He must be a sick person to force you and scare you like this. You must inform your parent about 'what he did' and 'how you felt'. I am sure they will stand by you and protect you no matter what. He has no right to harass you and there is no excuse for his attitude.
I know exactly how it feels so please don't ignore my advice, if you feel too hurt to know exactly what to do, go ahead and express your feelings to someone professional too.

Reply 44

serenitybs65ee

Original post by balface

lolWUT.

No seriously, what the hell has that got to do with the post? Go spout your bigoted ignorance somewhere else.

I wrote that for my Asian friends who do fantasy to be friend of White English people because of wrong conception they get from media and crap histories. May be reading my comment they will not waste time and come in this racist continent wasting so much money. I prefer them to go to USA, Canada or Japan

Reply 45

Jacktri

tell him he is wrong for wanting to commit incest and you will tell all his friends about it

Reply 46

honestly

Original post by angelstie16

2 things:
make it clear to him that your not interested, say it firmly.
if he persists tell your parents.

dont be scared, he sounds very weird in fact dangerous.

be safe .... best of luck

Reply 47

balface

Original post by serenitybs65ee

You do realise by saying all those things, you're just as bigoted and equally as racist as you assume the "White English people" to be?

Putting that aside, what you have written has absolutely nothing to do with the topic that the OP is asking advice about. It's an extremley serious and distressing issue and she doesn't need racist bile cluttering up the thread.

Reply 48

mare?

Original post by angelstie16

my parents will kill him if he even tries to lay a hand on me wether they are family or not...we dont take second chances when it comes to situations like these..he has already hurt me enough emotionally.......

If you remain silent your cousin will think you agree with what's happening and things might get out of hand. I understand it might be difficult to confront him but you *really* have to tell him you want him to back off or you'll tell your parents.

Reply 49

big-boss-91

Original post by angelstie16

i do not know if this is the right site for me to talk about this but i am really concerned about my cousin.he has come to live with us for a while. i think he is sexually attracted to me and i am disturbed about this.last night when we were having dinner he pushed his chair very close to mine and started whispering in my ear....i was too scared and shocked to listen to what he was saying and to make matters worse after dinner he volunteered to help me but it was just a move to get closer to me. he started by carassing my back very slowly and when i stiffened and tried to push him away he forced his hands around me very tightly and said he loved me and i should know that. i was too scared and angry to scream out loud and started crying... i am truly creeped out about this and am need of opinions on what to do. i hope you guys can help me out on this one!! :frown:

if you're a muslim, go for it!
if you're not a muslim, talk to your parents about it asap

Reply 50

angelstie16

thanks guys for all your advice...i never realised someone so charming from outside would turn out to be such crap! by his looks you can never tell wether he will hurt anyone....he acts all sinister and good natured infront of everyone so sometimes it becomes very difficult to expose such kind of people...believe me i now realise that he has something nutty going on inside of his head!!with his good looks and attitude it becomes very easy for him to play around with people