Yea its quite a lot, you'd do well not to tell a guy that you want a relationship with. My automatic reaction would be, this is a slut and not girlfriend material. Else continue the way you are, if thats what floats your boat.
Well i see many of you have put "above average" i want to know how you know this is above average? Also who keeps count? That is like people who go out and drink and keep count of how many drinks they had on a night out, while they are doin that they are kind of missing out on the fun. Life is supposed to be about fun and experiences and sharing said experiences. Who cares how many sexual partners people have, it is no one else business and the past is the past. As long as you use protection and get checked as regularly as you have different partners there is nothing to worry about. Phew long winded speeches really take it out of me. Im done
no the number do rack up quite quickly especially if your single. i know alot of girls who have slept with more than that and guys who are about tripple that
Yes. 18-20 different men? lol that's massive.
At 20, more than 5 i'd say is overdoing it. Way too easy.
Yes, that is quite a lot..
Yeah that's a bit too much tbh. It would be put me off
But does it really mater, just stay safe (& clean).
I know loads of guys that age who have slept with more people.
Is it any different?
Its more than average but wouldnt put me off a girl. One of my best girl mates has been through about 35-40.
You bet your bloody arse it is.
If she started having sex at 16, that's about one new partner every three months and clearly not akin to some of the comments in this thread. Though, I guess it depends a little about who it's with. If she has a friendship group of about thirty guys and she's had sex with twenty of them, then that's a fairly odd but if some of them have come from holidays/festivals etc. then it's not really so extraordinary. Clearly too if she's never been in a long-term relationship, it's bound to be higher.
More than average, but who cares?