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    I don't really think it's a big deal. Kissing isn't, in my opinion, this huge amazing significant thing that everyone makes it out to be lol.
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    (Original post by lukas1051)
    I'm not gonna lie, or be all wooly and cautious about it - I'm sure most people in society will agree... that is pretty sad. You're 20, it's bound to happen soon, it won't be magical or amazing you'll just be like "oh, ok, that was pretty nice".

    It's pointless telling you that you need to wait, and it doesn't matter, and your first time will be special... it's nice, but it's not true.
    at my age, i'm beyond thinking something is special.

    i dont care about it being special, i just want experience. experience is key for anything in life. people look highly on those with experience and by waiting for the 'right person', that contradicts my want for experience.
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    (Original post by student568)
    i dont want no peck on the cheek though. i mean more intense stuff on the lips
    Now that's why you haven't got one yet.
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    It's not really that sad. I had mine at 16, but it was light stuff on the lips with a girl and doesn't count. A girlfriend of mine is 17 and counting and still hasn't.
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    Why would it be sad?
    Don't worry about it, once you do kiss a girl, it won't matter that you hadn't done it up until then.
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    Its extremely sad. I just cried all over my keyboard. Excuse me whilst i go and wash my tear stained face.
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    Unusual but not sad.
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    I loled, not sad at all.
    Why would you want to eat someone else's saliva yuk!
    So what you are 20 I have seen people who are 30 and they have't kissed any one.
    Plus I am 19 and I have never ever kissed any one in my life.
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    i won't lie, it is a bit sad. and i know how you feel because i didn't have mine until i was 17 and i was pretty down about it before that. tbh, as soon as you have your first kiss you'll just find something else to worry about like when you'll lose your virginity or when you get a girlfriend so it's an endless circle!
    just chill out, it'll come when you least expect it - i'd lay money on it.
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    (Original post by MUN123)
    I loled, not sad at all.
    Why would you want to eat someone else's saliva yuk!
    So what you are 20 I have seen people who are 30 and they have't kissed any one.
    Plus I am 19 and I have never ever kissed any one in my life.
    THAT is sad.
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    (Original post by student568)
    and never kissed a girl before? be 100% honest please.

    this is the sort of stuff that you should do, or most people do, at 12 or 13 years old. and i'm 20!

    i did go to a boys school and the small amount of socialising i did with girls was purely friendly.

    dont know what else to say. tell me how i can change and feel free to ask me any questions. i will give an answer to all genuine non-troll replies.

    fyi, i'm not the stereotypical short, ugly, spotty, socially retarded computer nerd.
    If it makes you feel sad, then it's sad. If it doesn't, then it isn't. I don't see why on earth you care about the opinions of others.
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    (Original post by student568)

    fyi, i'm not the stereotypical short, ugly, spotty, socially retarded computer nerd.
    You've told us what you're not.
    Now tell us what you are :cool:
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    I'm 19 and have only ever had two kisses in my entire life, to two different guys as well :erm:. It does get me down sometimes that it isn't many more, so I know how you feel about lack of experience. But meh, life could be much worse. I dunno, just keep waiting and having a fun life, the right person will come along eventually
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    (Original post by ithoughtofthis)
    You've told us what you're not.
    Now tell us what you are :cool:
    This.
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    Yes it's very sad. And now people are telling you to " Wait it will happen when it happens ".... That's what you're supposed to say for sex, not kissing. OP you're going to be severely dissapointed with your first kiss and will be wondering what all the fuss was about.
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    (Original post by CherryCherryBoomBoom)
    I'm 19 and have only ever had two kisses in my entire life, to two different guys as well :erm:. It does get me down sometimes that it isn't many more, so I know how you feel about lack of experience. But meh, life could be much worse. I dunno, just keep waiting and having a fun life, the right person will come along eventually
    Aren't you like that beautiful African girl who posts in the thread for black people's hair? If I met you lol I would have been your third
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    Yes because there's no reason you couldn't have kissed a girl in a club. Go do that. Start dancing with a few girls and go in for a kiss and you will get it, providing you aren't weird and you are with your own group of friends (to make you look not weird).
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    (Original post by TheCurlyHairedDude)
    Aren't you like that beautiful African girl who posts in the thread for black people's hair? If I met you lol I would have been your third
    Aww, thanks . How sweet :cute:
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    (Original post by CherryCherryBoomBoom)
    Aww, thanks . How sweet :cute:
    At least you've kissed though, I think not kissing by twenty is actually weird, I wouldn't look down on someone because of that though, just a bit ermm.... where have you been for your teenage life kindaaa thing lol
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    reinventing the stereotype, I see
 
 
 
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