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    JazakAllahu khayran subhanAllah. Thank u x
    No problemo
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    • The Prophet [salAllahu alayhi wa salam] said:’Whoever recites Surah Al Kahf on a Friday, Allah will kindle for him abundant light to illuminate the period between the two Fridays (the Friday on which he recited the Surah and the next Friday)’



      So read Surah al Kahf. Read it before Maghrib today.
      And in your duas remember to say one thing. Rabanna Atinah Fidunya Hasanatan Wafil Akhirati hasannatan wakina azabannarrrr. A man was heard making a dua that he wants all bad things to happen in the world so he gets the best in the akhirah.
      SAW heard this and said "It would be better for you if you said (the dua above)"




    • Surah al baqarah (1:201) is the dua.


    Keep the whole ummah in your duas and may allah grant us steadfast in deen, ameen.





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    One thing on my mind: People and culture make my marriage hard. In other words its much easier but our society makes it hard. It's through experience I learnt the sunnah is slowly vanishing, which is sad. SAW did say the best of generations will be mine, the one after, then the one after and so-forth...
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    (Original post by GeorgeAndLennie)
    One thing on my mind: People and culture make my marriage hard. In other words its much easier but our society makes it hard. It's through experience I learnt the sunnah is slowly vanishing, which is sad. SAW did say the best of generations will be mine, the one after, then the one after and so-forth...
    Are you married?
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    (Original post by Aabidah)
    Are you married?
    I recently got rejected by a potential due to the parents wanting to 'find' someone for her, so like a force marriage for their daughter out of their own will. Life goes on. Lol
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    (Original post by GeorgeAndLennie)
    I recently got rejected by a potential due to the parents wanting to 'find' someone for her, so like a force marriage for their daughter out of their own will. Life goes on. Lol
    Did the parents say this to you or did she? How did you ask? :laugh:
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    (Original post by beautifulxxx)
    I've been sad all morning subhanAllah. Going to really miss mary. May Allah bless her and grant her jannah. Ameen.
    Sis don't be upset, she will comeback very soon. I'm in touch with her 24hrs, Ameen.
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    (Original post by HAnwar)
    Make sure you send some pictures

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    I will don't worry

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    awww Congratulations May Allah make her the coolness to her parents eyes. Ameen.
    Thanks! Ameen.
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    (Original post by GeorgeAndLennie)
    I recently got rejected by a potential due to the parents wanting to 'find' someone for her, so like a force marriage for their daughter out of their own will. Life goes on. Lol
    Erm, in order to "find" someone it's the guy's family that usually sends the proposal to the girl's family i.e. the parents of the guy typically "find" a potential wife (while the girl's family accepts if they approve). Did you propose the "traditional" way (getting both your families to meet)?
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    (Original post by Ankabout)
    Erm, in order to "find" someone it's the guy's family that usually sends the proposal to the girl's family i.e. the parents of the guy typically "find" a potential wife (while the girl family accepts if they approve). Did you propose the "traditional" way (getting both your families to meet)?
    No he didn't...he'll PM you the details :lol:
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    (Original post by Ankabout)
    Erm, in order to "find" someone it's the guy's family that usually sends the proposal to the girl's family i.e. the parents of the guy typically "find" a potential wife (while the girl family accepts if they approve). Did you propose the "traditional" way (getting both your families to meet)?
    It was like that yes, and during the time I asked; I had 2 mahrams with me lol
    But it happened straight away and the parents weren't having it.

    Like I said; Life goes on.
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    (Original post by GeorgeAndLennie)
    It was like that yes, and during the time I asked; I had 2 mahrams with me lol
    But it happened straight away and the parents weren't having it.

    Like I said; Life goes on.
    Are you a girl?

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    My arabic writing is embarrassing, can any of you guys write well? Post a pic please...
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    (Original post by GeorgeAndLennie)
    It was like that yes, and during the time I asked; I had 2 mahrams with me lol
    But it happened straight away and the parents weren't having it.

    Like I said; Life goes on.
    Hmmm, seems like the parents had a different kind of proposal in mind or they're picky in whom their daughter marries. Not much you can do there, sorry. Yes life goes on.
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    (Original post by beautifulxxx)
    Are you a girl?

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    No he's a guy lol.
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    (Original post by Incredible97)
    Sis don't be upset, she will comeback very soon. I'm in touch with her 24hrs, Ameen.
    Thanks hun xx do tell her I miss her then please x if I'm not mistaken...your sister has given birth or something lol? Why is everyone congratulating u? Must have missed the post sorry x

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    (Original post by Aabidah)
    My arabic writing is embarrassing, can any of you guys write well? Post a pic please...
    I'm okay. Yeah I'll post a pic...but not on here ofc *wink*

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    (Original post by Ankabout)
    Hmmm, seems like the parents had a different kind of proposal in mind or they're picky in whom their daughter marries. Not much you can do there, sorry. Yes life goes on.
    Asians are very picky with marriage. I don't know if the family is Asian however. But the primary concern isn't even the sunnah anymore. Which is a real shame. A brother could have a fantastic Islamic character and because he's not a doc he's rejected. Smh.
    Edit: Not everyone ofc. Just the stereptypical fam I think.

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    (Original post by beautifulxxx)
    I'm okay. Yeah I'll post a pic...but not on here ofc *wink*

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    Lol why not on here?
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    (Original post by beautifulxxx)
    Thanks hun xx do tell her I miss her then please x if I'm not mistaken...your sister has given birth or something lol? Why is everyone congratulating u? Must have missed the post sorry x

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    Your welcome dear, I will don't worry. Lol she hasn't given birth, it's only been 5 months . Its okay no worries.
 
 
 
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