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    he's an absolute **** and you should confront and dump him, if it were just pornographic images fair enough, but if its girls he knows thats completely different! at the end of the day u were right to be suspicious! i did the same thing before with my best mate (at the time) she claimed my boyfriend at the time was hittin on her over email and msn, so i asked if i could check her email. she said 'yeah i'll show you next time i'm with you'' but i jumped the gun and checked myself coz i knew her password. turned out she was sending naked pics of herself to him! needless to say, shes no longer my mate and hes no longer my boyfriend!
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    at least it's not full of naked male
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    (Original post by Jimbo1234)
    Not necessarily as she did find something. She could have just been insecure and checked because of that, or she could have picked up on the bf hiding something.
    Either way there is a problem and she needs to confront it.
    Yes I know she did. But the means she took to find the pictures were untrustworthy. Looking at his email may have been worth it since she found something but she was in the wrong by looking in the first place.

    I'm not saying that she shouldn't confront him, I'm just saying that she should way up her options.
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    (Original post by noggins)
    could be worse! could be naked men with beards :eek:
    I read that as "men with naked beards". :facepalm2:

    Damn those people who don't have the decency to cover their beards up while they're out in public, it's disgraceful... :teehee:
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    Stopped reading at "hacked".

    You didn't hack fuk all.
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    When you decide to leave him,... you'll get over him faster than you think, because now you know he's a creep who you've wasted your time on
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    (Original post by Emmak7)
    The thing is that I'm 100% sure he knows it would bother me and he knows he shouldn't be doing it!!
    and why the hell would he keep pictures from 2005 and 2006???

    I'm not so mad about pics he has before we started going out, I'm mad about the pics he's got (and they are A LOT) during our time together.
    Also, he lied to one of his emails to a girl and told her he was single!! and it was a recent email!
    How long have you been together?
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    i believe that he is not only your bf

    you better leave him to the sluts
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    How do you know he didn't set a trap for you? Maybe he knew you were going to check his emails and inbox and deliberately filled it up with naked girls so when you confront him saying "I found dozens of steamingly hot, naked girls rubbed with honey and chocolate. How do you explain that? And he'll be all "Well I put those there to see whether or not you were actually looking at my inbox. Now I now I can't trust you".

    Or, you know, something like that.
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    (Original post by Stasiaxx)
    How long have you been together?
    a year.
    I'm now seriously considering to dump him.
    I don't think I could trust him again.

    I could always tell him that even if he changes his password, I have a way of looking at his emails again, so I can threaten him so he doesn't do it again.
    I couldn't really trust him again...
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    (Original post by Mann18)
    You should print out the pictures, and wallpaper his room with them. Then, maybe I don't know, I'm tired, but may I suggest scrawling on the wall in faeces "PICTURE THIS; I'M LEAVING YOU."

    Either do that, or do one of those awesome collages that are a big picture, comprised of many small pictures. Make the picture be of something hilarious, or maudlin, I'll leave the details to you.

    Ciao.
    You should do this OP; nothing like creativity to get things out of your system.
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    Dump.
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    (Original post by Emmak7)
    a year.
    I'm now seriously considering to dump him.
    I don't think I could trust him again.

    I could always tell him that even if he changes his password, I have a way of looking at his emails again, so I can threaten him so he doesn't do it again.
    I couldn't really trust him again...
    The thing is you shouldn't have to threaten him he should respect you and love you as you do him, but he doesn't so even though it will really hurt it will be a lot easier if you cut your losses now ... tell him you saw the emails tell him how that made you feel then dump him because if he does it again you will have invested more time and energy and love and you will only have yourself to blame (in the sense that you could now be in a for filling relationship with someone who loves and respects you and thinks you are really hot than someone who treats you like they think the opposite)
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    Any of you?
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    (Original post by danny111)
    haha

    what difference your sex can make in forming opinions.
    I was just inclined to go on a massive rant about double standards, inequality, sexism etc....

    ...but then I saw your sig - Dexter :sexface:
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    (Original post by Emmak7)
    ...the worst thing is that many of these are women over 30...he's 25...
    How is that bad? :confused:
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    break up with him. You don't like his behaviour so find someone decent...
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    I signed into my (then, newly) ex boyfriend's email account out of curiosity and I found the same as you. However, it was probably a million times worse of his behalf as, not only had he received these pictures while we were together, the girls were followers of the charity he runs. It still makes me feel sick to think he groomed these vulnerable girls (note: the charity aims to 'cure' people through art) into sending him photos.

    I gave him a good earful. We don't talk at all now. Everyone knows what scum he is.
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    (Original post by Emmak7)
    a year.
    I'm now seriously considering to dump him.
    I don't think I could trust him again.

    I could always tell him that even if he changes his password, I have a way of looking at his emails again, so I can threaten him so he doesn't do it again.
    I couldn't really trust him again...
    Uh-uh. Nothing like threats to rekindle love. If you're not happy, then leave! Staying together will just make the both of you miserable. His online activity is creepy, but so is your prying and intolerance. Just admit both of you are at fault and call it a day.
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    (Original post by Emmak7)
    Ok, I admit maybe I shouldn't have hacked his hotmail and facebook but his hotmail is FULL of pictures of different girls (whom he knows).

    He's still kept naked pics of his ex and tons of other girls whom I don't know at all. (the worst thing is that many of these are women over 30...he's 25).

    What annoys me more is RECENT pictures of online "friends" of his! I also found a comment on fb where he said that he's said a naked picture of himself to a girl and that was when we were going out

    I feel so hurt, I don't know what to do!!

    How should I tell him? I feel so mad and hurt
    Ok...lets see... you dont trust him...and he's a jerk for doing this to you. I hate to say it but obviously things arent working out. Guys like that rarely change for the better so if youre not comfortable with what he is maybe you should just look for another bf. Maybe you shouldnt have invaded his privacy but he definitely SHOULDNT have done what he did, you have every right to tell him.
 
 
 
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