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I think if people are happy with what they're doing then it's their business but I'm sad that I've made my mother disappointed. What should I do?
Tell her.
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Wait a minute. You are having safe sex? Over the legal age? :zomg: Someone call the doctor.



But like seriously - tell her to mind her own business.
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Oh god, mothers.
*sigh* What to do with em?
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Uh oh. I've only just realisedthat having lube as well as condoms makes it seem like I was gonna have anal. Maybe that's why she's so disgusted with me. I wasn't going to have anal, I just think lube makes things more fun. Omg.
LOL she has got you sussed
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Say it's on the reading list.
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Im so thankful i have reasonable parents
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Haha she was angry because you wanted a iguana, and in her mind iguana = lesbian

shouldn't she be happy your buying condoms and sleeping with a man?!

tell her, if shes got a real problem with it that you'll buy the iguana and become a lesbian.
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I left for uni a few days ago. My mum's just phoned me and said that she found a receipt in my room for condoms and lube. I'm so embarrassed and I don't know what to do. I'm 22 but my mum's very strict. She was saying that I shouldn't be sleeping with anyone because all the bfs I've had so far have been complete losers and that I was making myself dirty and that no decent guy would ever take me seriously. Also, my sister let it slip that I've been thinking of dying my hair blonde ( I haven't yet) and my mum said that with the hair and the whole condoms thing combined then I was acting like a complete slapper. I don't agree with everything she says. I think if people are happy with what they're doing then it's their business but I'm sad that I've made my mother disappointed. What should I do?
best lube for condoms is glyercin from any pharma, cheap.

Even for this anal you were planning.
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LOL at the fact you're 22. Tell her about this thread on TSR and that'll embarrass her
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I left for uni a few days ago. My mum's just phoned me and said that she found a receipt in my room for condoms and lube. I'm so embarrassed and I don't know what to do. I'm 22 but my mum's very strict. She was saying that I shouldn't be sleeping with anyone because all the bfs I've had so far have been complete losers and that I was making myself dirty and that no decent guy would ever take me seriously. Also, my sister let it slip that I've been thinking of dying my hair blonde ( I haven't yet) and my mum said that with the hair and the whole condoms thing combined then I was acting like a complete slapper. I don't agree with everything she says. I think if people are happy with what they're doing then it's their business but I'm sad that I've made my mother disappointed. What should I do?
Bit rude.
Also, you are 22, do what you feel it right, some Mums hate to think their kids are having sex
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Lol, I'm 20 and my mum would probably react in the same way. Well there's nothing you can do about it now. By the time you return home, she'll probably have gotten over it.
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You're an adult, it's none of your mother's business whether you have sex or not and it's definitely not her business which type of sex you're having!
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I am shocked and appaled. Only 22? I think your a bit young for that sort of thing, lady!
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Thanks guys! Good advice, you're right, I need to stop caring about her!
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I left for uni a few days ago. My mum's just phoned me and said that she found a receipt in my room for condoms and lube. I'm so embarrassed and I don't know what to do. I'm 22 but my mum's very strict. She was saying that I shouldn't be sleeping with anyone because all the bfs I've had so far have been complete losers and that I was making myself dirty and that no decent guy would ever take me seriously. Also, my sister let it slip that I've been thinking of dying my hair blonde ( I haven't yet) and my mum said that with the hair and the whole condoms thing combined then I was acting like a complete slapper. I don't agree with everything she says. I think if people are happy with what they're doing then it's their business but I'm sad that I've made my mother disappointed. What should I do?
Just ask her would she rather you came in and announced you were pregnant, as opposed to using condoms??

she should be glad that you are being safe and taking the initiative to buy condoms.

at the end of the day, youre 22, you are your own person and if your mother chooses to look down upon you because you are doing something totally normal, and being safe about it, then thats her problem and nothing you can say will change her mindset.
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