it funny. they need to comeout of the closet hehe
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    (Original post by RAYPLETTS)
    I love the art of blowjob, it allows most girls to become artists. Which girls agree and can I recruit on TSR?
    sounds like a porn site...
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    Come on guys, just be your self
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    (Original post by red_roadkill)
    Oh, it totally, totally is :eek: :p:
    :rofl: well... i'm not trying to be prescriptivist or anything...
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    (Original post by SamTheMan)
    sounds like a porn site...
    Actually, as of late, I'd wager that it smacks altogether more positively of Channel 4.
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    (Original post by medic_bex)
    but that's its biological purpose, whereas semen is not meant to be eaten.

    do guy's find it degrading, or even unpalatable tasting female vaginal secretions?
    tbh, it depends on the girl. if u really like her then it won't matter.
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    ah you have convinced me pretty boy, you are right, every man i have given oral sex to deep dpwn thinks i am a bit of an easy **** , when i thought they looked at me in a positive light i was being naive, i must never again be so silly to believe that they are just enjoying the moment, when they are actually just trying to humiliate me. i must look such a fool. and never again will i think a guy is doing anything in bed to pleasure me, it is all for his benefit. of course.

    (Original post by Pretty_Boy)
    tbh, it depends on the girl. if u really like her then it won't matter.
    how is it not the same thing if you replace "girl" and "her" with "boy" and "him"? unless you are living before the suffragettes? a girl can be thinking the same thoughts you claim a lot of boys think, that the guy with his mouth on her "dirty parts" is degrading himself. i am certainly no raging feminist (i am sensing you are using "feminist" as a perjorative term, correct me if i am wrong) and i hate to be labelled so just because i think girls can like oral sex as much as boys! that's a cheap shot to call people feminists for picking up on your arguments like that.

    i am in love with profesh.
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    ive known one guy who didnt like head and i gave the same answer
    your wierd.

    its not degrading if the other enjoys doing it. if you enjoy recievfing it and she/he enjoys doing it whats the problem,
    maybe your just frigid
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    Just wanted to say this has been a really interesting thread to read... Kind of gave me a new perspective on the whole thing. I'm finding myself agreeing with anon11 actually.
 
 
 
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